The daughter is divorced and has a child. The daughter, who was hit hard and had a hard life, finally met the person she liked, but she didn't want her father to insist on 200,000 beauties.
The father did not accept the daughter's bargaining, and the man couldn't afford to pay. The father was so angry that he forced his daughter to cut off all contact with the man and chased the boy. The daughter was afraid of the boy's injury, so she had to block it, which eventually led to tragedy.
This is a true story that happened around me.
Everyone has their own difficulties. I don't want to comment on what is right and wrong, and write things objectively under a pseudonym, and the people of the world have their own arbitration.
01
Zhao Fang did not expect that the man he liked suddenly appeared.
She is a reserved woman, but she is willing to lie quietly in his arms like this, even though today is the first day we met.
It has been a year since Zhao Fang and his ex-husband divorced.
The ex-husband grew up in a single-parent family. He is a veritable Ma Baonan. After marriage, he does not do any housework except for work.
I thought a man would grow up if he had a child, but after the child was born, he still went his own way. Later, the ex-husband felt that his salary was too low, so he resigned and set up a food stall. It didn't take long for him to give up because he couldn't eat, so he just played a game at home.
Zhao Fang took over the food stall and asked the man to take the child at home. It's better for a man to throw the child directly to his mother, and he actually started an extramarital affair outside.
Zhao Fang has to go out, stock up, and bring children after he is busy. Later, she discovered her husband’s secret, how could she bear it?
The two people had a divorce. Zhao Fang feared that his son would be wronged by such a desperate man, and proposed that the child should belong to him, but the man did not object.
After the divorce, Zhao Fang returned to her natal family. Zhao's mother helped her with the children. She relied on the food stall to support her family. Since then, the ex-husband has never looked at the child again.
Zhao Fang's aunt gave her many blind dates.
Grandma Zhao Fang remarried in her early years, and her father grew up with her uncle and mother.It can be said that the elder sister is like a mother. Aunt Zhao is a well-known matchmaker in the county seat and has a wide range of people. It's just that Zhao Fang's conditions are really bad: he is not tall, he is dark and thin after long-term stalls, and his smoky skin is also very poor. The most important thing is to bring a boy by himself, but most men are discouraged by this. NS.
If the conditions are better, you will not think about yourself at all. Thinking about yourself is really inconspicuous, and there is no way to do it. He was already busy, and went away with joy again and again, and returned after defeat. Zhao Fang really didn't have any hope for blind dates.
02
In the morning, Zhao's father called Zhao Fang who was sleeping. Aunt Zhao introduced another man from his hometown. The other man came back from Beijing for a blind date a few days ago. He had time to meet today, so he didn't want to go out to the stall and try his luck.
Zhao Fang didn't want to go. He didn't come back until midnight. He was really tired. Take a chance? Which one is not a chance? It is better to take a good rest at home if you have that time.
There is nothing to do if you don't want to go. My life's major events have not come to an end, and my parents are still unable to let go. Just go, just give your parents an explanation, or just try your luck.
The family returned to the old house in the country early, and the whole family worked together to clean the old house. The old house has not been inhabited for many years. Zhao's mother's family is in the county seat. After Zhao's father and her married, they moved to the county seat and set up a small stall in the county seat. I usually live in a rented house. My hometown is only occasionally when I come back to live during the Spring Festival. There are chickens in the yard, which are looked after by Aunt Zhao's family. Father Zhao often comes back to check it out, so it is not too deserted.
At about ten o’clock, the man’s aunt brought the boy. The boy is about 1.73 meters tall and has a sturdy body. He smiled and nodded to the family first, said hello and put the gifts in his hands. On the table, and then handed a cigarette to Old Man Zhao, courtesy was very thoughtful.
Aunt Zhao and the boy's aunt are good friends, and the two made a brief introduction to each other. The man's name is Tian Yuan. He is thirty years old and runs a convenience store in Beijing. He divorced and brought a boy with him. He is five years old.
