"The man who chased you like this is going to get married, really"

Wen\A Peng, Jiang Zuo Mei Niang

01. The infatuated "sissy"

The epidemic has been declining for many years, and we are eager to go down the road.

This year’s Spring Festival met on Valentine’s Day. It was supposed to be more joyful, but because of the epidemic, the taste of the New Year has faded. Many couples can only be separated from each other because of the local Chinese New Year. Valentine’s Day has become a sad day. .

But Jiaying, a reader from a foreign country, is not so disappointed this Spring Festival. She feels that he has found his destiny. No, she excitedly told me the story between her and Haoyu yesterday.

At first, Jiaying had a bad impression of Haoyu, thinking that he was just a "sissy" and not manly.

Many girls who are alone want to find a manly boyfriend. Kong Wu's powerful chest can be used to rely on and give people a sense of security.

Haoyu is a bit like Wang Yuan, slightly creamy, and wearing a bit of feminine glasses, which made Jiaying think he is a bit of a bitch at first. After all, in Jiaying's heart, she prefers the kind of masculine big Man's.

However, all of Haoyu's thoughts were placed on Jiaying, and he circled her all day long. Even if Jiaying was unwilling to talk to him, he didn't care.

Sometimes even if she lowered her head, Jiaying could feel Haoyu's hot eyes, which made her feel a little proud and nauseous.

This kind of beginning, no matter how you look at it, Jiaying should be a woman that Haoyu is destined to not get, but the plot often develops in the opposite direction.

02. The mismatch in your eyes is often the best match

People always say that two people can get together, either because of their talents and good looks, or they rely on love and love. But there are always couples who seem to be unfit at first glance. Their combination seems so abrupt. It seems that Cupid, the little goddess of love, drank too much yogurt and missed the arrow.

But those couples who don’t seem to match,Once you fall on the lock of love, you will never open it again. Because their love has withstood the test, has gone through tribulations, and finally joined each other.

As the Spring Festival holiday is approaching, the manager has to arrange Jiaying to be on duty, and the arrangement is seven days. Anyway, it’s the Chinese New Year on the spot, and you don’t have a boyfriend. It’s good to work overtime in your unit, and you can still make money.

Jiaying, as a newcomer, is accustomed to begging for everything, but this is the Spring Festival after all, and she was arranged to work overtime alone, so she felt aggrieved and tears rolled in her eyes.

At this time, Haoyu stood up and said, "Manager, you are such an honorable person, I am her boyfriend!" Haoyu pulled Jiaying to the side and said to the manager: "We have both planned. We have been together this year during the Spring Festival and Valentine's Day, the manager, do you have the heart to break us up?"

The manager is gone, so we have to reschedule.

At that moment, Jiaying felt that although Haoyu's chest was thin but very strong, she was leaning on Haoyu's shoulders, feeling at ease.

Cupid, the god of love, smiled quietly not far away. He shot two sharp arrows "swish, swish".

03. A responsible man is the most tasteful, and a sympathetic man is worth marrying

For women, a man who loves himself should be a person who can devote everything to himself and give up everything.

Some men look very strong. Listening to him bragging, they feel that he is omnipotent. But when they really need to stand up for a woman, they will calculate their pros and cons in their hearts, and look forward and backward.

But Haoyu did not hesitate to offend the manager for her, and even spoke for herself at the risk of losing her job, which made Jiaying feel that Haoyu had a deep love for her. Jiaying was inexplicably moved by the thought of Haoyu who followed her every day, and the diligent look that Haoyu had leaned forward to her ears. She knew that these were all Haoyu's full love for her.

Tu Lei said: "Love needs infatuation, life needs responsibility."

A good man like Haoyu who is dedicated to love and dares to take responsibility for love is not a good man. Man? And what Jiaying didn’t think of,Still to come.

After this incident, Jiaying agreed to associate with Haoyu. Haoyu was as happy as a child and wanted to take her home for the holidays.

