The relationship between men and women has always been very complicated. If two people are too far apart, they can easily become strangers; if they are too close, they will inevitably cause unnecessary trouble.
How to master that degree is actually not easy. Of course, this does not mean that men and women in the world must be impure as long as they are friends.
It’s just that people have desires in their hearts and are willing to spend energy on the other person, which means that they naturally want something. When they are too compatible with each other, the relationship can easily change in an instant.
Generally speaking, when men and women interact, if they have these three "behaviors", they will "cross the line" sooner or later.
Too close physical contact
The reason why many originally pure feelings between adult men and women turn sour is because they fail to grasp the distance between each other, especially the physical distance.
always feel that the relationship between them is very good, so even if they hold hands and hug each other, it's not a big deal. However, when you treat things that can only be done between lovers as a daily routine, how can your relationship be pure again?
In fact, in the relationship between men and women, if you have too close physical contact, it means that sooner or later you will cross the line.
You have to understand that people are emotional and have impulses, and their bodies are often more honest and unreasonable. Whenever there is a suitable opportunity, crossing the line is often a matter of seconds, so don't take chances.
Frequently say ambiguous love words
The speaker has no intention, but the listener has intention. Especially in interactions with the opposite sex, different genders have different perspectives on problems.
Maybe, in your heart, they are just some jokes, but what if the other party takes it seriously? To be honest, in real life, too many loves actually originate from misunderstandings. If there were no misunderstandings, there wouldn't be as much drama, and there wouldn't be as many stories.
In fact, when you are in a relationship with the opposite sex, if you frequently say ambiguous words of love and do this, you may treat it as a joke once or twice, but one day you cannot help but take it seriously, and sooner or later you will cross the line. No need to Suspect.
Don’t control your distance in front of outsiders
People’s words can be scary, so don’t underestimate other people’s opinions. In interactions with the opposite sex, many times, it is because of what others said that you couldn't help but think more about it, and finally, inexplicably, you got into the other person's heart.
Just think about it, everyone thinks you are a good match and is matching you up intentionally or unintentionally. Can you really pretend that nothing happened?
Therefore, when interacting with the opposite sex, you must keep a good distance in public. The more you do not control the distance in front of outsiders, and even intentionally create some ambiguity, if you do this, sooner or later you will cross the line.
Just think about it, when everyone thinks that you are having an affair, if you are still so pure, it will not be justified.
