As the saying goes, men are afraid of getting into the wrong line and women are afraid of marrying the wrong man. Marriage is a lifetime thing. Marrying the right person can make a woman more beautiful, more elegant and intellectual, and happier. But marrying the wrong person may affect her life, or even ruin her life.
Before we get married, we will bring our partner back to see our parents. On the one hand, we let our parents and our partner get to know each other and get to know each other. On the other hand, we also declare to our parents that this person is my future. Husband.
However, after many people take their boyfriend home, they will get opposition from their parents, believing that this man is not suitable to be the other half of their daughter. At this time, most people will be puzzled, or even angry, thinking that their parents are breaking up their happiness.
However, at their parents’ age, they have experienced a lot of things, and they can see through some things better and know which men cannot marry. Next, let's listen to what this mother said!
Aunt Li: A woman's marriage depends on three points: character, family and self-cultivation.
When a woman gets married, the most important thing is to marry a good and responsible man who can take on the responsibility of the whole family and is confident that he will treat you well in the days to come. Therefore, a woman does not have to marry a rich man, but she must marry a man with good character, a harmonious family, and a well-educated man, so that her future life can be a happy one.
In addition, there are three kinds of men who cannot marry, otherwise they will regret it later.
violent man
When in a relationship, if you find your boyfriend has a violent tendency, you must break him up early, and you can't give the other person any chance to get back together. Don't apologize to you because of feelings or the other party's violence. You immediately feel softened and feel that he can change in the future. There will be countless times when there is such a thing as violence for the first time.
When a man is able to hit someone when he is in a relationship, he will not know how to constrain after he gets married. When the time comes, injuries can range from injuries to life concerns.Don't believe in apologizing to the man who did it, because every time you forgive him will become an encouragement to him and let him do it again and again unscrupulously.
A man who is not motivated
Men don’t care how much money they have, but they must be motivated. If a man has nothing to do all day, or is not self-motivated, and feels that life is easy, he must not marry. When you are in a relationship, it is the two of you who live your life, maybe if you have enough food and clothing, you will feel that your life is going well.
After getting married, life has gone from dream to reality. There are many things before you to face. You may have to be responsible for supporting your parents, or you may need to spend money because of illness, waiting for pregnancy, pregnancy test, pregnancy nutrition, childbirth, confinement, baby's milk powder diapers, these are all a lot of money . If he still doesn't know how to work hard for the family, then you will have a hard time and be wronged, and sooner or later you will get to the step of divorce.
A man who doesn't respect his parents
To look at a person's conduct, start with the details. If a man doesn't respect his parents, he won't necessarily respect you in the future. From the attitude towards the parents, we can see the family education and character of this person. If a man treats his parents with filial piety and the family is harmonious, it means that the man will also have a high sense of responsibility and participation in the family in the future.
If a man has a bad attitude towards his parents, he always feels that his parents are not good, and he does not even want to contact his parents. There are only two possibilities, either his character is bad, or his native family is bad. No matter what kind of situation it is, it will bring some influence to him, and then affect his attitude towards marriage in the future. It is easy to make your marriage unhappy.
Concluding remarks:
On the subject of marriage, many of us enter marriage more because of love. We feel that as long as there is love, we will be happy no matter what, but in fact, marriage is more than just love. ,A lot of auxiliary conditions are also needed.
Therefore, when we are in love, we need to keep our eyes open and understand each other in detail. If your partner treats you badly when you are in love, or you have a lot of things that are difficult to break in, you must carefully consider whether to enter into marriage with your partner. After all, maintaining a marriage is not easy.
Today’s topic: What kind of man do you think cannot be married?
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