Everyone yearns for beautiful love. When we meet someone who falls in love with him, our biggest dream is to spend the rest of our life with him. But reality is often cruel, and there are few people who can stay loyal to each other for a lifetime.
A relationship requires two people to work together and operate together. The right way is needed, so that the relationship between two people will last long. But a lifetime is also very long, and it is inevitable that there will be conflicts and frictions with one person for decades. If the conflict is resolved, the relationship between the two people will heat up. If
is not handled well, this relationship will come to an end. Those who have held hands with each other all their lives understand these three principles.
Those who have held hands with each other for life, most of them understand these three principles
accusing each other will only let the other person get further and further away from you
In life, we will encounter all kinds of big It is impossible to do everything right, and it is impossible to do everything wrong.
When we are wronged and encountered difficulties, we want to talk to the one we love, hoping that he can encourage us to regain our confidence. The words of the one we love in our heart are very weighty.
If you still accuse him at this time and blame her for saying that he has no ability to look down on him, he will be willing to fall and doubt himself. After
, even if he encounters these things again, he will never tell you again. He is afraid that you will accuse him again. He will hate you and hate you in his heart, and will never share anything with you in the future.
So, blaming the other person will only make the other person farther and farther away from you. Two people should encourage each other instead of complaining about each other whenever something happens.
Since they are together, don't doubt it.
Since two people have decided to be together, they must trust each other unconditionally. They cannot be affected by the surrounding people and the environment, and cannot listen to what others say.
I can't read some "poisonous chicken soup" on the Internet and substitute myself in, suspecting that he does not love himself. Feelings are like people knowing themselves when they drink water.
Since two people have decided to be together, don't doubt each other. Doubt will make the relationship between two people fragile and make you look like yourself.
No matter what you do, you must doubt him, even if it is something he didn't do, you will subconsciously believe that he did it when you have questions in your mind, and it hurts her heart by not listening to her explanation. Over time, he will be disappointed and no longer have illusions about this relationship.
So, since two people have decided to be together, don't doubt each other anymore. Focus on your feelings for a long time.
Being with each other, respect is the basis of getting along
Whether it is getting along with friends or lovers, it is important to respect each other. Two people in a relationship. Will live together and experience the trivial things in life.
When he carefully prepares a meal for you, even if you don't like it, you should respect her work and eat a little when you are full, and not waste other people's efforts. When encountering a matter of disagreement, you should also listen to his suggestions and respect his ideas and adopt them reasonably.
The two discussed together, and the results cannot be decided by themselves. Not caring about her thoughts, disrespect her will make her chill.
Therefore, being together with each other, respect is the basis for getting along, and the prerequisite for two people to spend the rest of their lives together.
Conclusion:
Most people who hold hands with each other all their lives understand: accusing each other will only make each other farther and farther away from you. When two people are together, they must rely on each other's harbor, which can be done after being wronged. Desperate to talk to him, is to encourage him not to blame him.
Accusations will only make him lose confidence. Too much accusation will only push him farther and farther away, not wanting to get along with you. Since you have decided to be together, you can’t trust each other unconditionally in doubt, or listen to others’ provocations He, being together with each other, respect is the basis of getting along, two people must respect each other when they get along for decades.
Know how to listen to the advice of the other party, know how to listen, and cannot decide alone, selfish only thinks about yourself. It is easy to fall in love with a person, but it is not easy to be with the same person for the rest of your life. There must be a correct way and know how to manage this relationship in order to keep two people together for a long time.
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