Text: The Cradle of Love
Use the simplest text to warm you, accompany you, guide you to grow, and help you be strong.
"Zeng Guang Xian Wen" writes: "Everything persuades people to stay away from ignorance, and there is a god who raises their heads."
It is impossible not to lie or deceive in one's life, but it cannot harm the interests of others. Learn to tolerate and empathize, you will also get different happiness and gains.
Living in the world, we must understand this truth, and don't do things that are against morals and conscience.
Did not intentionally hurt others, did not push others into the abyss, did not cause others to feel pain, there would be no enmity with others, and there would be no more and more enemies.
Interpersonal communication, understanding, tolerance, and proper regress is not a bad thing. It may bring you some help and help you grow.
I have heard such a sentence: "Hurting others is actually hurting yourself."
Everything is relative. For example: When you slap a person hard, you will also be bounced back by the same force.
Really smart people know how to protect themselves and the dignity of others. They will not be unhappy when getting along, and they will not hate each other. People like
get much more than they lose.
The more you think, the more you know how to do things, the easier it will be to touch others, and the less likely it will be to cause trouble to your upper body.
To tell the truth, what kind of life a person will lead, whether it is exciting, whether it is happy, is up to oneself. The smarter a woman is, the more she understands the "three non-compliances".
01 never ask for love blindly, know that love is mutual
Love is more than asking.
If you want to have a sincere love, and you want to live a happy and fulfilling day every day, you can't just ask for it, don't give it, or just ask the other person to give it.
Anyone who pays for a long time will feel tired and want to "take a break".
If love is not for two people to give together,It is not that two people invest time and energy together. It is easy to break up, and two people are likely to be separated.
Really smart women will find the secret of getting along with men, so that men can also gain a lot of love and warmth.
I have thought in empathy, knowing what to do to make two people feel relaxed, both feel that love is a beautiful thing, and both want someone to be with me.
02 Never talk about right and wrong, and be good at controlling one's own mouth.
A word spoken casually may ruin a person's life, and may cause a person to spend the second half of the game in pain. The whole person does not seem to have any energy.
If you cause fatal harm to others, you will feel guilty and have many nightmares.
unintentionally affects a person, which I have never thought of. When this kind of thing happens, it is difficult for me to accept it, and I often think "If you don't say it, the result may not be the case."
"The speaker is not interested, the listener is interested."
The speaker does not pay attention, but the obedient person pays attention. When communicating with people, think about every word you say, and you can't just say it with your mouth open.
The smarter a person is, the more understanding he lives, the more he knows how to speak less, and sometimes he will keep silent.
If you do not gossip or talk about other people's things, you will gain the trust of many people, will expand your social circle, and your life will be smoother.
03 Never complain about life, know how to manage your emotions
The more people who complain about life, the worse they will be.
Every day's life is full of negative energy, and if good luck is at the bottom, it will be difficult to stand up for the rest of my life, and it will be difficult to live the life I want to live.
I am always dissatisfied with the present, always say a lot of complaints, and always have a negative attitude. The things that happen in life are beyond my imagination, and they will bring me a lot of loss.
Tell me, I have always been in a bad mood, I have no intention of doing things, and things I have to do may be wrong.
deliberately vent to others,Give all the negative energy to others, then others will not endure it again and again, that is to say, you are likely to get into trouble with a few words.
Smart people know how to leave and change the status quo.
When I encounter difficulties and feel unsatisfactory in life, I will persuade myself to be patient, I will say that this is a test for myself, I will tell myself to survive, and I will see the rainbow.
Whenever something happens, keep an optimistic attitude, then the thing is not a thing, it will be resolved soon, and it will not affect your life and development at all.
Summary:
Sometimes, it is a good thing to say less, it is a kind of protection for yourself.
People are alive, and you must pay attention at all times. Not everything can be spoken. Some things must be rotten in the stomach and cannot be spoken to anyone.
Appropriately shut up, swallow some words, will not be disgusted by others, will not become a thorn in the eyes of others, will not be a thorn in the flesh, will not cause trouble to the upper body, and will not be harmed.
In interpersonal communication, you need to know how to get along with others, what to do to have one more friend, and one more person to help you in your life.
If you can think about it and do it, then your life will become more and more exciting, and you will become more and more happier.
-END-
Author: love reading, love writing, love to think, Ganaiganhen northern girl. Freelance writer, emotional mentor who helps countless people get out of psychological dilemma.
.-
-
-
-
-
-
-
-
-
-
-
-
-
-
-
-
-
-
-
-
-
-