Illustration: Stills from the movie "Shadow Follow Your Heart"
Haruki Murakami ran with him. The "Nobel Prize for Literature" has become a great regret in the hearts of many readers, but from a certain perspective, it is not so important whether to win . Because in the reader's mind, Haruki Murakami's position is unreplaceable.
Haruki Murakami is a well-known contemporary writer in Japan. His works also have a certain influence in the international literary world. His representative works are like "Kafka by the Sea" and "Dance!" dance! dance! "Norwegian Forest" and so on, each has a wide audience, and left readers with profound influence and far-reaching enlightenment.
Translator Shi Xiaowei commented on him as follows: Haruki Murakami's writing is both solemn and light, gorgeous and simple, with varied styles and vivid humor. It is dignified because of reality, but it also gives people infinite perception through the lines between the lines, so there is also the simplicity of returning to nature.
Twenty weak crown, 30 standing, 40 not confused, 50 knowing the destiny.
In this life, people have been busy and exhausted for decades. Different age groups have completely different mentalities, and different mentalities have created different life states and different understandings of love.
Young people are ignorant and ignorant. After adulthood, careers and families flocked to support the family without stopping. After that, when the mentality really matures, many people really understand it. It turns out that love at that time is the most true and purest.
As Haruki Murakami once said: "I think the best age to fall in love is probably between 16 and 21. Of course there are individual differences and cannot be generalized, but if they are below this age group , Inevitably looks childish and makes people laugh; and if you are past 21 or even 30, there will be real problems entangled. If you are older, there will be unnecessary ghost ideas."
Although young is not knowing the heights of the sky,But I also wanted nothing. At this time, most people’s love will naturally not be disturbed by various factors; and after entering society, before the age of thirty, most people begin to become realistic and begin to understand responsibilities. The existence of family and marriage is often greater than love ; _P1p
and so on. On many issues, some people are open to mind, and some people are entangled in endlessly. At this time, we should empty everything and return to simplicity.
Natural, youth is still good, love at this time appears sincere, this time you should love seriously, and abandon all kinds of messy duny world; after adulthood, then to middle age, this time the attitude towards love should gradually mature and understand what It is responsibility, knowing tolerant, letting go of selfishness, and returning to simplicity.
Youth is good, love is sincere
Youth is naturally beautiful. In the most desperate era, there is basically nothing to worry about except focusing on academic work. Therefore, most people often say that life as a student is the best memory in life.
When you only need to concentrate on one thing, no matter what happens, you will not feel pressure. In the most stress-free era, it is not difficult to do one thing well.
In the time when there is no need to worry about firewood, rice, oil and salt, the collapse of adults has not really come. At this time, the feelings are indeed pure, and love appears more sincere.
Just as Mr. Haruki Murakami said, getting rid of the youthfulness of childishness and the interference of complicated and common things, love at this time, each other can concentrate on the issues that they like or dislike. So the most moving love is often hidden in everyone's youth.
Since the first contact with love, most people will try their best to understand the current relationship, and then slowly understand how to love. Gradually, everyone's understanding of love will mature, and the capacity for love will also increase. Therefore, the first love is the most sincere.
In "Passing by Your World", Zhang Jiajia perfectly integrates the unruly youth into love, and opens a beautiful chapter of youth.
This sentence in the book,Probably the best summary, he wrote: "You have loved her, you have loved her forever. You will fall in love with others in the future, but your world will be more complete and you can live with another person."
Falling in love with someone in your youth is a lingering and precious memory. As the author said, you will always fall in love with this person, but as your resume increases, the capacity of love will gradually increase.
Everyone is becoming more aware of how to love, and how to love tolerantly. The trend of love is gradually becoming mature and full of responsibility.
When love is mature, people should also mature
Every future relationship will be integrated into everyone's concept of love. Standing at thirty, forty is not confused. Thirty is the age for self-reliance, and forty is not confused about everything.
To be precise, most people can't do it. At least in the matter of love, the state of most people is helpless. After leaving the purest love, many people become too realistic to lose their original intention. As Haruki Murakami said in reality, people who are too old have many "ghost ideas".
Because it is too realistic, many people gradually become selfish, but reality is right. Mature love must be realistic and must care about material things. Who doesn't want a better future? But please also keep that trace of purity, the lover must be attentive, love can mature, and people should mature.
After starting a family and starting a business, he understands responsibility and responsibility. After the family is stable, he understands tolerance and understanding. This may be the best place for love.
When love is young, give everyone enough time to enjoy it, and since love matures, everyone is required to know the responsibility and the tolerance of living together.
In the article "Youth", Ms. Yi Shu teaches everyone how to distinguish between youth, reality and love.
She talked about a phenomenon. The hosts of sentiment magazines often receive letters from the audience, regretting all the "crimes" of wasting youth, and their attitude towards youth, Ms. Yi Shu said: "No matter male or female,The years of youth are very precious. Don't let it go, don't waste it, and handle it carefully. _Strong10strong
Youth should be "handled carefully". She believes that women's youth needs to be grasped, and men are also "not old". Career has now become the focus of everyone's life at the beginning.
When you have a career, the situation is very embarrassing. Regardless of whether you are a man or a woman, if you cannot bear 100% responsibility for love, you should do what you are doing beforehand. It is not a bad idea.
Love should gradually tend to Maturity is right, and people should understand responsibility and grow.
Love in adulthood should slowly become mature, responsible, selfless, and tolerant. There should be fewer "ghost ideas", talk To get more should be the future.
Youth is still good, and enjoying love is the moment. At this time, regardless of other things, love is the most sincere look like this; and when people reach the prime of life, they need to take care of the middle age. Career also needs to take care of family. At this time, more consideration is ability and responsibility.
Of course, the best time to love is in youth, but the most mature love is already responsible, and love is not old. My love will become more and more calm.
Mr. Haruki Murakami’s book has a very special gorgeousness and a simple simplicity. What you can see and feel between the lines is very touching. Deep life advice.
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