He wrote in "Sour Plum": "Maybe this era is too bad, with overflowing emotions, and words without weight. The likes and loves that are spoken casually are not worthy of a sincere heart."
Yes, I deeply agree. . In the past, men and women only needed to hold hands to be together forever; but now, even if men and women have been intimate, they may not be able to make it to the end. For those words of like and love, you can say them at will, without any weight at all.
In this era, there is a type of man who even regards love as a tool for his own pleasure and profit. They play with women's emotions at will, squeeze out everything from women and then abandon them. People call these men "Neptune".
"Sea King" is a type of love-minded man with a higher "rank" and who is proficient in love affairs. They are very good at deceiving women's feelings, and can often make women fall in love with them wholeheartedly. Therefore, a woman who has been deceived by "Neptune" will not only lose money, but also suffer great psychological harm.
Although "Neptune"'s deception is very sophisticated, it often makes it difficult for women to detect it. But as the saying goes: "Flies don't bite seamless eggs." "Neptune" usually only deceives women who are easy to deceive, because it is easier to succeed that way.
Most of the philandering men like to flirt with these types of women. I hope you are not one of them.
The first type: the unsuspecting woman
There are thousands of people's personalities, some are extroverts and some are introverts; some are sloppy and some are cautious. In real life, some people are extremely sophisticated and always plan everything; others are innocent and unprepared for anyone.
As the saying goes: "You must not have the intention to harm others, and you must have the intention to guard against others." The world is dangerous, and there are countless people with malicious intentions. is too naive, and women who don’t know how to protect themselves will be hurt sooner or later.
Some women are just too naive and not defensive about anyone. Careful men only need to chat with them online for a while and then they can ask them out for dinner and drinks. Men with malicious intentions will find ways to get women drunk, and many women lose their virginity in this way.
Society is very simple, what is complicated is people. Although innocence is beautiful, women are always vulnerable to harm, so it is necessary to be wary of others and protect yourself.
The second type: a woman with strong vanity
Everyone has vanity and hopes to be praised by others. This is actually normal. The fear is that the vanity is so strong that one is willing to do stupid things for the sake of vanity.
Some women are like this. They always like to compare and show off with others. Their clothes are more fashionable and sexy than others, and their bags are more expensive than others. Not only that, they even want to compete with their boyfriends.
Falling in love is a very beautiful thing, and you should choose someone you truly love. But for women with a particularly strong sense of vanity, love becomes a means of showing off.
They will fall in love with a man who is not very familiar with them in order to show off to others. Yes, they are so casual and willful. Playful men like to flirt with women precisely because they like their vanity.
The third type: a woman with a fragile heart
The law of the jungle has always been the unchanging law of survival in this world. There will be no place for the weak in front of the strong. In order to survive in , the weak often become dependent on the strong, hoping that the strong can protect themselves.
How is a person's strength or weakness defined? I think it should be defined based on the strength of the heart! After all, a person's true strength lies in his inner strength. Likewise, a person's true vulnerability lies in his inner vulnerability.
In real life, there are often women who are introverted and particularly fragile. They always feel afraid and dare not make decisions easily, so they are restricted everywhere, very troubled and desperate.
Careful men especially like to target these fragile women, because they only need to give them some comfort and benefits to make them dependent on themselves, and thus easily control them.
Emotional message:
Although we all hope that the world is beautiful and that people in the world are good people, in fact, even in particularly peaceful places, there will be bad people.
Therefore, it is necessary to be wary of others and protect yourself. After all, just because you don't want to hurt others doesn't mean that others don't want to hurt you. It is always difficult for people who lack the ability to protect themselves to live happily.
For women, the only person who can truly protect themselves is themselves, because no one can protect a woman for her whole life. If a woman really has someone who can protect her forever, then she is really lucky!
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Author: Shan Mo talks about emotions
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