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Marriage is like a shoe on your feet. Only your feet know if you are comfortable. Marriage where others seem to fit well, but the parties may not have a happy life; and those marriages that others do not favor, sometimes live happily. Therefore, marriage is really a matter of fate, and it should not be forced.
When looking for an object, you must keep your eyes open, be more picky, and don't just do it casually. After getting married, you must learn to keep your eyes open, be less picky, and more tolerant. If you are not a last resort, try not to divorce. Divorce is not fun.
After the divorce, if you remarry, you must think carefully and coordinate all aspects, especially the children. There are generally only two reasons why remarried couples find it difficult to bond, and they are nothing more than children and money.
Therefore, remarried couples have to deal with children and money issues. What should be stated clearly before marriage. After making it clear and accepting each other, you can no longer care after marriage. Two people should treat each other's children as if they are their own, and should be more tolerant and patient when there is any friction.
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Aunt Su has one son, one daughter and two children. She has always been proud of these two children. My son went to college, and after graduating from college, he found a good job. Although my daughter did not go to college, she found a good husband's house, and the son-in-law is a taxi driver.
When his son was looking for a partner, Aunt Su asked many people to introduce him to him. Later, under Aunt Su's decision, the son had a relationship with a policewoman. Aunt Su is very satisfied with this daughter-in-law. Everyone thinks that her son and the policewoman are a good match. They married after a year of dating.
But after getting married, the young couple were not happy, and they always quarreled over trivial matters. After a year of quarreling, the two broke up peacefully, and Aunt Su was very sad to know.She didn't understand why two people who were so well matched could not live together?
After the son was divorced, he did not fall in love for a long time. Aunt Su was very anxious, but she did not dare to urge her son. "Once I was bitten by a snake, I was afraid of well ropes for ten years." She was anxious for her son to stumble again.
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Three years after his son was divorced, he finally started a new relationship, but the subject was a divorced woman with a daughter.
Aunt Su doesn't care about divorce. Her son is also divorced, so she shouldn't care about her divorce. But Aunt Su still cares a little about bringing a child. She wants her son to marry a woman who has never given birth to a child.
However, because of the lesson from last time, Aunt Su dare not call the shots for her son. Since the son insisted on marrying that person, Aunt Su agreed and helped them organize the wedding.
After marriage, Aunt Su slowly got to know the new daughter-in-law, and found that the new daughter-in-law is actually a very good person. The main responsibility for her divorce lies with the man, who has derailed during the marriage. The daughters born to my daughter-in-law and ex-husband are very well-behaved and sensible, always calling Aunt Su "Grandma! Grandma", and Aunt Su slowly fell in love with her.
Later, the son and daughter-in-law gave birth to another son. Aunt Su was happier and tried to treat her grandson and granddaughter equally.
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The year when the grandson was born, Aunt Su made a large table of dishes for the New Year's Eve dinner. Halfway through the meal, Aunt Su went into the room, and the daughter did not know what the mother was doing, so she followed in.
Afterwards, the granddaughter’s chopsticks accidentally fell to the ground. The daughter-in-law picked up the chopsticks and went to the kitchen to wash. When passing by the parents-in-law’s room, she heard the mother-in-law and elder sister talking. The eldest sister said: "Mom, you can pack the new year's money, just pack two red envelopes. That child is not your granddaughter. What are you doing with her red envelopes?" Aunt Su said angrily, "What are you talking about? Words! Your sister-in-law’s daughter,This is also my granddaughter, she also calls me grandma. "_P1p
My daughter-in-law was very moved when she heard this, and then she went to wash the chopsticks. When she washed the chopsticks and returned to the table, the mother-in-law and elder sister were also seated again. The mother-in-law took out three. A red envelope, one for the grandson, one for the granddaughter, and one for the grandson.
The daughter-in-law said nothing, but tears were already in her eyes. After quietly wiping away her tears, she toasted Aunt Su a glass of wine After the New Year, Aunt Su gave out three red envelopes every year. In her eyes, grandchildren, granddaughters and grandchildren are treated equally.
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Since they are married, the couple must accept each other’s Everything, good or bad, must be accepted. Parents want their children to be happy, they must love the house and accept the objects they choose. If it is a remarried family, if the other party has children in the previous marriage, then they must accept stepson or step-child Female.
If you want a happy marriage, the couple must work hard, and other members of the family must also play an active role, not to destroy their marriage. Aunt Su became the master for her son when she got married for the first time. The son was unhappy after marriage and finally divorced.
So when the son got married for the second time, Aunt Su learned the lesson from last time and stopped interfering too much. Even though she was a little concerned about her daughter-in-law’s "dragging oil bottle", but Because the son likes it, she also tolerates it, and treats the child brought by her daughter-in-law as a granddaughter.
The older sister is a bit selfish, telling her mother not to give her stepdaughter red envelopes. If the mother does this, the family will not be like this Harmony. People’s hearts are grown, you treat me well, and I will treat you well. If you reject my child, how can I accept you from my heart?
Therefore, you must be sincere and treat your loved ones. It takes sincere and kindness to make the family harmonious and happy.
[picture from the Internet]
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