Someone once said that whether it is a couple getting along with each other or a mother-in-law and daughter-in-law getting along with each other, they are just testing each other's bottom line and tolerance. In fact, many times, the same problem becomes a contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, and between mother and daughter, they will laugh it off. After all, the tolerance between the two is different. It is not that the mother-in-law and daughter are difficult to get along with, but that there is more tolerance between mother-in-law and daughter...
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A Ying and her husband met on a blind date. After meeting, they were quite satisfied with each other. After having dinner several times, they decided to fall in love. About a year later, the two families agreed to get married and the two got married. After marriage, Aying didn't need to live with her parents-in-law, because the two families paid the down payment together to buy a house for the couple. While Aying breathed a sigh of relief, the world of her husband and her husband was also very sweet. The second year after marriage, Aying became pregnant. She often felt dizzy due to hypoglycemia and had more frequent examinations than ordinary pregnant women. As a result, Aying fainted and woke up in the ward and heard her mother-in-law say to the person in the next bed: "I am an open-minded person. I accept it even if my daughter-in-law doesn't have a baby. At worst, I can go to the orphanage to get one." The speaker was unintentional and the listener was heartless, and Aying felt very uncomfortable.
There are many things like this. A Ying always feels that her mother-in-law is just like her brain, and what she says is always very disgusting. Originally, Aying just felt that her mother-in-law spoke harshly and felt unhappy, and the real conflict between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law was the second day after Aying gave birth to a caesarean section. At that time, Aying was lying on the hospital bed to rest, and the child cried. The mother-in-law asked Aying to feed her. However, her mouth was in a severe pain, so she asked her mother-in-law to feed the child powder first. Unexpectedly, the mother-in-law's face changed and she carried the child out. Looking at the mother-in-law's back as she was holding the child away, Aying was so painful that she couldn't move. Tears were spinning in her eyes, but she had no choice. Fortunately, her husband came back, Aying quickly told him the matter, afraid that the child would be in trouble, and hoped that he would communicate with her mother-in-law. In front of Aying, the husband asked her mother-in-law what was going on, but the mother-in-law denied the matter of carrying the child out of the ward. Seeing her husband staring at her in confusion, Aying was very helpless.
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Afterward, Aying asked her mother-in-law why she lies, but her mother-in-law just gave her a blank look and insisted that she did not take the child out. This kind of behavior in person and behind the scenes made Aying feel sad from the bottom of her heart. Aying also wanted to get along well with her mother-in-law, but the facts were not as good as she wanted. The only thing that really brought the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law to freezing point was just because of a bowl of rib soup . After finally being discharged from the hospital, Aying suggested that she wanted to drink pork rib soup. Her husband bought a few kilograms and asked her mother to help stew it. As a result, she only put 3 yuan. Aying asked her to put more, but her mother-in-law said, "What are you doing to put so much? Waste!" This stinged Aying's heart severely. Thinking of how much she suffered when she gave birth, she thought about it as a waste. This made her sadder the more she thought about it, so she said this after her husband got off work.
"Oh, I'm already very tired after all the day of work. Besides, everything is going well for the family. It's good that my mother is willing to come to the house to take care of you and help take care of the children. After all, she is old and has suffered a lot in the past. We juniors have to know how to be grateful!" A Ying originally hoped that her husband would communicate with her mother-in-law, but his attitude of being in harmony can only maintain the surface calmness, but the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law has made it worse. From then on, Aying and her mother-in-law had nothing to say, and her mother-in-law also clearly felt her coldness. After taking care of her during her confinement period, she packed her luggage and returned to her hometown. She had not seen her grandson for two years. Originally, Aying thought that after her mother-in-law left, she could manage her husband well. She was not afraid of the hard work of raising children herself, but her husband's attitude towards her became increasingly distant. That time, the child was in a bad temper and cried. Aying wanted to pick him up and coax him, but her husband shouted "started". Everyone looked at them, and Aying felt extremely embarrassed.
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The husband was not like this before. Aying guessed that his cold violence against him was related to his mother-in-law. They usually communicated with Aying on their backs, and her husband complained to Aying many times: "Are you so strong? If you don't let my mother see her grandson, you can't enjoy the joy of family."After hearing her husband's words, Aying felt aggrieved and could no longer control her tears. She also wanted to get along well with her mother-in-law, but her mother-in-law did not give her this opportunity. Not only did her husband not understand her, she blamed her. Aying could no longer bear such a marriage, so she angrily filed for divorce, but her husband regretted it and began to find someone to mediate...
