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Being a parent not only has to work hard to raise children, but when the children grow up, they also have to worry about their children's life events. In short, after having children, parents will lose their freedom and rights.
For their children, parents are willing to give everything they have. They don't ask for anything in return, and they don't hide themselves. As long as the child needs it, parents will do everything they can to meet the child's needs, even if it is far beyond their capabilities.
is just relative to the selfless dedication of their parents, who enjoy the benefits of their parents, how many of them treat their parents well after they get married and set up a family? Comparing heart to heart, the love of parents for their children is selfless, while the love of children for their parents is valuable.
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After working as a paid nanny for his son's family for six years, the daughter-in-law said that the relationship between the mother-in-law and the daughter-in-law was incompatible and sent Aunt Chen back to her hometown. In fact, Aunt Chen didn't want to leave at all. She had long regarded her son's house as her own. Moreover, even if she went back to her hometown, her wife would have died long ago, leaving her alone and deserted.
But she can't go back, she knows very well that the daughter-in-law dislikes her as a hindrance, and dislikes her for nothing. In addition, the son looked at his daughter-in-law and criticized his mother, but was silent, saying nothing, let alone defending her.
Aunt Chen is chilling. After six years of working as a paid nanny, she is also completely tired. For so many years, the daughter-in-law has never shown her a good face. Although she spent the past six years at her son's home and worked hard to serve her son and daughter-in-law's family of three, she still couldn't warm her daughter-in-law's heart.
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Aunt Chen, who returned to her hometown, looked at the deserted house and couldn't help tears. But no matter how sad and sad, she can only bite the bullet and stop. As the saying goes, golden kennels and silver kennels are not as good as their own dog kennels.
After returning home, although she was much deserted and there were no grandchildren playing around, Aunt Chen had a more comfortable life because she finally got rid of her daughter-in-law and no longer needed to be careful to please her.
It’s just that Aunt Chen always takes care of everything in her six years of helping her son’s house.Lest the daughter-in-law dislike her as useless. So that, now that she comes back to live in her hometown, she always feels that her body is getting worse every day.
But as long as it is not a serious problem, Aunt Chen forced herself to be patient and passed. After all, it is not easy for her son to go back and forth. But when she was considerate of her son's hard work, his son still did not hesitate to ask her for money.
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The daughter-in-law said that they wanted to change to a new school district room, but the down payment was not enough. They hoped Aunt Chen would provide some pension money to help them. But Aunt Chen only had 50,000 pension money in her hand, and given them this money, Aunt Chen had no money to support her. And this fact, the son and daughter-in-law are also clear.
Aunt Chen refused decisively, she didn't want to go to the point where she was old and helpless. Her refusal annoyed the daughter-in-law, and the young couple walked away, not coming back to visit Aunt Chen for a long time.
When Aunt Chen fell ill and needed her son to come back to take care of her, the daughter-in-law did not agree, so she asked for it first. It is not impossible to let us go back to take care of it, but you have to take out a pension of 50,000 yuan.
Aunt Chen looked at her son, but the son said lightly, let’s take out the 50,000 pension first. Anyway, I am the only child in the family. Sooner or later I will leave the money to me. Don't hurt the relationship between mother and child and ruin the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law because of the fifty thousand yuan.
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It's okay if the son doesn't speak, he burst into tears when he spoke to Aunt Chen. She and her wife worked hard for most of their lives just for such an only child. But now that his wife has passed away, her old-age money has basically been emptied by her son. There is only 50,000 yuan left, and her son and daughter-in-law are not willing to let it go.
Seeing her son and daughter-in-law's ruthless heart, Aunt Chen regretted it. She didn't know what went wrong. How could a son who was sensible and filial before getting married, changed his personality completely when he got married?
Aunt Chen's whole body is chilled, and she doesn't want to take out her last capital. This is her confidence and future. But if she didn't take it out, her son and daughter-in-law clamored to take her to a nursing home, saying that the elderly would not help them, and they would not have time to take care of the elderly.
Seeing all this, Aunt Chen couldn't help but burst into tears.It's not that she is not willing to pay, but that she doesn't know whether she can die well in her old age after giving up the money.
Faced with the gnawing of your son and daughter-in-law, as a mother, how should you deal with it? Do you want to spend fifty thousand yuan?
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