In life, everyone yearns to meet their soul mates and spend the rest of their lives with their beloved. It is undoubtedly a happy thing, but human hearts are very complicated. Sometimes, you can get rewards by giving everything, and you can be together until you get old. If you meet someone badly, then marriage will be a disaster.
Therefore, many people always dare not start their next relationship easily after divorce, fear of repeating the same mistakes, and fear that after remarrying, they will not handle the relationship between characters left over from the previous marriage, such as ex and children, which will lead to dissatisfaction with the current relationship, which will eventually affect each other's relationship.
Xu Lin's marriage is like this. Before getting married, she had several failed emotional experiences, so she devoted her time and energy to work, and no longer had expectations for love. As time goes by, she also made herself a leftover woman in her old age. Her parents saw it and were anxious in their hearts. They arranged blind dates for her many times, but they were left alone every time.
It was not until later that Xu Lin met Yang Hui at work that his relationship developed. However, Yang Hui was divorced and had a child. Now he lives with his ex-wife. Yang Hui said that the reason for the divorce was because of his disagreement and he could quarrel over small things all day long. Later, he felt that it was inappropriate, so it would be better to separate as soon as possible to avoid torture each other. Since the divorce, the relationship between the two has also changed. Perhaps because of the distance and their identities have different identities. Yang Hui and his ex-wife began to respect each other and finally got along with each other as friends.
Later, Yang Hui met Xu Lin and began to pursue various things. Gradually, Xu Lin was also moved by Yang Hui. Finally, she married him despite his parents' opposition. At first, Xu Lin also felt that divorced men would be more responsible, cherish their family more, and take marriage seriously. As for the relationship between Yang Hui and her ex-wife, she felt that she could tolerate her, and believed that as time passed, the two could truly be in harmony and calm.
But after half a year of marriage, Xu Lin found that she was not as generous as she thought. Her husband and ex-wife had a child and needed to transfer 2,000 yuan in child support every month. Therefore, the two sometimes chatted, and Yang Hui would often go to his ex-wife's house to check on the children, which also means that there will always be connections between them.
For all this, Xu Lin had to convince herself that Yang Hui was just a father who missed her children. When the two of them had children, everything would be better. Later, her husband often said that he would work overtime and came back very late every night. Xu Lin felt something was wrong. Until she found out that her husband went to see her ex-wife and transferred money to her every month, Xu Lin was completely uneasy. When she questioned her husband, she realized that the company of the ex-wife was gone and now she was unemployed. So she came to Yang Hui to cry. Seeing that she was pitiful, Yang Hui thought that she could help her if she could.
Yang Hui also kept ensuring that he had not betrayed the marriage, saying that he was afraid that his ex-wife would have no source of income, and the child would follow the hardship, so he reached out to help. He had no other ideas at all, but Xu Lin couldn't listen at all. He just felt that the two people were in constant contact, and her husband also deceived him for this. Now he would regret it sooner or later after not divorced. Yang Hui felt very innocent. He just didn't want to see that his ex-wife's life was too difficult, so that the child was also wronged, so he gave her living expenses. Sometimes he went to enlighten and comfort her, but Xu Lin did not listen to any of his explanations and insisted on divorceing the marriage.
Beautiful love is hard to come by, but marriage is not a joke. Therefore, without knowing a person seriously, don’t enter into marriage easily, especially second marriage requires more rational treatment. After all, it involves ex-boys and children. If you are not mentally prepared and have not weighed the pros and cons before making a choice, and blindly enter into marriage with just a temporary favor, it will be difficult for your life after marriage to remain calm.
For families after remarriage, you must know how to adhere to principles and bottom lines. The ex is a sensitive issue and needs to keep a good distance. When it comes to money, you must communicate with the current person and treat each other calmly. After all, loyalty is the basis of marriage. If you choose to hide it, once it is exposed, the couple will lose their sense of trust and intimacy, and it will be difficult to go back to the past. #Marriage##Emotion##Emotional Firm#
