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"What is missing in your marriage that will make you feel that you can no longer maintain it?" Some people say it is trust, some say it is loyalty, and some say it is money.
One very important and interesting phenomenon is that most wives' answers to this are related to emotional factors, while most husbands' answers to this are related to material factors. The man's so rational and calm answer feels a bit "terrible".
Whenever we meet with old friends and classmates, we can't help but sigh, "It's better when we are young!" Because we used to live freely every day, but the biggest troubles we encountered in life It is the decline in academic performance, or the awkwardness with a good friend. But in fact, such unhappiness will soon disappear and regain happiness.
Now that we are finally grown up, when we were young, how eager to be able to grow up free from the control and nagging of our parents, but nowadays the difficulties and discomforts in life are more and more, it seems that the older the age, the harder it is to get real happiness . When a woman enters the 30-year-old stage, she will begin to worry about her appearance and aging. After entering the 40-year-old stage, she will have greater anxiety and anxiety, and she will become less and less confident in marriage and relationships.
Today we will talk with everyone from the perspective of men, why do girls always fail to meet the good men they dream of? Perhaps only after truly understanding men’s true thoughts in relationships, women can better understand the true meaning of emotions.
1. "Men are always more realistic than you think, women should not be too naive"
Everyone seems to think that the vanity worshippers in today's society are more women, but everyone does not know that sometimes men are more realistic than women Much. There used to be a couple, men and women are very good-looking, and the families of both parties are also very good. However, the two have been in love for nearly six years, and they are still reluctant to enter this stage of marriage.
What is even more surprising is that after the two broke up, the man quickly found a new love and quickly received a marriage certificate. The reason he gave is also very simple, "The wives of my friends are all wealthy and powerful at home.Such words will definitely help their careers. And my ex-girlfriend is of the same family background as mine, so naturally I can't expect her to help me much in the future. If it's appropriate to fall in love, marriage isn't always the case. "_P1p
The man said that a six-year relationship was so calm and gentle, it was a bit too sloppy. Some people say that men have been reluctant to marry her home because the love is not deep enough, but this is not the case. Everyone, please don’t simply sum up the reason for separating each relationship as "not enough love".
When the two were together, they were indeed happy and beautiful, and the men also gave their sincere deeds. Not to mention the two of them. After being together for so many years and giving so much time and affection, how can you be willing to do this if it is not true love? If there is no love, how can a man persist for these six years?
It's just that after a man weighs his interests I chose to give up this feeling. This is the manifestation of the "reality" in a man's heart: it is one thing for him to love you, but it is another thing for him to marry you. A man can talk to you for various reasons When you are together, men will become more cautious when it comes to getting married. Whether to love or not is second, the key is to find a woman who can bring value to yourself is the most important.
2, " A woman who doesn’t know how to talk about money with a man often won’t live too happily.”
Whenever we talk about the “reality” factor, the most direct thing we think of is money. No man wants to marry a man who won’t make money. , Women who have no savings and never care about their families go home. We live in this society where everything needs to spend money on food, clothing, housing and transportation, but if a woman takes the initiative to talk about money with a man, she will be accused of vanity worshiping money. Have women ever thought about this? It's just an excuse used by men to hide their true thoughts about the empty glove white wolf.
Jia Jia cried and said, "I have been with him since college and I have worked hard to make money from scratch. I'm not afraid of hardship or tiredness, but now we are at the stage of discussing marriage and marriage, he is not even willing to give 50,000 yuan as a gift from our family, and he accuses me of worshipping money too much. Is it true that I can only be regarded as true love by not marrying him directly without a penny? _P1p
Maybe, if this girl had talked about money with her boyfriend earlier,Then you can see his true face earlier, and you won't have to wait until now that everyone has wasted so many years of precious youth. In fact, talking about money in a relationship is not a vulgar thing, and true love is not necessarily pure and flawless.
The reality of firewood, rice, oil and salt is indispensable in marriage, and no one can escape. A woman who doesn't know how to talk about money with men is naive to think that she wants to completely conquer men with her sincere heart. Think about it from another perspective, when a woman talks about money with a man in a relationship, it is a touchstone in the relationship. You can take this opportunity to test the other's true heart and see if he wants to spend the rest of his life with you or just wants to deceive you. feeling.
3. The happiness and security that women want are all given to themselves
Although we recommend women to talk about money with men, it does not mean that you have to go directly to him to say "You give me some money!" A smart woman must understand that when she talks about money with men, she must have enough confidence and confidence. If you don't have anything by yourself, but you are wondering how to get men to bet more money on yourself, it must be impossible!
When a man loves you, he is willing to pay you, but when he doesn't love you, he can pay you nothing. He will not take the initiative to spend a lifetime's money for you, and he is unwilling to "help the poor" for you for a lifetime. Men have many considerations and hesitations about marriage, and only a relationship that is evenly matched and works together can be stable and lasting. Women have enough chips in their hands to talk about the exchange of love with men!
Women should put their minds on themselves, think more about how to improve their personal charm, and how to seek marriage protection. The sense of security and happiness is always given to yourself!
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