Text / Sister Ai
My best friend called me recently and said that it’s boring to fall in love with a hobby. Is it true that all feelings will eventually lose their passion and become so boring?
There is no interesting topic for two people together. It is often each holding their own mobile phones, and dating is those eating and hanging out to watch movies. It's really boring!
Is there any way to keep us sweet and passionate in love?
In fact, nothing in this world will always be the same, especially in the relationship, all the vigor will be flat.
Expecting love to stay fresh forever is like expecting beauty to stay young forever, at least at this stage is impossible. All we can do is delay the pace of aging and make the beauty as long as possible.
In relationships, what we have to do is to make the two people's passion last as long as possible.
What should I do? Sister Ai has a few tips:
1 Don’t pay special attention to such things as anniversaries and holidays.
Holiday gifts are useless at all. They are pure waste of money. These are just traps of consumerism.
Two people live together, and there are still many places to spend money. This kind of unnecessary consumption can save money. Just have each other in your heart.
2 Stay together as much as possible
Nothing is more important than being with two people.
Even if you go to work, you must ensure that you return at any time and give the other party a sense of security.
It is best not to go out to chat, eat and play games with your previous buddies to prevent them from thinking too much.
Only in this way can the relationship be stable,Prevent derailment.
3 Be true to yourself
They are both old and old wives. Can you still know how much each other is? Therefore, there is nothing to hide and be yourself.
Girls don’t need to make up every day and buy new clothes. They have seen you wearing pajamas and picking your feet. What is there to worry about in front of him?
Men don’t even need to care about clothes, shoes, hairstyles, otherwise the other party may suspect that you have other ideas!
4 Dare to point out the shortcomings and mistakes of the other party
Good feelings must grow together. If you find the shortcomings of the other party, you must dare to speak up like Wei Zheng, put it forward, and let him correct it.
5 Don't lose weight together
Don't lose weight together, this will make the other person mistakenly think that you dislike him for being fat.
Don't say exercise together, study together, this will make the other person feel that you don't think he is motivated enough.
6 Quarrel well, save the old account in the future
quarrel when there is a conflict, and make it clear once.
Even if you have to be noisy until the middle of the night, you are not afraid, anyway, the other party will not leave casually, saving him the next time to turn over the old account.
Every quarrel must be won as much as possible, so that he will be afraid to quarrel with you and listen to you. How about
, do you see something wrong?
Yes,The last couple who did this have been breaking up for a long time.
In the final analysis, lacks a sense of ritual, is no longer willing to dress up, speaks and does things too directly, does not take into account the feelings of the other party, lacks common goals, common topics, common interests, lacks appropriate distance, and does not know how to communicate... These points are some very important reasons why many feelings are rapidly aging and even death.
If you want to keep your relationship fresh, don't make any of these mistakes.
Learn to create surprises for each other, with more romantic little details, makes ordinary life alive and lively, instead of repeating it day after day, don’t be too lazy to operate because of the long time together, no I am willing to pay, use the old husband and wife to toss about something, as an excuse;
Always keep a positive attitude, strive to improve yourself , stay with the other half, move forward and strive towards the common goal Communicate with each other in time, so that you can maintain fresh vitality and not fall into the embarrassment of not having a common language;
At the same time, we must also understand that love is not all in adult life, we have other things to do Therefore, it is necessary to keep a moderate distance and give the other party enough freedom. Strong11strong is independent and dependent on each other, which is the best way of love ;
There is nothing wrong with being yourself in love, but the most taboo is If you say that you love me, you must accept the true me, all me, and treat the other person’s love and patience for you as your selfish, lazy, and low EQ capital. The person who loves you can tolerate your shortcomings, but he/she will also have his/her own bottom line. Over time, he/she will also be sad;
are all adults, we need to understand,To get along for a long time, maintains an intimate relationship really requires wisdom. What problems happen should be learned to communicate well and use wisdom to solve them instead of arguing blindly. It will only release emotions and even add fuel to the fire. Escalation of contradictions...
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