Jiaying knew that Haoyu was doing her good, and she was afraid that she would be alone and sad when she was reunited with the whole country. But after all, she is a girl. She entered the boy's house without formal contact. She couldn't show her face. She was afraid that she would be embarrassed when she arrived at his house, so Jiaying did not agree to go to Haoyu's house for the holidays.

Haoyu respects Jiaying's ideas and proposes to spend a Spring Festival with only two people with her. Together with Valentine's Day, it will surely become a fond memory for the two of them when they are old.

04. Enlightened future parents-in-law

But Jiaying feels that it is not appropriate. After all, the Spring Festival is a big festival. How can I let Haoyu be separated from her parents for the sake of herself? But Haoyu said, no problem, his parents are enlightened.

However, on the Spring Festival, Jiaying asked Haoyu to accompany her first, and then to accompany Haoyu's parents after ten o'clock, so that she could feel better.

Haoyu did everything, but on Valentine's Day, he insisted on staying with her all day, visiting the mall where Jiaying usually didn't have time to go, and buying a bunch of things, Jiaying had no choice but to be happy while awkwardly strange Haoyu is too much to his parents.

Haoyu said, "My parents said, it is not easy for you to be a girl outside. Let me accompany you more. If you don't believe me, listen to their voice." After coming out, Jiaying listened, tears streaming down.

Jiaying's hometown is in the countryside. There are many bad father-in-laws, bad mother-in-laws, abused daughters-in-laws, and made the whole family upset. Therefore, there is a local saying that it is best to find a husband who is both parents.

But now Jiaying thinks, what a happy thing to marry into a family with such in-laws!

Jiaying couldn't help but thank Haoyu's parents. Only exceptional parents can cultivate such an excellent son.

Jiaying also summed up with me the reasons for He Haoyu's continued development: passionate but dedicated,Kind and responsible, parents are reasonable.

If you marry such a family, your husband will love you, your parents-in-law will love you, how beautiful it would be! I also affirm Jiaying's statement that the man who pursues you like this is indeed rushing to get married, really. If any girl missed such a boy, that would be stupid!

05. Mei Niang said

I am really happy for Jiaying, there are very few girls who would refuse a boy like this, Mei Niang, I would love to meet Haoyu! There are too few cases of positive energy like my backstage. Although there is no guarantee what will happen to the two of them in the end, at least, the foundation of their relationship is very good, and the hardware conditions of their relationship are also very strong, so the direction of their relationship can give people hope.

I have seen too much chicken soup. If you say that someone who really loves you, he will put you in his heart, think for you, and be by your side when you need it most. There are some unrealistic chicken soups, but after hearing about Jiaying and Haoyu, I believe that there is true love in this world. If you don’t feel it, it doesn’t mean that there is no, but you may not have encountered it yet. Therefore, you have to believe there is, and you have to have the confidence to fight for or wait.

Jiaying told me that she is still a little confused. For example, some people say that love should be a relationship between two people conquering each other. Only conquering can last long. Others say that love must experience some sadness. With sadness, it can be Let each other cherish each other, and now she only has a dizzy feeling of falling in love. She really doesn't know what will happen in the future, and she is really worried about gains and losses.

Thinking of the book "The Psychology of Love", the author said:

"Love is difficult to grasp. When two people are together, there are always all kinds of small frictions and misunderstandings that make both parties crazy. Endlessly, once it is not properly resolved, the resulting cold wars or quarrels will often wipe out the love between each other, and even lead to breakups or divorces."

Jiaying is afraid that there will be such problems in the future. Such a mentality is normal. .

But I said, falling in love is the middle stage of love development, and there will indeed be a break-in stage later, but don’t be afraid, good love is not what you want to be your partner, but a better one. Good self, your partner will be your mirror and will help you become a better you.

Love may always make people do stupid and dangerous things, but it can also make people behave bravely, become kind and generous, and become optimistic and positive.

So, boldly fall in love, even though there will be pain and hurt, but believe that true love can be tolerated, and how can love always stay in the best moment?

There is the most practical and effective method in this "Psychology of Love". Jiaying has already read it. I believe that after reading this book, all your problems will be solved, and you will eventually reap your love.

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