When we were young, our view of the world was always particularly single.
believes that you should get married in your twenties, and you should succeed and become famous in your thirties.
As we grow up, we will find that too many people and things are not so destined to be so destined. They should only be one form, but they can have many different forms.
It’s like in the end we will realize that more people will not achieve much, they will only become ordinary. In terms of marriage, not everyone will really enter marriage at that age.
Some people may be a little later, while others may have been single for many years.
Yes, there are always some people who have been alone for many years.
There will be men like this, and there will be some girls too. There are reasons why these women who have always been single can do this.
There is not a high demand for love, and I can live a good life.
In love, some people cannot bear the lack of people around them. Once they are separated from one person, they will immediately start looking for another relationship and give themselves a new beginning.
is like, if no one is with me, if you don’t fall in love, you will have no way to live.
But some women really don’t have that demand for feelings.
She has always been used to being alone and dealing with all her own affairs alone.
Perhaps in the eyes of others, she will look lonely and a little pitiful, but she does not feel that way. She just thinks that such a life is good, she enjoys it very much, and she likes it very much.
She really enjoys being alone and is not willing to let anyone enter her life easily, unless that person is really good, she appreciates him very much, feels that they are very compatible with each other, and the other is really sincere.
In her heart, she also longs for someone to give herself a high-quality relationship. It’s a pity that such a person is too difficult to meet. When she can’t meet him at all, she might as well just want to fall in love with someone without any pain.
I don’t want to reduce my quality of life because of a person and don’t think I have to fall in love. That’s normal. What she cared more about was her own comfort, she didn't want to be wronged or treated herself badly.
has no confidence in yourself and love, and dare not start.
Not everyone is optimistic about love, and not everyone who lacks love will long for love crazy.
For some women who have had bad family since childhood and have some shortcomings in their hearts, she is not very confident about herself. She does not believe that such an self is worthy of being loved, nor does she believe that there will be someone who really loves such an self.
She is not confident enough about herself and always feels that it is vain for love, thinking that even if someone will be obsessed with her for a while, over time, everything will only disappear and nothing will be left.
is too worried about the people who are close to her, not coming with sincerity. In the end, she will only be scarred, so for many years, she has always refused anyone to come to her world.
will either choose to reject it at the beginning, or you will push the other party away after trying it a little.
because he was afraid of the end, so he directly rejected all the beginnings. He really didn’t have much courage and had the ability to love someone.
She has never healed herself, and has never made herself really stronger, so she is always resisting love.
is too close to someone, she will be really uncomfortable and feel very uneasy, and she doesn't know how to face it.
There are still people who have never forgotten, and the injuries that have not come out.
A woman who is always single may not have had a beginning with anyone, or it may have been tried before.
Maybe I liked it, but I haven’t been together, maybe I have been together, but I later separated.
So in the years that followed, although there was no one around her, there might be someone in her heart.
There is a person who has loved but cannot be loved and who has quietly lived in his heart, or it is a person who has brought some pain to himself, and even though time has passed for a long time, he has never come out.
When there is someone in her heart and there is still some imprint, she will really have no interest in contacting other opposite sexes.
doesn't have that kind of mind, and she can't be interested in anyone anymore. So for a long time, she has just lived alone in a silent life and is not willing to touch on love again.
Although she also knows that this is not good. Everything in the past has passed and is not that meaningful, she still can't start over and will still just keep herself in place. How long will the state like
last? She doesn't know. Sometimes she may want to make some changes so that everything can change, but she can't do it at all. It's easy to know and difficult to do it. Over time, just forget it.
Why are some women able to be single all the time? Because everyone’s needs for feelings are really different.
Not everyone can love bravely, regardless of it.
At the same time, there are always some people who still have some pain and uneasy in their hearts.
People are different from people. Everyone’s attitude towards feelings and the path they want to take are also different.
doesn’t matter whether it’s good or bad, or right or wrong. Originally, that is your own life. No matter who it is, you can still have your own choices and live according to your own wishes. Even if it is not your own wish, it is just passive.
is single, there is nothing wrong with it. However, if you don’t like this so much, and you still want to try the taste of love, you must learn to break yourself from the inside and make yourself different, and you can really have a beginning with someone.
Love may not be as good as expected, but it is not that scary either.
text/Tan Meng
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