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Love is beautiful, marriage is realistic. Even if two people once loved each other to death, once they got married, they had to let go of so many romantic things and accept a peaceful and ordinary life.
Getting married has never been a matter of two people, but a matter of two families. Women are not afraid of men being poor, but are afraid of men being so stupid that they don’t know themselves.
Before Xu Min got married, she thought about sharing weal and woe with her husband and not despising her in-laws’ poverty. But it was not until after she got married that her parents-in-law came uninvited and her husband asked her to give her dowry room to her brother-in-law to get married that Xu Min realized that what she married was not human.
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Xu Min and her husband met in college. They fell in love at first sight, fell in love with each other when they met again, and decided to live for life after three times. After graduation, others parted ways, but after graduation, not only did they not break up, but instead went to work in the same city.
After dating for 5 years, Xu Min had to start talking about marriage with her husband at the urging of her parents. But my parents have always been very dissatisfied with their husband's family background. The other party is a veritable Phoenix man. He relies on his own efforts to get into college, but he has not been able to change his original family. His parents are just ordinary working people and have a younger brother who has been working long ago.
Although his parents were kind-hearted, Xu Min still couldn't bear to bear the relationship for the past five years and was reluctant to give in to her parents, so she compromised. When I got married, my in-laws really couldn't get the down payment for the wedding house, and even the dowry was just a symbolic gift of 10,000 yuan, saying that it was one in a million.
The parents were angry at her for not fighting, but they did not dare to break up the couple, so they had to buy a house for their daughter in advance and let her dowry to her in-laws' house. And it is precisely because of this dowry house that Xu Min's marriage slowly collapsed.
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With the help of parents, and the couple's salary is also pretty good, they only need to pay the mortgage every month, and their lives are very stable. It was not until half a year after they got married that their parents-in-law came uninvited and said they wanted to come to the city to relax and recuperate.
In-laws all arrived at the door of their house, and the kind Xu Min could no longer drive people out. And her soft-heartedness also laid hidden dangers for the future. My parents-in-law have just arrived for a month and they are polite and peaceful.
Until the mother-in-law made the decision without authorization, she took action first and then told her brother-in-law to live together, and the brother-in-law was not polite at all and brought his girlfriend to live together. Seeing her in-laws gathered in her house, Xu Min was very upset. She and her husband had no private space at all.
Xu Min endured the hard work, and her mother-in-law's complaints also followed. After my brother-in-law and his girlfriend moved in for 3 months, the woman became pregnant. My mother-in-law was so happy that she couldn't stop talking about her marriage and wanted to have a happy couple.
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But even if the woman is pregnant, she does not lower her requirements at all. She must have a wedding room, otherwise the child will be aborted and she will not get married. When the mother-in-law heard this, she became very anxious and hurriedly begged her eldest son to help find a solution, or give the eldest daughter-in-law's dowry room to her brother-in-law to get married? Let's make plans when they get married.
When my mother-in-law discussed these things with her husband, she was all carrying Xu Min on her back. When they were all confirmed, my husband asked Xu Min: My brother is going to get married soon, and there is a happy couple, but my parents are worried about his wedding room and they will have white hair. Otherwise, your dowry room will be given to my brother to get married first, and we will move back to your parents' home first. Anyway, there is still a house in your parents' name.
When my husband said this, Xu Min became angry: "Why should I give my brother-in-law the house my parents dowry? Did you give the down payment or hundreds of thousands of dollars?"
's husband quickly pressed her down, preventing her from yelling everywhere, and explained to her: It's not easy for my parents, I have to be filial. And giving your dowry room to my brother to get married is a reward for my parents.
Xu Min felt that it was ridiculous. She would not stop her husband from doing her filial piety, but she asked her to pay her dowry room to help her husband do her filial piety, but she didn't even have any door. Xu Min ignored her husband's plea and directly swept all her in-laws out.
A mother-in-law with no sense of boundaries and sense of proportion is not worthy of her filial piety by sacrificing her parents' interests.
Today's topic:
Do you support Xu Min to sweep all her in-laws out?
