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Xu Han (pseudonym) has always been a recognized beauty and looks very beautiful. Even though she is over 30 years old, her skin and figure are still very good.
Whether in school or after work, the opposite sex who actively pursued her has never stopped.
Every boyfriend of her is very handsome and is very gentle to Xu Han.
However, her vision has always been very high. When others persuade her to get married quickly and stop jumping around, otherwise she will suffer in the future.
But in Xu Han's opinion, with such good conditions, you must find a husband you are most satisfied with.
She is used to comparing her with her cousin. She always feels that her diploma is not as high as her own and her family conditions are average. She can marry such an excellent man, and she will definitely not lose.
After the age of thirty, Xu Han's standards for choosing a spouse are still very high. The partner introduced by her friends and relatives either dislike others as ugly or dislike the wedding house that was not purchased in full.
In Xu Han's opinion, it seems that men in the world are not worthy of their beauty.
The parents were already anxious for her, but Xu Han was still unmoved. She met her last boyfriend when she was working. Although his hometown is in the countryside, he had bought a house long ago and his work income was good.
At that time, they had reached the stage of talking about marriage. Xu Han's parents did not have high requirements. As long as they could tolerate each other and live a happy life.
However, Xu Han had to ask the man to give a 280,000 yuan gift, otherwise he would not marry.
The boy's parents have promised her to add her name to the house book and give her a 120,000 yuan gift, and the wedding will also be very decent.
Because her in-laws could not follow her request, Xu Han quarreled with her boyfriend many times and even threatened to break up.
As a result, she lost her good relationship.
Xu Han was already 34 years old at that time. He relied on his beauty and had a strong and arrogant personality.
She thought she would meet a man who was richer and willing to give more to herself, and what she would miss was bad.
However, in recent years, most of the men who pursue her have been divorced.
She has been on blind dates for more than twenty times, but she still can't find a partner to get married.
What made Xu Han feel most desperate was that there was a divorced 48-year-old man who even disliked her for being old and looked down on her.
At that time, Xu Han had lowered his requirements. The other party had a car and a house, and he also opened his own company. Although he was a little short, he could barely accept it.
If it weren't for her parents' rush to get her married, Xu Han wouldn't look down on her. But the man refused to date her and said, "If you were 27 years old, I would marry you. Unfortunately, you are too old now and I have good conditions. You are not worthy of me."
Xu Han went back crying at that time. She never thought that she would have such a miserable encounter.
used to choose men by myself, but now I know what the price of being too high is.
Xu Han regrets breaking up with his ex. He will never meet a man as gentle as him in his life.
The feeling of being picky by men is painful and heartbreaking. At this moment, Xu Han realized clearly that being beautiful is not a kind of capital.
As long as you are over thirty years old, no matter how you take care of it, men will start to dislike you.
Your choices in the marriage and love market will also decrease, and this is the reality.
If you could see it clearly earlier, you wouldn’t be so willful.
Good love must be fought for on your own initiative. Never think that you are good-looking and have many suitors, and just think that you can meet a man with better conditions.
Don’t see your best friend and colleague around you. They look average but your husband is so outstanding, and you feel jealous. You must know how to cherish your existing happiness so that you will not suffer any losses.
Don’t be like Xu Han, who clearly holds a good deck, but ends up playing badly.
As long as there is a man around you who is good to you, you must be careful. When you have a reasonable understanding of yourself, you will not miss happiness.
