The uncle became romantic when he was young, his wife was divorced, his son died, and the ending when he was old makes people cry

Text: A game and a dream

Picture: From the Internet

A handsome eldest grandmother of my father He was the first person in our village to walk out of the farm gate. When he was a soldier in the army, he participated in the Laoshan frontline war and won first-class merit.

After he was demobilized from the army in 1987, he was assigned to the county food management bureau as the leader and married the wife of our county business. I remember that in 1989, when we were all riding bicycles, he drove a Honda King motorcycle every time he went home. I was still in the first year of junior high school. When I asked about the price, I almost fainted. He said he wanted to. 38,000, and my tuition was only more than 20 yuan.

Later, when my family had the first motorcycle, he had already driven Audi. Good conditions are a good thing, but when he was young, the uncle was particularly fond of play. He heard from his younger brother that since they had children, their husbands and wives were at a disagreement. When his wife gave birth, he was still outside with him. Other women are fighting together.

In 1993, the uncle’s wife finally couldn’t bear it and brought some materials to the relevant department to report his extramarital affairs.For this reason, the couple turned against each other, and the wife went back to live in her natal house in anger and threw her 5-year-old son to the uncle. The two were separated.

During the period, the uncle's bad habits remained unchanged. He often lived with some women and lacked care for his son. He usually gave his son money and allowed him to eat out by himself. When his son was 9 years old, he and his wife went through the divorce procedures, and the child was sentenced to him. Unexpectedly, half a year later, his son had a brain tumor. In the hospital, he thought it was troublesome to take care of the child and directly pushed it to his ex-wife. After half a year, The son passed away.

From then on, the single uncle became even more bohemian. He kept changing his girlfriends, but he never got married.

After his uncle retired, he took his elderly mother from the countryside to the city and lived with him at the age of 95 until 2015.

In 2019, the uncle suffered a stroke, which caused the right half of the body to be paralyzed and he was unable to take care of himself. After being discharged from the hospital, in September of that year, he moved to the local area with relatively good conditions Nursing home.

The uncle’s retirement salary is more than 7,000. In the nursing home, he lives in a single room. At first, I visited him once. I felt that the caregiver’s service was good, the doctor was also equipped, and there were rehabilitation training. Uncle leaned on crutches,You can also walk ten or twenty meters.

Because there is no wife and children, the only brother of the uncle is now working in Changzhou, the family pressure is also very high, and he rarely visits his brother.

But since October 2020, the uncle’s paralysis has become more and more serious, and he often stays in bed. Since there are no children and relatives to visit, the nurses’ attitude towards him is getting worse.

In mid-March of this year, my father took me to visit the uncle again, and found that his eyes looked a little dull. He was wearing adult diapers and was full of urine, so the nurse came to change carelessly. , The attitude is very cold, rubbing the body, the nurse feels stinky, and occasionally rubbing it is just a casual deal. Sometimes the uncle is thirsty and will endure it until the nurse comes.

Over the past four months, the uncle has changed a lot. The former elegant and chic has become extremely thin, and his eyes no longer have the brilliance of the past.

My father has repeatedly encouraged the uncle not to be discouraged, and must survive, don’t be lazy, and take more rehabilitation training to get up as soon as possible.

But the uncle shook his head. He kept saying that he had nothing to live.It is a state of nothing to love. Once the belief in life is gone, the body will only get worse and worse. Seeing him look lonely and helpless, I couldn't help crying.

I remember a saying in the bible: "What is the kind of people, what is harvested". When the uncle was young, he only cared about his own comfort. When he was old, he became lonely and helpless. This kind of ending is actually fair. The blessing that people enjoy is like a glass of water, and there is also a quantity. When he was young, he chose to drink water. Light, you will be able to accept the fate of thirst when you are old.

I just hope my uncle will not suffer too many sins in the few days in his life.

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