When you are in love, you can be free and affectionate, but marriage is a long-term process. Especially as time goes by, the novelty will disappear and the enthusiasm will fade. After entering the marriage, you still need to take on the responsibility of your own family. The characters face more trivial matters and pressure, and have to deal with complex relationships among family members. Once they cannot adapt to their respective living habits and cannot adapt to each other's personalities, conflicts will arise in endlessly.
Therefore, married life requires both husband and wife to work together and support each other in order to maintain their relationship and allow the sweetness before marriage to continue after marriage, especially the impact of the original family, and they must have their own opinions and opinions. In principle, we must clearly understand the priorities of the original family and the small family, and do not bring the family problems behind each into your own small family, so as to avoid conflicts and estrangement.
Wang Yan and Xu Feng met at a party. They both liked each other. Not only did they have similar personalities, they also had the same hobbies. They also had endless topics to talk about. After the party, they left each other's contact information. As time went by, the relationship slowly warmed up, and later Xu Feng successfully confessed his love on Valentine's Day.
After dating for more than a year, the two successfully entered into marriage. Since Wang Yan was an only child, her parents used their savings to buy her a dowry house, hoping that she would have security in the future and avoid being married. Her husband's family looked down upon her, so the young couple moved into this house after their marriage and spent a happy time there.
However, every marriage has a shelf life. If it is not properly managed and maintained, trivial matters will fill the whole family, eventually leading to constant conflicts between husband and wife. The same is true for Wang Yan's marriage. She often fights with her husband over trivial matters. There were endless quarrels, and in the end there would even be a cold war for several days.
After four years of marriage, my brother-in-law is also getting married, but he does not have a fixed job. He has been doted on by his mother-in-law since he was a child. Not only is he uneducated, but he also has no patience for anything. He spends all day doing nothing. Wang Yan also introduced him to a job, but within two days his brother-in-law had a conflict with his colleagues and got into a fight. In the end, he was too lazy to go to work, leaving only a mess for Wang Yan to deal with.
Now, after a lot of effort, a girl fell in love with him. Her mother-in-law was both happy and worried. After all, the other girl required a house if she wanted to get married, but the family did not have the ability to buy a house in full, so they had to ask the eldest brother for help. Xu Feng and his wife After discussing it, he said directly: Wife, I want to give my house to my brother for his wedding. Do you have any objection?
Wang Yan was stunned after hearing this. She also knew that her husband had a pre-marital house, but the loan had not been paid off yet. Over the years, her husband’s salary was used to pay off the mortgage, and the rest was used to support the original family. Therefore, There was a problem in the couple's relationship. After all, since they got married, they have been paying for the family expenses themselves. But now that the husband actually wants to give the pre-marital house to his brother-in-law, then he will have to help his brother-in-law pay off the mortgage in the future.
So she replied coldly: It's impossible to give it, but it's okay to rent it to him, just four thousand yuan a month. After hearing what his wife said, the husband immediately became angry: He is my brother and we are all part of the same family. Why do you care so much about rent if you still want it? Wang Yan replied: Have you contributed to this family since you got married? You only have your family in your heart. After giving him the house, do you still have to help pay the mortgage?
After hearing this, the husband just replied in a low voice: My brother has no job, and my mother keeps asking me to help him. I really have no choice. Seeing her husband's appearance, Wang Yan became furious and immediately showed her cards: If you dare to give the house to your brother, we will divorce and you will move out of my dowry room. After saying that, she went straight back to the bedroom. She just hoped that her husband would think clearly and not let their marriage really reach the point of no return.
Shakespeare once said: An unsatisfactory marriage is like a hell, where you will fight for a lifetime and have no peace of mind. On the contrary, if you choose a satisfactory spouse, you can live in harmony and endless happiness for a hundred years.We are indeed lucky to be able to talk about love and marriage, but we will be happier if we can maintain our original aspirations after marriage and run a good family together. However, after many people enter into marriage, they will bring the problems of their original family into their own small homes and be affected by family affection. Kidnapped by filial piety, you do things that harm your family and your lover. Once you lose your principles and bottom line and break your lover's heart, it will be difficult for the marriage to continue to be stable. #emotion##marriage##emotion office#
