Do you still remember " is not short of money " from Xiao Shenyang ? The most painful thing in life is "when a person dies, the money is not spent"; the most painful thing in life is "when a person lives, the money is gone." After all, it just tells us that must learn to save, have surplus food at home, and don’t panic in your heart.
The years are silent, time flies, and before you know it, you have reached the time of retirement and leisure at home. Some people dislike their pensions for being small and will continue to work without breaking a break; some people say that they don’t care about the amount of their pensions, but how long they can take; some people think that after retirement, they have to live “wine and drunk today” and do not have to be a horse and cow for their children and grandchildren.”
People are old, is the only pension enough for retirement? It seems far from enough now. As your physical condition decreases, your quality of life will be discounted; if you are in good health, but your children and grandchildren rarely interact with relatives and friends, and you do not have the comfort of family affection to make yourself a lonely and widowed elderly person; but if you are in good health, your children are filial, but you revolve around you, that means you are living a comfortable life and your children will have a hard time.
So, if you want to live a comfortable and comfortable life, we must learn to save these for the rest of our life to make our old age comfortable and happy.
Save health, this is the cornerstone of enjoying life in old age
I remember a writer said that he once thought that happiness is "have": money, a car, a house, and a career. So she worked crazily on the spot and woke up only after she fell ill due to excessive fatigue. turned out that happiness was "no": worry-free, worry-free, sick, and disaster-free.
Health is something you can get without spending a penny, but when you lose it, it is hard to buy it. When you have it, you don’t feel like you have everything, but when you lose it, you find that you have lost everything. As Bai Yansong said: Health is a person’s greatest wealth, and savings and health is the most affordable and wisest investment.
After retirement, after years of hardship, we have become more and more aware that health is the best wealth. There is a famous saying in the retirement group: Don’t be afraid of taking less money, as long as you take it for a long time.
Now, people are running, some are riding, and some are practicing traditional martial arts. As long as it is an activity that is beneficial to our health, everyone will actively come to the team and participate in exercise.
The rest of your life after retirement will actively save health, one is for your own pleasure and comfort, two is for your children to increase burden and worries in your later years, and three is for saving overall medical expenses. I remember that Tai Chi Master once said that now , we practice boxing every day, and save for our bodies piece by piece. When we are old age, we will take it out and enjoy it all.
Now the master is a 90-year-old man. He also rides a bicycle to the square to accompany everyone to practice boxing, explains the theory of boxing to everyone, and promotes hands with young people. Looking at Master’s shiny skin, those of us who have not yet grown old feel ashamed.
With the development of society and the development of science and technology, people's life span is getting longer and longer. Healthy longevity is a blessing for our old age, a cornerstone for enjoying our old age, and a blessing for our children.
After retirement, we save health in , so that we can live our old age well without worries, illness and disaster, enjoy the happy days of the good times, and be grateful for everything in life.
Save money, this is the confidence and dignity of old age
"The world is panicked, but it is just a few taels of silver, but this few taels of silver can relieve all kinds of panic in the world." The collapse of adults begins with lack of money. When you get sick, you will know that you are helpless and worried; when you have an accident, you will feel helpless in your pocket.
After retirement, what you fear most is not that you have less pension, but that you have less savings in your hands. A disease makes oneself helpless and sad. It is not that the children are unfilial or that the children are not filial, but that they are really not rich.
Nowadays, young people have learned to "consume in advance", thinking that this is a fashion, thinking that as long as they are not lazy, they will earn as much money as they imagine. You should buy a big house, a car that is pleasing to the eye, get married, and have a good time in life.All of these require money to support them. However, how many young people in life do not rely on their parents?
has sponsored buying a house, also sponsored changing cars, helping with children, and taking on the growth of grandchildren. The elderly have accumulated half of their lives in their hands, and they may have been finished by the young people in a few years.
So, for the rest of our life after retirement, we must learn to save money, not for anything else, just for us to be confident when we are lying in the hospital bed in the future, and we have the confidence to tell the doctor to continue to use the best medicine to treat , instead of tremblingly asking "How much does it cost to treat this disease?" There is no need to look at the expressions of children, thinking about whether to stay or leave.
for more than a lifetime, no matter how much your pension is, you must learn to "accumulate grain to prevent hunger" and increase your confidence and dignity in your later years.
Save family affection, this is a tonic on the road to old age
Cai Kangyong once said: Love is like an account, it does not exist in normal times, and it is naturally stretched at critical moments. There is no indifference in this world for no reason. It is just a disappointment after being chilled again and again. Only by asking about your well-being on weekdays can you support each other in the future.
In life, there are often elderly people who complain about their children’s unfiliality and their lives being miserable. Seeing other people’s children talking and laughing with their parents, buying them for them in large and small ways, don’t you reflect on them except envy?
I remember that the 76-year-old sister downstairs told us how unfilial her daughter was, and that her daughter was not good to her. Someone kindly reminded her, isn’t your village demolished? Do you have one for your daughter? How much will your million-dollar demolition payment be given to your daughter? Unexpectedly, my elder sister said with confidence that is all my son's, and my daughter doesn't have a penny.
Everyone looked at each other tacitly, and when the eldest sister complained again, no one wanted to say something to her. People's hearts are full of flesh. What you reflect on your children is how much blessings you have. For parents like their daughter, I hope that their daughter can go home often, but only people can look at her daughter's conscience.
People are old and care more about the company and support of family affection. They care about their children going home to see themselves often. Even if they don’t buy anything, they just make a meal for themselves, chat with them and have family fun. They are the best “tonics” for the elderly in their later years.
Everyone understands the truth, but sometimes, parents feel that if they have children and raise them, the children should be good to them. In fact, any relationship is mutual. Parents do not discuss with their children when they give birth to children, and there is no mutual understanding and tolerance and assistance in the process of growing up. Therefore, if you want to have a "harmonious" family atmosphere in your later years, most of them can only think about it.
more than a lifetime, learns to save family affection, understand and help children more within their abilities, and give them the most sincere comfort to each other in a state of being able to be based on the boundaries. This is the best spiritual food for us to grow old.
Save goodness, this is the way to leave yourself
Roman Rolland said: "Goodness is not a kind of knowledge, but an act." The ancients said that those who love love come back, and those who are kind-hearted will be blessed. If a person chooses kindness in , he will have more opportunities to .
In life, some elderly people feel "amazing" as they get older, they feel "amazing" and blackmailing others, and some people "snatch up on others" and "snatching" other people's things. The most unfavorable thing is the "old man's stealing vegetables".
People need face, trees need bark, why do some elderly people be so lawless? It is just because the law is tolerant of the elderly, even if these elderly people without conscience do things without kindness.
People are old, and learn to save goodness is actually leaving a way out for their old age. The elderly living alone in the community often do some kindness and help others with some small benefits. The neighbors all remember the goodness of the elderly. Later, the old man didn't come out for two days, and the neighbors found a neighborhood committee to send the sick old man to the hospital.
Kindness is a person's behavior and a person's blessing. People have good thoughts, and God will bless them. Insignificant good deeds can inspire the power to overcome obstacles; life is a cycle of reincarnation, and all the kindness and love you give will eventually return to you.
Author: Huagui Zenxin
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