by Dahui
In everyone’s inherent knowledge, like is always associated with initiative. If a person really likes you, he will take the initiative to find you. If a person loves you, he will take the initiative to spend his time and money on you.
Of course, there is nothing wrong with using this method to judge whether a person is sincere to you. People who love you, to a certain extent, become very active. To measure the depth of love by the degree of a person's initiative is a method we often use in love.
However, sometimes not taking the initiative in some aspects is the way to truly love you.
Everyone has their own way of dealing with love, and it is impossible to measure everyone in a comprehensive way. Some girls like to be alone, and they want to stay with each other 24 hours a day, and spend all their time and energy on being with each other.
There are also some girls, their likes are never so naked, but they use their unique delicacy and care to guard their love.
Sometimes when you really fall in love with someone, you need to understand her in many ways, instead of judging the other person's love for you in a self-righteous way.
When girls do not take the initiative in these three aspects, they actually love you miserably.
Do not ask for your contribution
Some girls often play a very sensible role in love. They never reach out and ask for gifts from boys. When it is dark, a person goes home and does not take the initiative to let each other Come to pick yourself up, don't ask for company. When he is busy, he knows how to give him space.
Many people say that girls are too sensible to make men not cherish them. In fact, this is a paradox in itself. If a boy does not know how to cherish you, then no matter what you do, he will leave you, and facing someone who truly loves you, he will feel more distressed because of your sensibility, and he will not be willing to hurt you.
Those women who will actively ask men to pay in love,They often get temporary satisfaction, but in fact, they are not really in love. They only care about what others have done to themselves, but never consider what they have given. They only care about how they feel, but they don't think about you.
Love is never the giving of one party and the demand of the other. It takes individuals to work together and consider each other together. Only in this way can love develop for a long time.
Women who truly love you, they don't want to ask for something, they care more about whether you give it from the bottom of your heart. If it is because she wants to come out, you only give it. She would rather not give such charity.
Do not actively use disconnection to test you
Many girls always ask for a sense of security in love, and in order to get proof that they are loved, they will do some irrational behaviors To test each other.
Only when you see your anxious look, will I feel at ease in my heart. But in fact, this kind of trick is not mature at all, and after a long time, it is easy to disgust the other party.
Many people say that they want to know if the other party really loves you, just disconnect once. When you don't contact him, his worry and anxiety are proofs of loving you.
But this behavior is actually very selfish. Because I only considered my own feelings, but didn't consider the other person's mood.
The foundation of a lover must be based on thinking about the other person and considering issues from the other person's perspective. Instead of blindly magnifying your grievances and ignoring the other's psychological needs.
If a girl likes you completely, she will be reluctant to test you by disconnecting. I prefer to speak clearly face to face, so that you can understand her thoughts in time, rather than test you with self-righteousness.
will not take the initiative to hurt you
Good love is a two-way care, not just one person’s contribution, the other’s gain.
is when two people are considerate to each other and take care of each other's feelings. Only when two people care more about each other’s emotions than about themselves,Only reached the highest state of love.
If a person, never consider your feelings, always do things that hurt you. Then such a person really doesn't love you. If a person always bases his happiness on your pain and says something that hurts you, please stay away in time.
The person who truly loves you, she will come forward to shield you from all possible harm from the outside world, and will not let other people's gossip hurt you, she will know what you care about, and she will not personally pierce the needle To you.
People who love you only want to see your happy look, can't bear to see your painful expression, will take care of your emotions everywhere, and will not do things that hurt you.
Good love must be mutual, and it needs the care and waiting of both men and women.
People who truly love you will not use gender as the standard of paying. They think that boys should pay more and women’s physiology should be taken care of. Will not rely on oneself to be loved, so as to do whatever they want.
To judge whether a person really loves you, you can’t just look at what she has done actively, but also what she has given up on her own initiative. If you don’t take the initiative, sometimes it’s deep love. Because she will take into account your feelings, will not bear the heart to hurt you, will not just watch you pay alone, can not bear you to worry about her. She not only wants you to be her support, but also wants to be your arm, able to silently protect you.
When you meet such a woman, you must cherish it.
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