In life, there are always some parents who are biased towards their sons and treat their daughters as outsiders, which makes their daughters feel cold. Aunt Li is such a person.
One day, my son Qiu Sheng said to his mother Aunt Li: I don’t want to work anymore. I want to invest in a small restaurant, but I don’t have money. Can you help me find a way?
Aunt Li said: Buy a house and a car for you after getting married. The money at home has been spent. I will borrow it from your sister.
So Aunt Li called her daughter Qiurong back to her parents' home and told her about Qiusheng's idea of opening a restaurant, hoping that Qiurong could lend her younger brother 100,000 yuan.
Qiurong said: It’s okay to borrow money, but brothers can settle the score clearly. We are siblings, and we are no exception. If I lend him money, he must write me an IOU!
Aunt Li said: What are the IOU for your brother? Is it okay for your mom to guarantee you?
Due to the mother's face, Qiurong did not ask his younger brother to write an IOU and lent his younger brother Qiusheng 100,000 yuan.
After Qiu Sheng got this 100,000 yuan, he quickly opened a small restaurant and the business was pretty good. A few years have passed in a blink of an eye, and Qiu Sheng has made money, but he never mentions repaying the money.
Qiurong couldn't sit still, so he looked for Qiu Sheng and asked him when he would pay back the 100,000 yuan. Qiu Sheng said: I didn't make any money, so why should I give it to you? Besides, I took 100,000 yuan from my mother, but I didn’t borrow money from you!
Qiurong felt that his younger brother was cheating and didn't want to pay back the money. So, she found her mother Aunt Li, hoping that she would come forward to get her brother to pay back the money.
Aunt Li said: You are the sister, so let’s give your brother 100,000 yuan.
Qiurong said: That's 100,000 yuan, not a small amount, I can't afford it!
Aunt Li was angry and said: It’s just 100,000 yuan. You don’t want it anymore. Even if you compensate your parents’ family for the bride price!
It turns out that since Qiurong and her husband were in a free relationship, when Qiurong got married, Aunt Li asked Qiurong to ask her mother-in-law for a 100,000 yuan bride price to her mother-in-law. Qiurong said: I am looking for her husband-in-law, not a commodity transaction! Aunt Li said: You are not allowed to get married if you don’t give your parents a bride money! Qiurong didn't listen to Aunt Li, so he ran to his in-laws' house. According to the village customs, Qiurong was called elopement.
After Qiurong got married, her family was very angry and refused to recognize Qiurong and did not interact with Qiurong for several years. After all, it was a family. Later, the anger of my mother's family gradually faded, so I recognized Qiurong and walked around and interacted with each other.
This time, Qiu Sheng borrowed money to open a restaurant. Aunt Li has always been worried about her daughter Qiu Rong's elopement when she got married and did not give her parents a bride price. She decided to borrow 100,000 yuan from Qiu Rong in the name of Qiu Sheng opening a restaurant, and to get back the bride price when Qiu Rong got married. Naturally, Aunt Li and her son decided not to repay the 100,000 yuan they borrowed Qiu Rong's 100,000 yuan.
Now, Qiu Rong came to collect the bill. Aunt Li said it was a 100,000 yuan betrothal gift to her parents' family. Qiu Rong said to Aunt Li angrily: You want to dig money from me everywhere, and this is forcing me to stop dealing with her parents' family! Aunt Li said with confidence: People like you who are ungrateful, disobedient and unfilial, their family members will long ago no longer want to recognize you!
Qiurong cried aggrievedly, went home, and cried to her husband about the money he asked for. Her husband was silent for a while and said: Look, those who are girls and sons-in-law come to their mother-in-law's house to visit relatives during the holidays, which is lively and lively. Look at us again, it's deserted! Besides, it is a custom for a girl to get a bride when she gets married, but you have destroyed it. Your parents have worked hard to raise you for 100,000 yuan. Don’t give a lot of bride. You should be conscientious and filial. This is the case with your parents. In the future, my parents should be filial when they get old, and they can’t just be for their own family of three!
After hearing what my husband said, Qiu Rong said: So you think I am a selfish person. Since you don’t care about the 100,000 yuan you lend, why should I ask for it? I am really Zhu Bajie looking in the mirror, I am not a human inside and outside!
Qiurong's husband just married Qiurong and thought Qiurong didn't want the bride price and was very happy. After many years of marriage, his husband found that Qiurong was indeed good to him, but was not good to his parents. His husband thought: How could a woman who doesn't care about her biological parents care about her parents-in-law? So, my husband took advantage of this opportunity to borrow money from my mother-in-law and educate Qiurong.
The husband took the initiative to tell his mother-in-law that he would not want the 100,000 yuan, and the bride price of the compensation is also considered as the son-in-law's filial piety! In this way, Qiurong walked around with her parents' home again and became lively!
In life, the matter of a woman asking for a dowry when she gets married has caused conflicts between many families and relatives. Some people who don’t want a penny of dowry and elope with their husbands will indeed be looked down upon by their in-laws: Will a person who doesn’t care about his parents’ parents be good to his parents-in-law? In fact, such a woman is not favored by others! What do you think?
