"Shangyang Fu" Xie Wanru: Life is not easy, as a mother, she can only admit her fate

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Xie Wanru: from a famous family, life hardships

Xie Wanru was born with a golden spoon, but suffered People are plotting. After experiencing the turmoil of her family, she grew up quickly from a simple ignorant girl, and took on the responsibility of regaining family power. At the same time, she also became a woman who wanted to profit and unscrupulous.

In Xie Wanru's short life, she has never been truly happy and has been suffering all the time. Before getting married, in order to maintain the family's face, be a lady of the family.

Even marriage is set temporarily as the world changes. In the beginning, in order to contain Xiao Qi, Ma Yao planned to marry Xie Wanru to Xiao Qi, and then Xie Wanru and Ma Zilong were calculated by Ma Zilu at the same time. She had no choice but to obey the arrangement and marry Ma Zilong.

Although he was born in a famous family, Xie Wanru suffered a lot and was dominated by others all his life.

This is probably because she was born in a different age. Forced by her living environment, she can't do what she wants in life, but can only do her fate. This is the sadness of most women at that time.

However, no matter how many unsatisfactory life is, it is not a cause for harm. Xie Wan is like harming others and ultimately harming himself.

Xie Wanru: As a princess, swallow your anger

Xie Wanru's greatest luck in life is to marry a good man. Although Ma Zilong is not very good, he really has nothing to say to Xie Wanru. Maybe at the beginning, Ma Zilong didn't love Xie Wanru, but as they ran into each other, Ma Zilong loved Xie Wan in every possible way.

It's just that Ma Zilong has no opinion since he was a child, and everything depends on his mother, including when Xie Wanru was making things difficult for her mother-in-law, Ma Zilong couldn't help, Xie Wanru could only swallow.

In Xie Wanru's position, if you want to change your life, you can only make plans. Living in the harem, she stays safe, and others may not let her go.

life is like this,If you want to succeed, you have to endure the grievances that others cannot bear. Those so-called injustices can only be recovered when they have a certain ability.

Xie Wanru: As a queen, you can do everything step by step.

Xie Wanru finally got into the position of queen. She thought she could be in power, but she was still under the control of her mother-in-law. Even if he wanted to help his cousin Tan, he could only help secretly.

Becoming a queen is the most noble moment in Xie Wanru's life. However, she has to keep up with her every step. She must not only fear the queen mother, but also the other concubines of Ma Zilong.

It’s not a long time to be a queen, but Xie Wanru has a very difficult life. She must always be vigilant and not let anyone have the opportunity to take her place.

The higher you stand, the more dangerous you are. Although Xie Wanru was a queen, she had to be more cautious than ever. Once you accidentally fall down, you will be "battered".

In this life, people have to deal with different right and wrong at different stages, but just beware of villains and don't wrong gentlemen. Xie Wanru's biggest mistake was to regard Wang Yan and Xiao Qi as "enemies."

Xie Wanru: As a mother, willing to give up

If you want to say that Xie Wan is like the last moment of regret in his life, I am afraid that it is time to face Wang Zhang before he died. If she had known long ago, she would entrust her son to Wang Zhang in the end, and even if she was wronged in the past, she should not have resentment against Wang Zhang.

However, Xie Wanru has calculated for so many years, and has not calculated that Ma Zilong will die so quickly, nor has it calculated that the Queen Mother will die.

If she were alone, Xie Wan would certainly not be as the queen mother's wish, but she was already a mother, not thinking about herself, but also planning for her baby son, so she willingly gave up.

Looking at the whole harem, no one can be trusted by her, and even the closest mother who ever was around will harm her son. At that time, Xie Wanru should only think of Wang Yan.After all, they used to be good sisters, if it weren't for her being too paranoid, she wouldn't be unhappy with Wang Yan.

Xie Wanru knows that Wang Yan's character will definitely fulfill her trust and will not harm her children. Being a person and staying on the sidelines, you will meet in the future. If Xie Wan had foreseen it, she shouldn't have a bad attitude towards Wang Yan.

When Xie Wanru handed over the child to Wang Yan, she seemed to have no other identity, only the identity of a mother. Xie Wanru knelt down to Wang Yan for the sake of her child. At the last moment of his life, he reconciled with Wang Yan, only to leave a way for his son to survive.

Being a mother, Xie Wanru is great. Xie Wanru finally realized that nothing is important to be alive, so she told Wang Yan:

"Just hope that God will repay me. Don't make trouble for my Jinger anymore. You have to replace it in the future. I take good care of Jing'er, teach him to speak for me, literate, and keep him away from the government. It doesn't matter if he is inactive, as long as he lives well."

Xie Wanru is willing to die for his son. Such maternal love is very moving. Life is not easy, as a mother, she can only admit her fate.

Throw away all the halo, Xie Wanru is just an ordinary woman, she is like all mothers, as long as the son is doing well, she will do whatever she wants.

As the saying goes: The greatest love in the world is maternal love. In this world, any mother wants her child to live well, even if nothing happens in her life, as long as she is safe and sound.

Children are the most reassuring. Looking at those who have done a lot of evil, most of them will put away their evil side when facing their children. Xie Wan is like this, as are Wang Lin and the Queen Mother.

Concluding remarks: There are too many last resorts in life, do not seek prosperity and wealth, as long as you live

Xie Wan is not a bad person, born in a famous family, she has too many last resorts. Xie's family is down, and she just wants to rejuvenate her family's power. This is not wrong. But that is, taking the wrong path and doing the wrong thing,Retribution fell on her in advance.

Xie Wanru's death is regrettable. Even though she is hateful, Xie Wanru is not bad compared to the Queen Mother. Her changes were made by the Queen Mother and Wang Lin, but she finally came to this point. Planning a life for himself, in the end, in order to save his son, he had to admit his fate.

Xie Wanru's life has a lot of helplessness. She seems to have never lived for herself once. Even at the last moment of her life, she is only thinking about her children.

In this plot of "Shangyang Fu", I watched Xie Wanru's exhortation before his death, and felt very sad for Xie Wanru's life. If there is an afterlife, I hope Xie Wan will live for himself.

Everyone's life is filled with too many last resorts. Being a child, being a husband, being a wife, being a parent, these multiple identities always bind us and cannot walk our own way freely.

However, a person lives a lifetime, is born for these roles, because of these different identities, is a complete life.

There are too many bumps in the road of life, but you can't make detours. Whenever you do bad things in life, you will be punished by fate. There is only one life in human beings. Be a good man and cherish every difficult moment in your life.

Be a man not to be greedy. When you are involuntary, you do not ask for glory and prosperity, as long as you live.

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