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Author: Dream deer
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Recently, some media reports, the 41-year-old Elva hanging over the intracranial pressure because emergency, so many people worried.
That year, Xiao Yaxuan quickly started his singing career through the talent show, and was also recognized by professionals in the industry, which completely opened the market.
The first album of the same name "Elva Hsiao" has sold 500,000 copies, becoming the Taiwan record sales champion that year. In the second year, the album "Red Rose" was released, which won the world's highest-selling singer in Chinese records from 1999 to 2000.
At that time, she, Stefanie Sun, Jingru Leong, and Jolin Tsai were called the "Four Little Queens of Taiwan".
Several other singers continue to be active in front of the screen in their own different ways. Only Xiao Yaxuan can think of her not works, but her astonishing sibling romances.
She has always been hailed as "Miss Chic", but now she has to admit defeat and accept her old age. Under high-intensity work pressure, her health has sounded an alarm.
Despite this, many people still questioned Xiao Yaxuan, thinking that she put all her thoughts in her feelings and neglected her career, which made people a little confused.
There is no stipulation that a woman must be a lonely person in order to succeed, completely ignoring her feelings.
Anyone who knows Xiao Yaxuan knows that although she grew up in a single-parent family, her mother is a chairman and has a good material life since she was a child. When her mother passed away, there were more than 1 billion inheritance waiting for her to inherit.
But she is not a "rice bug", she still proves herself in her own way, and wants to use her favorite way to get everyone's affirmation.
But behind her silent efforts, what she got was everyone's misunderstanding.
Behind any successful woman, there is effort and price you can't imagine.
We only see Xiao Yaxuan’s chic surface,But I don't know what the price she paid for this: regretfully missed her mother's last time, her feelings were misunderstood time and time again, and her mental state was sometimes good and bad.
all say that this society is too unfriendly to women. If you want to be successful and want to be affirmed by others, you must make an unimaginable effort.
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I remember that in the TV series "Meeting Happiness", the heroine Zhen Kaikai decided to divorce after learning that her husband had cheated, but in order to take care of the children, she had to give up her favorite career to take care of the children.
When she was about to find a stable career for her children, she discovered that this society is full of discrimination against married women with children.
One of the well-meaning executives told her that the reason why she still dare not have children when she is close to 50 is that when you choose to marry and have children, your years of career efforts and achievements will be wasted. When you return, Everything has changed.
The cruelty of this society is beyond your imagination.
is like Lan Xi, who plays the young master Mei Zhuang in "The Legend of Zhen Huan". When her career was the most prosperous, she chose to marry and have children. She confidently believed that she was just taking a rest for a year or two and would not have much influence. There will be very good scripts and good directors.
But she was still too naive, and when she came back after giving birth, she realized that the market had changed a long time ago, and new people had always appeared to replace her.
She had to make a match for those flow niches, playing the elders at a young age.
That is to say, only after recognizing this fact will many female celebrities choose surrogacy, pregnancy, or a flashback after pregnancy and childbirth.
It is not easy for women in the workplace now. Not only are they not understood by men, but more importantly, young women will have misunderstandings.
In "Xiaohuanxi", Dong Wenjie had to accept punishment from the unit because his son had to be punished by the company because of his son's repeated skipping of work in the college entrance examination.
The differences in gender, thinking, cognition, and misunderstandings brought to women can be reluctantly accepted.But when women misunderstand women, they are more desperate for society.
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In "The Strange Flower Story", one of the debaters once said about a case around him: If in the financial circle, there is a woman who can sit in the position of senior management, it is not unmarried and unborn, just Must be forced to DINK.
In the workplace, even if women have higher professional abilities, they will still choose to promote men who are slightly inferior to you from management considerations.
Because God has given women too many inherent responsibilities, pregnancy and childbirth are one of her unavoidable vocations.
When the child falls to the ground, the important tasks of nurturing and education will be more inclined to the mother.
Everyone's energy is limited. When you allocate part of your energy to your children, you will reduce your energy in the workplace.
There is a classic line in "Find You": "This era has very high demands on women. If you choose to become a working woman, someone will say that you are a terrible mother. If you choose to become a full-time mother, there will be people I think it’s not a profession.”
Therefore, more and more women are reluctant to give up the workplace, but still bear the responsibilities and obligations of their mothers, which brings them more challenges and pressures.
Many men in marriage believe that as a member of the family, you must make your own efforts for the family. Even if you are a mother, you should share the responsibility of the family with him. I hope that you are virtuous and considerate and can take good care of your family. I also hope that you can carry the financial burden with him.
This society is friendly to women, but they did not complain about it, just hope that they can be understood and respected by everyone.
Just like Xiao Yaxuan's illness this time, many people say that he is responsible for his own sake. If he puts all his energy on feelings on his career, he may still be the chic queen.
No one really understands Xiao Yaxuan, no matter how good a career she has, no matter how much money she still can’t make up for her mental loneliness, let alone,There is nothing wrong with a woman who wants to pursue her love.
Xiao Yaxuan wants to help her boyfriend Huang Hao, who has entered the entertainment industry, to participate in multiple variety shows, so that she is exhausted, but she wants her lover to truly embark on the career that she loves, grow together with each other, and let the two of them grow together The relationship is more lasting.
Women’s pressures and contributions in the workplace and marriage cannot be understood by men. The reasons can be found from physical and psychological aspects, but women’s incomprehension of women is really puzzling.
Why should a woman embarrass a woman? Whatever she has to suffer, why should another woman continue to bear it?
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Today’s topic: What do you think of Xiao Yaxuan’s illness this time?
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