Text/Xia Mo
01, Volume Start
Life is like a complex proposition that requires continuous verification and even more continuous planning for the future.
A truly visionary person has a longer-term vision and is never limited to the present. Have plans for the future, maintain self-discipline, and fulfill your dreams.
" Qian and Chihiro " says: "No matter how long the story is, there will be a time to end. No matter how slow the train is, there will be one platform after another."
Time quietly takes away the youth like green, takes away the tenacious middle age, and gradually reaches old age.
Life in my later years needs to be planned in advance.
If a man wants to have a more fulfilling life, he must know how to leave a "way" for the future.
A smart man left three "backs" for himself before he got old.
02. Treating your wife well is a way out in your later years
On the road of life, men who manage their relationship with each other carefully is leaving a way out for themselves in their later years.
Wife is the most important person in life and a guarantee of happiness in the second half of her life. With a wife accompanying you, knowing your cold and hot means guarding a complete home.
"House of Please give me more advice to Lin Zhixiao in "House6 for the rest of your life". Her father got gastric cancer . She and her mother took good care of him and spoiled him as a child. When food comes, I open my mouth and clothes come, I am afraid that I will be inadequate in serving you.
Lin Zhixiao's parents have a good relationship. The mother talked about each other's past with emotion, feeling that although life was dull, her husband had never done anything to be sorry for her, and she always felt very happy.
So, when her husband needs her care, she will not be vague whether it is paying money or effort, and she also wants to give him all the best.
Lin Zhixiao's father felt very at ease and believed from the bottom of his heart that his wife would never leave her, and he cherished her with all his heart.
A man who treats his wife kindly will live a happy life in his later years.
Men, when they are young, give their wives more satisfaction and happiness, and their wives will be grateful for everything men have done for her. When a man encounters problems in his later years, he will give him all his gentleness and give him better care.
If a man wants to have a better life in his later years, he must run a good family and give his wife more love when he is young. In this way, in your later years, you will get more love from your wife.
Only when couples rely on each other in their later years can they gain more happiness.
03. Leave a house for yourself and live your old age
A truly smart man will leave a house for himself when he is young and planning his old age.
In my later years, I have space for my later years and will live freely and calmly.
Men, in their later years, if they have a place that can make themselves physically and mentally stable, their lives will become easier.
If you still live under someone else's roof in your old age, you will make your life aggrieved. Even if your children are filial and live with them, it will be inconvenient.
Man, buys a house for himself and has his own home. You can place what you cherish, decorate a comfortable environment, and control what kind of life you want in your later years.
Leave a house for yourself, you can plant flowers and raise birds, or you can enjoy peace, drink tea and read books. You can even play some music you like and make some delicious food.
Leave a house for yourself, that is, leave a quiet place for yourself, live quietly without being disturbed by anyone.
has a residence and is not displaced. People want to have a stable life and have their own house. Don't worry about when you'll be asked to move out and decorate this home according to your preferences.
has your own house, so you don’t have to accommodate and compromise with others at will, and you don’t have to look at other people’s faces. Enjoy life with your own lifestyle in your later years and gain more happiness and sense of belonging.
04. Manage relationships with friends and live a happy old age
When people are old, they will be happier if they have friends.
Edison said: "Friendship can enhance happiness and relieve pain; because it can double our joy and share our worries."
After getting old, someone will play chess and chat with each other. If you can talk about family matters or travel together, you will not live alone.
When I was young, I often contacted my confidants and friends. Everyone talked and laughed, and worked with each other to establish a deep friendship.
After getting old, if you have many friends as your companions, your life will be colorful.
can dance with this friend and learn to sing with that friend. You can learn new cooking skills from your friends, and you can share the joys, sorrows and sorrows of your life.
On the road of life, there are several friends who are similar in age and know the truth that will bring a lot of happiness to their later years. Everyone can experience more joy in life together.
On the way to getting old, be sincere to your friends around you and keep a favor.
Treat friends with more and care less. Be tolerant and understand friends. In your old age, friends will give you a lot of warmth and companionship.
05. Summary
On the road of life, plan your old age in advance, and don’t forget to create a beautiful life of your own with your heart.
Writer Ligo said: "Before life is endless aging. We fall straight into it, and there is no choice."
Life is a process of slowly getting older.
If you want to be happy in your later years, men must learn to cherish the people who are good to them in their lives. Don’t do anything that hurts your wife, and manage your marriage with care.
In his later years, men will also receive more care from their wives and receive their affectionate treatment.
When you are young, leave a house for yourself to support yourself in your old age. In this way, in this world, no matter where you go, you have a place to go.
People have a home, it’s like a tree has roots. Only when life will be more stable and life will be more down-to-earth.
In life, make some friends, through them, you can see more possibilities in life, and your life will become more colorful.
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Author: Xia Mo, a new emotional tutor, psychology scholar, a popular emotional writer on the entire network of over 1 billion, a happy woman manager, focusing on emotions, gender, and mother-in-law and daughter-in-law for more than ten years.