Tian Yuan listened carefully to other people's speech throughout the whole process, and rarely interrupted. Zhao Fang was disappointed again, completely elm bumps.
After Tian Yuan left,Zhao Fang expressed his opinion. Aunt Zhao said don't rush to conclusions. Sometimes not speaking does not mean that you can't speak. It's just that some situations are not suitable for speaking, so you can talk about it.
Father Zhao listened to his sister-in-law and said that he could learn more about it. It was too late to go out in the evening, and there was nothing to do in the afternoon anyway.
03
In the afternoon, Zhao Fang came to Dongshan Lake Park as scheduled.
Tian Yuan took out cushions, drinks, snacks, and even tissues from the trunk. Seeing that he had prepared everything so well, Zhao Fang was very satisfied with his carefulness.
"My aunt gave me your mobile phone number at noon. It turned out to be a downtime number. I don’t agree to say it directly. Aren’t you hurting a man’s self-esteem? Fortunately, I helped you charge your phone bill. If you disagree About the two of us, remember to return the money to me". Tian Yuan first made a joke, and accompanied by an exaggerated expression, Zhao Fang was a little slower.
Is this still the elm bump in the morning?
Zhao Fang quickly took out his cell phone. There was information on the cell phone, and it was indeed stopped. He was a bit careless and embarrassed. Fortunately, Tian Yuan would ease the atmosphere.
Zhao Fang was busy explaining.
Tian Yuan first expressed his attitude straightforwardly: My premise is not to give up the child, I can accept your child, but you also have to accept my child. Although I have just started a business and have no savings, I am not afraid of hardship. As long as two people work together in a division of labor, life is bound to be the same.
Tian Yuan's words came to Zhao Fang's heart all at once. Yeah, didn't you miss a lot because you took the kids? I shouldn't miss a man who puts children first and is satisfied in all aspects.
That afternoon, the two opened up and talked a lot, chatting about the past, children, future, their families, and their views on marriage.
Tian Yuan told Zhao Fang that he was actually unwilling to find a boy with him at first, but Zhao Fang's hard work and simplicity made him feel that he could make up for everything. He has met many girls, they only look at material things and not emotional, and they are lazy. Zhao Fang is different, so he wants to seize the opportunity with Zhao Fang.
Zhao Fang is really satisfied with Tian Yuan,Handsome, stable career, careful and polite, is this an opportunity given by God? Second marriage, still fall in love at first sight?
The two people who liked each other fell in love like this, not at all reserved. At night, Tian Yuan was sitting on the lake bank, Zhao Fang lying in Tian Yuan's arms, looking at the stars in the sky, blowing the cool breeze from the water, and enjoying the beautiful love.
04
The peaceful night was disrupted by a ringing of telephones, and there was an angry roar from Zhao's father: "Dead Nizi, what time is it!"
Zhao Fang was embarrassed. Father's temper is too hot, too strong to control, he always treats himself as a child, hey!
My marriage is the aunt's Zhang Luo, father and aunt always agree. If he doesn't listen to him, he will be furious, and the aunt will also make trouble from behind. At home, he is arbitrary, and his father alone has the final say on everything in the family. He came to make the decision for the first marriage, but it ended up like this in the end.
Tian Yuan sent Zhao Fang home, and the two agreed to do business together in Beijing. The elders of the two sides met on auspicious days a few days later, and the marriage was settled as soon as possible. One day was lost.
On the 16th day of the lunar calendar, Tian Yuan took his parents and aunt to wait in the hotel early. Zhao Fang's parents and aunt were very satisfied. The two parties had a very pleasant chat, and the marriage was confirmed in this way.
My aunt proposed that the child is older and could get married earlier. Father Zhao readily said that he respects the child's opinions and everything is easy to discuss, but it seems a bit hasty to be too soon, so he can discuss it in a few days.
