In a woman's life, there are two important men. One is his father and the other is his husband.
Whether the father is a successful man or not, his love for his daughter is always selfless.
But my husband is different.
If a woman does not choose the right husband, let alone whether he will bring happiness to herself, the ups and downs in life must be brought about by this man.
34-year-old Zhang Li, after 10 years of marriage, divorced his ex-husband Li Qiang, and the child belongs to Zhang Li.
On the day of the divorce, Zhang Li was not very sad. On the contrary, she felt relieved and even felt lucky in her heart.
Divorced from a man he doesn't love, this is a relief.
More importantly, she finally understood who the man who really loves herself is.
10 years ago, 24-year-old Zhang Ligang graduated from a key university. With a degree from a prestigious university, Zhang Li quickly found a good job and earns a considerable monthly salary.
Later, Zhang Li fell in love with a boy. The boys are from the countryside, and their parents are farmers. In addition, boys have gone to college, and they have also spent all their savings at home. Therefore, the boys have no money at home, only a small one-story building without a car.
But men grow up very handsome, their personality is very calm, and they are kind. Therefore, Zhang Li wanted to marry this boy. But she was afraid that her parents would disagree.
After hesitating for a long time, Zhang Li still talked to her parents about her thoughts.
When the parents learned about the boy's family situation from Zhang Li, they fell into a long silence.
The father spoke first. He knew Zhang Li's character very well, and knew that she had made the decision, the kind that ten cows could not be brought back.
As a father, he actually wants his daughter to be truly happy.
but at the same time,Father was still a little worried about Zhang Li's target. Let’s not talk about whether this rural-born boy will bring happiness to Zhang Li, but his father is skeptical about whether the two people who grew up in different growth environments will run well in the long life in the future.
Seeing Zhang Li's strong insistence on marrying, although his father did not support him, he did not object.
Zhang Li, 24, is young, ignorant and fearless, and love is paramount. For those worries her father said, she only felt that her parents were too worried.
Moreover, she firmly believes that Li Qiang is the person she will live with in the future. So, she finally got the certificate with Li Qiang and got married.
In the first few years of marriage, Zhang Li and his wife had a sweet relationship. However, with the birth of the child, the conflict between the two began to increase. And Li Qiang's patience with Zhang Li has become less and less.
Li Qiang's income is not high. It was only in the tenth year of marriage that he saved enough down payment to buy a house.
Zhang Li knew that Li Qiang had no money, so she offered to let her family pay for the decoration. However, she has one condition, that is, not to live with her in-laws after the new house is renovated.
When Zhang Li asked not to agree to live with her parents-in-law in the countryside, it became the last straw that overwhelmed her and Li Qiang's marriage.
Li Qiang said that after so many years of marriage, Zhang Li has always been strong. At the beginning, Li Qiang was still willing to endure Zhang Li's temper for the family. But I endured a lot, Li Qiang said he was tired.
Now that he has a new house, Li Qiang must want his parents to live a good life with him. But Zhang Li did not expect to agree.
For this reason, Li Qiang feels that Zhang Li is a woman without filial piety.
However, only Zhang Li knows that since she married into Li Qiang's family, she truly understands that under the influence of the original family, the two of them grew up in different environments, and their three views are very different. In marriage, it is also very difficult for husband and wife to run-in.
After ten years of marriage, Zhang Li has never been very happy. But because this is Zhang Li's choice of marriage, she has persisted.
After getting married, Li Qiang was fired by the company,I haven't found a job for a long time. In order to take care of Li Qiang's face, Zhang Li has been relying on money from her parents.
Later, Li Qiang started his own business and needed to buy a car to run the business. Without a word, Zhang Li asked her parents for money and bought him a car.
However, Zhang Li's confinement hired a confinement wife of 8,000 yuan to help her confinement, but her mother-in-law said that Zhang Li was prodigal and kept showing her face.
While Zhang Li helped Li Qiang with many things, her mother-in-law never mentioned it. In front of her neighbors, she said it was Li Qiang's own ability.
Zhang Li's family has been in good conditions since she was young, and she has never done housework. However, after getting married, her mother-in-law always disliked her not knowing how to do housework, saying that the roles of her wife and daughter-in-law were not qualified.
What makes Zhang Li even more angry is that every time he conflicts with his mother-in-law, he hides aside. Or they came to accuse Zhang Li, saying that her mother-in-law is an elder and has no malice. Zhang Li should be more generous and tolerate her mother-in-law.
Zhang Li doesn't want to live with her parents-in-law, because she knows that after living together, there will be more conflicts.
But Li Qiang didn't understand this at all. When Zhang Li asked not to live with his in-laws, Li Qiang was arguing and asked for a divorce.
When Zhang Li heard the word divorce, she agreed without thinking about it.
For so many years, she has been fed up with such noisy and temperatureless days.
The night before the divorce, Zhang Li called her father. Originally thought that her father would scold her in a humiliating manner. But not wanting, my father said something earnestly.
"Girl, it's okay. If you can't get through, you will go home. Don't worry, when you said you were going to get married, I secretly bought you a house."
"Girl, you come back, and dad raises you. Dad still Young, it’s okay to struggle to retire at the age of 60."
After listening to her father, Zhang Li burst into tears.
It turns out that the man who really loves himself has always been his father, not the husband who married him.
Father had long expected this day,He also prepared Zhang Li to retreat, and at the same time provided her with financial and risk protection.
After divorce, a single parent life with a child may be more difficult. But Zhang Li is not afraid, because the support of her mother's family has given her enough courage and strength in life.
Through this marriage, Zhang Li also deeply realized that it is really difficult to choose a person who is very different from her native family to marry and live.
In marriage, we still have to pay attention to the right person.
The virtue and cultivation of a man are closely related to the native family behind him. In large, well-educated families, the educated children are generally not bad. In families with poor native families, the family atmosphere is not good, and the children who come out will have various problems.
Therefore, when a daughter wants to get married, she thinks about love, but parents think about her daughter's life.
Therefore, when a girl considers getting married, choosing a good family that works well will increase her chances of making herself happy.
Parents, you have to listen.
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Azi/Emotional original author
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