Preface:
"I have a pension of 6,000 yuan, but I don't have 8 yuan to buy ice cream. My son: For the sake of the family, I: get lost." This is what Uncle Luo encountered. What is going on? Let’s take a look together!
Uncle Luo’s self-report:
My wife and I are colleagues. We both work in the same factory and in the same office. When we are working, we often have contact. My wife’s thoughts She is very delicate and has a good temper. Everyone in our office likes her very much. After we have been together for a long time, I have a crush on her. At the beginning, I did not dare to confess because I was afraid of being rejected, but later I I can't control myself anymore. I think people have to fight for themselves once, just in case they succeed! So I confessed my love to her later. When I confessed my love to her, she acted very shy. At that time, I was really afraid of her rejection, but what I didn't expect was that she actually agreed later. I was very happy at the time and I held her in circles. I felt like I had been waiting for this day for a long time.
We got married a year after I got together with my wife. After we got married, I was also very good to my wife. Later our child was born. Both of us are very doting on our children, and we want what our children want. , we will all find ways to be satisfied. At that time, my friend also advised me. He felt that it was not good to pamper the child in this way, and it would harm the child in the future, but I couldn't care so much. I just wanted my child to be happier.
Because my wife and I were overly pampered, my son became very willful. If we didn’t give him what he wanted, he would keep making trouble and even do extreme things until we agreed to give it to him. , watching my son become like that, I felt helpless, but there was nothing I could do about it.
Later, my son grew up and got married and started a family. Not long after my son got married, my wife passed away. My wife died of cancer. At that time, a lot of money was spent on her treatment, but she He still passed away. After my wife passed away, I went to live with my son. After I went to my son’s house, my son asked me for money all day long. At that time, my pension was used to fill their family. At that time, I wanted to save some money, because I didn’t have any savings at all. I spent all my savings on treating my wife’s illness. And my son was like that. I didn’t dare to expect him to provide for me in old age. If I didn’t have it myself, I wanted to save some money. If I save some money, I will be very miserable in my later years, but I just can't save money. Every time I pay my pension, my son and daughter-in-law will find ways to ask me for money. If I don't give it, they will treat me. loose the temper. After
, they even took away my salary card, and then only gave me a few dozen yuan every month. A few dozen yuan was not enough. A bus ride cost two yuan. One day, I went for a walk in the park. I was thirsty later and wanted to buy an ice cream, so I went to the canteen to get one. Gen, when I checked out, I found that it cost eight yuan. I only had four yuan with me, which was not enough to pay for the ice cream, so I silently put the ice cream back. I felt very uncomfortable in my heart. I obviously have a pension of 6,000 yuan. But I couldn't even afford eight yuan of ice cream. I felt so pitiful.
Later I asked my son for my salary card. I didn’t want to leave the salary card with my son, but my son just didn’t want to return the salary card. My son also told me that it was all for the sake of the family and asked me to be patient. , he also said that if I forcefully take away the bank card, his wife will divorce him. This time I don’t want to indulge my son, and then I said to my son: "Go away, no matter what you say today, you have to return my salary card to me, otherwise I will report the loss of salary and then get a new one. I no longer dare to expect you to support me in my old age. I I can only rely on myself. "
I got my salary card back later. After I got my salary card back, I left my son's house and went back to my hometown to live on my own. I plan to go to a nursing home for retirement in the future.
