After the divorce, I learned that the toilet must be cleaned every day, and the child did not grow up by himself.

In his life, I have never seen a man over 40 cry like a concubine in front of someone who is not very close.

I thought that today would be a relaxing and enjoyable weekend. I thought I could take my children in the park to bask in the sun, play in the sand, and enjoy a rare leisure time.

Reluctantly, the heavens are not beautiful, it has been raining outside and sometimes accompanied by thunder.

"It's good without going out!" I thought.

Although there are no clothes to wash at home, my wife and children always "appreciate" my cooking skills as always.

However, a call from an old senior who hadn't contacted in the past two years came, and I had to "reluctantly" attend the appointment.

I have come back now, but my mood is as dull as today's weather.

One of his words, divinity initiation, is not so much his self-confession, it is more of a kind of alert to me: "After the divorce, I knew that the toilet must be flushed every day, and the child did not grow up by himself. Yes!"

01

Lao Yang was my senior in college. When I was a freshman, he was a junior in the department and was the chairman of the student council.

He was very positive and motivated at that time, and he was my role model.

He is modest and courteous, his personality is unassuming but he is very in control. This quality has actually been maintained to this day, and he was once in a good mood.

When I was in college, he took me to do a lot of things, and some experiences benefited me for life.

plus some later collaborations, although in the end we went our separate ways, but I have always maintained a good relationship with him.

Only two years ago, the contact between us gradually disappeared. Our last meeting was when he was divorced. I remember that night, he was extremely excited.

cursed his wife "I don't know the blessing in the blessing", he even told us:

"Don't pet your wife too hard, they will never know how satisfied! You make less money, they force you Go to earn more money, you earn more money, they will complain that you don’t take time to accompany her, anyway, there will be endless complaints!"

"You work hard outside, she just feels that she has paid a lot for the family , Do you think it’s easy for us men!"

"It’s easy not to go out to work. It’s so easy to bring children to cook at home. If I were a woman, I can’t ask for it! She still doesn’t know how to cherish it, she doesn’t know what she is thinking about every day!

After being drunk, he almost screamed frantically: "I'm free again!"

At that time, his son was 4 years old, and his wife had been a housewife for more than 5 years, and finally left the house without anything. , I just want to leave the marriage and stay away from him.

As for why his wife wants to divorce so desperately, we don't understand. Whatever he says is what it is. Who makes us unfamiliar with his wife!

02

When he saw him, he had already ordered the food, he was still so passionate, but his face had been traced by the years.

He seemed to care about me and asked a lot of questions about my personal life. I only told him that I was a very serious person and never thought of messing around, and occasionally quarreled with my wife, but it would not hurt my peace.

He asked me: "Is your wife taking care of the children at home now?"

I smiled disapprovingly: "Yes, I am the head of the family, hold on to God!"

"Then you have to be considerate Your wife! It's hard to take the kids!" he said.

"Of course, didn't I have a baby for more than half a year last year, I can understand it!"

"...You kid understands a fart! Do you dare to say that you didn't want to run out today!"

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then,His expression gradually dimmed, and we asked each other about the current situation of some people around us, and we talked about his marriage.

In recent years, he has not remarried.

He is eligible for remarriage, but when asked why, he just said indifferently: "If the child doesn't like it, I can't do it!"

"How is your ex-wife doing now?"

"Very good Good! I married someone soon, and looking at her circle of friends, it should be a happy life!"

"Have she come back to see the child?"

"No, not even once." He said lightly.

I was a little surprised: "It's not like it! That is her own life! She is so cruel?"

03

Here comes this story:

His wife is a very nice woman. She has met several times before. She is the kind of person that ordinary people can’t hold. She can play well before marriage, but returns to the family wisely after marriage. .

Although Lao Yang's conditions are good and he runs a small company with dozens of people, he is still a little stressed after the child is born.

His wife will also urge him to move forward when he wants to be "lazy", and he can't ask for it. She goes out early and returns late every day, saying that she is socializing outside.

His wife is naturally considerate of his hard work, and has never complained about it.

Over time, he has become accustomed to it, and often chooses to spend the night outside.

Her dissatisfaction began here. She hoped that he could spend more time with her and children, but he still went his own way, thinking that he did not do anything to sorry his wife, so that his wife should not be suspicious.

After the child went to kindergarten, Lao Yang’s mother could not bear with her daughter-in-law staying at home and letting her son carry everything. There were many complaints about this.It is commonplace to greet with a cold face.

His wife once quarreled with him hysterically: "After being married for so many years, what have you done for this family!? What have you done for me?"

Old Yang, who was full of alcohol at the time, said in surprise, " Lao Tzu has worked so hard to make money for you alone. At a young age, his hair is gray, isn’t that enough! Lao Tzu didn’t pay? Whose money did you spend? Didn’t I earn it hard? You don’t have to worry about eating or drinking at home. Do whatever you want, others are envious of it, you are still not satisfied! What else do you want!?"

The wife argued: "Do you think this is enough!? Do you think I am at home easily You think you are the one who supported this family. You can’t see my hard work and dedication at all. Do you know my suffering!?”

Lao Yang couldn’t listen at all. He always felt that his wife was bringing a baby at home. His hard work is not worth mentioning!

It turns out that his wife is still that tough woman, she is determined to divorce, without conditions, no children, no money, just want to leave him, a man who wasted her life.

04

I can see that he drank too much, said everything, and started crying, even if the next table was already seated.

"You know, after divorcing her, I have been looking for someone who can take care of the children in her place."

"But! But the children I like don't like them!"

"I pretend to be A filial son, he will never gnaw old in this life, but I still let my old mother help me as a nanny for two years!"

"Don't look at me like a person, tell you, I'm really not a person !"

"Only a few days before my mother moved here, I learned that the toilet needs to be cleaned every day, and the child did not grow up by himself! He can prevent you from being cloned for a while!"

" It turned out that I was looking for a babysitter to serve my family! Who do you think would be willing?"

"..."

Seeing that the situation is wrong,I called the waiter, settled the bill, helped him out and got into the car.

The rain is still falling, he should be really drunk, and he is quiet in the back seat.

I drove the car and fell into deep thought.

I pretend to be a reliable man. I have suffered and been exhausted. I have been a full-time dad, and I am also responsible for supporting the family.

I think I have the experience of a daddy, enough to understand a woman who takes a baby full-time, but I know it is enough for me to behave, but I don't really take it seriously in my heart.

I was talking about sharing, but in fact I would still find opportunities to "slip and rape", just like today, find an excuse to sneak out.

man! We all know that we need a woman, but we often want a woman like a nanny. The key is that many people still don't know how to respect their labor and treat them as "fertility tools" or even servants.

The unsatisfied, in fact, it has always been us!

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