"The Golden Years": 3 reasons to tell you that a man like Zhang Anren cannot marry a woman

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"The Golden Years" has recently ushered in the finale. The character Zhang Anren is said to be the worst in the play. Some people say he is a "scum" man, and some say he is just a microcosm of ordinary people.

And his relationship with Jiang Nansun was not favored from the beginning, because he is a typical "Phoenix man", and Jiang Nansun's improper household is not right. There will be conflicts that cannot be solved together.

However, compared to being poor, he still has many problems exposed in his relationship, and these problems are more critical.

So, "The Golden Years" tells you three reasons, a man like Zhang Anren, a woman cannot marry.

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First: Easy to use small methods

At the beginning of the TV series, Zhang Anren faced an important life test.

His school only needs one teacher, and he needs to compete with his opponent Wang Yongzheng. In order to allow himself to stay in school, he must find a way to beat the opponent. And he used very despicable means to get Wang Yongzheng out.

While chatting with his girlfriend, he learned that Wang Yong was in charge of the decoration process, and he changed the paint supplier privately.

However, Jiang Nansun has already told him clearly that Wang Yongzheng is not seeking personal gain, but that the color he designed is not consistent with the color provided by the supplier designated by Party A.

But unexpectedly, Zhang Anren caught a point and stabbed the incident to the school. Naturally, he stayed and his opponent was out.

Later, after his girlfriend learned about it, he argued with him, but he did not apologize at all, let alone feel guilty. Instead, he felt that he was doing the right thing.

Therefore, based on this fact, we can know Zhang Anren's character. In fact, there are many such people in life who have no moral bottom line, and they can use whatever means for their own superiority.

A man like this is absolutely unacceptable, too selfish and not grateful. No matter how much you paid for him,He always thinks about his own interests.

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Second: Being dishonest to your girlfriend

Honesty is the basis for two people together. If you can’t even do this, it’s even less likely to go long. And Zhang Anren was not honest with Jiang Nansun at all.

At first it was because of the brochure. Mingming Wang Yongzheng added Jiang Nansun's name to the brochure, but he told Jiang Nansun that he had won it for her. He did not expect Jiang Nansun to know the truth.

Later, when his ex-girlfriend came to Shanghai to seek refuge with him, he lied to his girlfriend again, saying that this was just his junior high school classmate, and took her to live in his own home.

There is also a detail. When he picked up his ex-girlfriend, the other party said enviously that he now has a house and a car, but he just expressed his acquiescence.

But in fact, the car was bought by the girlfriend's mother. These performances suffice to show that he is a liar.

Everyone has their own shortcomings, but a liar must not marry. People who like to lie open their mouths, and you never know which words are true or false.

You need to always maintain a vigilant heart to judge its authenticity. It will be very tiring to get along with such people, and over time, deep rifts will appear in the relationship.

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Third: Too much scheming and purposefulness

When he first started, he still had a good impression of Zhang Anren. Although he liked his girlfriend’s family background, as long as he really loved Jiang Nansun Yes, there is nothing wrong with being with her wholeheartedly.

After all, who doesn't think about the relationship of adults? But gradually, his essence was exposed.

Because he lost money in stocks, Jiang Nansun’s father suggested that the family should move to their rented house to avoid the limelight in order to avoid debt collectors, but Zhang Anren flatly refused because his house was too small.Can't live.

And more importantly, he is worried that the creditor will cause trouble to the school, affecting his future and reputation. It can be seen that he did use his girlfriend as just a springboard.

Since the fall of the Jiang family, he has no longer the gentleness of the past. He finds Jiang Nansun angrily and says that her father ran to her office to find himself to borrow money, thinking that her father did this and let himself be in school Facial loss.

So, from the beginning to the end, he only considers himself. In order to establish a foothold in the big city, he doesn't care about the others.

Women must stay away from men who are too utilitarian. Such men must be very cold-blooded. There is no love or righteousness in their hearts. Everything is based on interests, so he won't care about your feelings.

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"Golden Years" tells us: to choose a husband, there are three kinds of men, no matter how good you are.

In fact, Zhang Anren is definitely not worthy of Jiang Nansun in this drama, not only because the two economic strengths are too different, but his behavior is not worthy of the kind Nansun.

Women should also pay special attention when they are in love, stay sensible, and when they meet a man like Zhang Anren, stay away, otherwise they will only be used.

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