Text丨Love in the West Chamber
Time is not long, I hope you will meet in my words and it will not be too late!
Mr. Lu Xun once said: "Everything you pass leaves traces." The same is true for love. Whether a person loves you deeply or not can be seen from the clues in life.
As a place that carries the sweetness of your lover, "home" will naturally be filled with your presence because of the other person's love.
Even a pair of slippers that belong only to you at the door, or a carefully selected ornament on the coffee table, can prove the depth of the other person's love for you.
So, please remember, whether a person loves you deeply or not, you can tell by looking at these three places in your home.
Is the refrigerator full of your favorite foods?
As the saying goes, if you want to capture a person's heart, you must first capture his stomach. Therefore, people who love you deeply will definitely pay attention to your dietary preferences.
Love does not need to be grand, but can be seen in ordinary days. Food has always had a healing function, so those who love you will definitely stock the refrigerator with the food you love.
I remember a video I saw on the Internet before: a girl who was originally as beautiful as a flower was forcefully fed by her boyfriend into a slightly chubby figure.
Before meeting her boyfriend, a girl is very concerned about her image. Therefore, when it comes to the food she likes, she endures it again and again, just to maintain a perfect figure.
After living together with her boyfriend, her boyfriend found delicious food for her in different ways every day. Even late at night, as long as the girl expresses hunger, her boyfriend will immediately cook her favorite food.
She never has to worry about being hungry at home, nor does she have to worry about what to order. Because there are all her favorite foods in the refrigerator at home.
But gradually, the girl also became worried, fearing that her boyfriend would dislike her and break up with her because of her sudden weight gain. So, she decided to start losing weight.
But her boyfriend said that he fed her fat on purpose, so that he could keep her by his side forever.
Of course, for the health of his girlfriend, he will also control the girl's weight within a reasonable range through dietary adjustments.
To be honest, for women, appearance will age with time.
Therefore, the man who does not dislike the change in your appearance and is willing to customize exclusive food for you for your liking and health, really loves you very much.
This shows that he really cares about you, so he will try his best to let you enjoy the happiness of delicious food without worrying about your health.
Are your clothes neatly stacked in the closet?
As we all know, the most difficult place to organize at home is the closet. Regardless of men or women, it is difficult for anyone to organize their wardrobe properly unless they suffer from severe obsessive-compulsive disorder.
But for the person who loves you, as long as you need it, he will definitely do it. After all, all his starting points are to love you and be considerate for you.
I believe that many people have this experience, that is, they are disliked by their parents and have not tidied up, especially the wardrobe that is prone to clutter.
A few years ago, Lan Lan (pseudonym) was a new housewife. With no experience, she was so busy every day that she was dizzy.
But her mother-in-law, who is also a woman, does not understand her at all. Instead, she makes trouble for her in various ways. The most common complaint is the wardrobe in her room.
Her husband felt very distressed when he saw Lan Lan struggling to raise the children and tidying up everything at home every day.
From then on, he secretly decided that no matter how late he came back from get off work, he would tidy up the wardrobe.
The old man always says: "When you marry a chicken, follow the chicken; when you marry a dog, follow the dog." Your husband's attitude after marriage will really directly determine your happiness.
Although organizing the wardrobe is a small thing, Lan Lan is very touched by her husband's understanding and tolerance. And this habit has been maintained to this day. Lan Lan no longer has to be depressed about finding clothes.
Is the decoration at home decorated as you like?
In addition to her husband's sobriety towards the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, what moved Lan Lan the most was her husband's support and attention.
At the beginning, at the request of Lanlan's parents, her husband's family chose to buy a wedding house in Chengdu. Moreover, Lanlan’s name is added to the real estate certificate . Because of this incident, her mother-in-law has always had some opinions on Lanlan.
But her husband was very supportive. Not only that, he also gave Lanlan the decoration of the home. And told her: "This will be our home from now on, so you just need to design it the way you like."
You must know how happy it is for a woman to have a stable home. What's more, you can also design it according to your own preferences.
Perhaps, some people will think that decoration is not a big deal and does not mean anything. But I believe that anyone who has decorated a house knows that it is difficult for family members to reach a consensus on decoration issues.
Therefore, a man who respects your opinions and takes the initiative to compromise must have deep feelings for you. After all, respect between people requires emotional connection.
Conclusion:
In fact, in general, whether it is the refrigerator, wardrobe or home decoration, it represents the preference, attention and understanding of the people who love you deeply.
A good lover will always try his best to empathize with you.
Under the same roof, if she can’t take good care of you and show her love in every detail, then how can you expect her to love you?
We have long passed the age of hearing about love, and actual actions are more convincing. So, don't blindly ask the other person whether they love you or not.
You just need to remember that the person who loves you does not need your words, and your behavior at home can speak for itself. And for people who don't love you, even if you insist on entangled, it won't help.
