Marriage is not easy.
No matter how much love each other and how good the relationship is, many people often feel similar as they walk.
people are very complicated. Sometimes, we ourselves may not understand ourselves so much. Living with one person is even more simple. There are only many contradictions and many problems.
When there is a problem with the marriage, there are only some small bumps and each other will choose to tolerate it.
. If the problem is too big, some people will choose to leave.
is somewhere in between, but there will be some men who will not say divorce, but will only choose to separate.
no longer lives under the same roof, but it will not end the relationship. Such behavior does not seem to be so easy to understand, but in fact it does not.
doesn't want to leave, but just want to calm down.
Men are more afraid of trouble because they are afraid of trouble, so you nag them and they are too lazy to deal with them. They don’t want to face many things, and they are unwilling to solve many problems.
When he is just that, he escapes all kinds of things. As a woman, of course you can't stand it, and you will only talk about him more.
As you always have too many dissatisfactions, he will feel even more annoyed and dislike this family atmosphere.
So, although he doesn't want to get a divorce, he doesn't want to continue to stay with you.
After thinking about it, he will think about simply going out to live for a while, not living with you, letting yourself be quiet, and also letting you suppress your anger and become more calm.
makes such a choice, in fact, to escape the problems between you and to keep yourself at peace.
He will feel that after a while, those problems will naturally disappear, and you will reflect enough, your temper will naturally become softer, and you will not treat him like that. When you move back yourself, your relationship will become more relaxed.
A man like this has no ability to solve problems and doesn't know that the problem will not become lacking with time. He is just too lazy to deal with all that, and uses this method to escape from you and punish you.
hasn't figured it out yet, so I need to think about it again.
needs to be separated, and generally speaking, the problems are not small.
At that time, maybe in his heart, he thought of just getting a divorce, but at the same time, for various reasons, he might still have some attachment, and he didn't want you to stop there.
two ideas are being raised, and I don’t know what to do, so I put this problem on the spot.
Next, he needs some time to think about this issue carefully and think clearly whether he should divorce and what kind of decision he made. That is better and wise.
He wanted to think about it again, but in fact he wanted to see how everything would develop after separation.
See if you will start to reflect, and whether you will find a better way to get along again, so that the relationship can be eased, so that everything can have a certain turnaround, and that the relationship can be continued well in the future will not always be so awkward.
Although many couples do not usher in a good development because of separation, they really have some time to separate, and become more objective and able to think rationally.
is not willing to give up on each other, and each starts to examine themselves, and then tries to make some changes. Gradually, from separation to moving together, everything begins to get better and better.
wants to divorce, but also want to leave a way out.
Not everyone will be so straightforward when it comes to feelings.
always has people, and they like to find alternatives, and there are always people. They obviously want to get divorced, but they are worried that there will be no better choice after divorce, and they will never find a suitable person again. They can only be single and regret it in the future.
Due to this idea, after weighing the pros and cons, just don’t leave and keep this relationship first.
After separation, of course he will not be idle, but will start looking for a new partner, take the initiative to get close to the person he thinks is not bad, and choose one for himself as much as possible so that he can have another relationship. Once
is found, he will not hesitate to file for divorce quickly and put the divorce on the agenda, so that he can free himself and have a new beginning, and he is completely unwilling to make any stop. If he searches for
, he can't find it all the time, and he will not be in a hurry to leave, but will just keep searching.
either keep searching until it is really found, or one day, I suddenly realize the fact that I can't find at all, and then look back and want to make do with you and continue to live with you.
Anyway, it is more realistic. It will not let itself be in vain. It must always give itself a place to return. After weighing the trade-offs, make the most beneficial choice for you based on your actual situation.
A man who lives apart but doesn’t mention divorce, you don’t have to guess what he is thinking.
What you should know more is what you think, whether the other party is worth it, and whether it can continue together.
If you don’t want to get a divorce, the other person is actually pretty good. Then, instead of keeping a stalemate, it’s better to do something.
can make appropriate adjustments to yourself, chat with the other party sincerely, express each other's most real ideas, and then find ways to get along and try it out with the other party.
find a better way to get along with each other, so that each other can slowly become more suitable for each other.
If the other person is not very good, you have never felt his sincerity and really want to divorce, you can do it that way.
really can't continue, so it's not a bad thing to just end.
text/Tan Meng
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