With Zhao's father's statement, Tian Yuan is very happy. Zhao Fang has promised to marry himself as soon as possible, and then go to Beijing with himself to help himself. After all, it is impossible for Zhao's father to agree to marry his daughter all at once, because the inconsistency of etiquette makes the daughter worthless. In a few days, I'll find my aunt again. It's a blessing to meet a good-talking old man.
Zhao's father promised to entertain Tian Yuan's elders at home in three days, and the two parties discussed the specific matters of the marriage.
On the 19th day of the lunar calendar, my aunt made an appointment with Aunt Zhao. They went to Zhao Fang's house together and discussed with Zhao's father about important matters for their children.
Father Zhao made the scene very grand, and Aunt Zhao’s grandsons were all present. In order to highlight his identity as a citizen of the city, Father Zhao generously ordered a banquet in the hotel.
As the representative of Tian Yuan's parents, aunt's task is very difficult. For her nephew, she must give full play to her three-inch tongue and set the wedding date early.
05
Father Zhao first protested: Why didn’t Tian Yuan’s parents come? Do you look down on people if you don’t come on important occasions? When you arrive at the county seat, you must follow the rules of the county seat.
Tian Yuan looked dumbfounded. He is in his twenties and thirties. He has also experienced a marriage. The so-called Ming matchmaker is getting married, and the matchmaker seems formal. You are less than two kilometers away from Zhao Fang’s hometown in a straight line. I haven’t heard of other customs in the surrounding area. According to rural rules, I’ve never heard of my parents being there? Are they all commissioned matchmakers? The two sides can't agree, at least there is a buffer room, nothing wrong.
Jiang is still old and spicy, and his aunt immediately said that Tian Yuan's parents entrusted them to represent them, isn't his aunt also a mother?
Father Zhao is still very dissatisfied, saying that the man is too ignorant of etiquette and is about to get married. Why didn't he bring the etiquette? (The long strip of pork ribs and meat means that the flesh and the flesh are connected to the heart)
Haven't you agreed to get married yet? Tian Yuan just wanted to explain this, but was stopped by his aunt.
"Big brother, isn't this rush? I didn't have time to prepare, you can bear it. I'll go out and ask about the situation."
Aunt gave Tian Yuan a wink, and Tian Yuan followed out. A few minutes later, the two entered the private room again, and the aunt gave each of the four children a 500 red envelope.
After three rounds of wine and five flavours of food, my aunt suggested that the two children had been resolved early. Zhao's father has always rejected the marriage hurriedly and feared that the child would be looked down upon. He said that at least the two children should be in contact for two years.
Tian Yuan suggested that the two of them go to Beijing together, and Zhao's father said: "If you are not married, who is my daughter?"
Aunt Zhao saw that his aunt and Tian Yuan were not on the road, so she secretly told her aunt: Father Zhao This is asking for a bride price, just talk about the bride price.
Tian Yuan disagrees with this,Father Zhao's refusal was so clear, and the reasons were plainly stated. Wouldn't it be a marriage sale if you used the money to say something? Didn't you make it clear that you hit Father Zhao in the face? My aunt also said it was wrong.
Zhao's father saw that the two were really furious: The country folks are too bad, and they mention marriage without mentioning the money. Should I tell them?
06
Father Zhao winked at Aunt Zhao, meaning that it is time for you to play in this situation.
Aunt Zhao cleared her throat: "I just did the job of Xiaofang's dad. Our old Zhao family, this girl, although divorced and brought a child, but the child is taken care of by Xiaofang's parents, Xiao Fang means nothing Child. The previous marriage was not grand enough. We will marry the child as a first marriage this time.”
Tian Yuan and his aunt agreed, but did not answer.
Aunt Zhao went on to say: "Last month, my cousin Xiaofang got married. That was a gift of 300,000 yuan. Dad Xiaofang and I are both sensible people. Let’s do it less, 200,000 gift. I did it. , When are you optimistic about the day, we will not say anything."
Father Zhao nodded, apparently discussing everything with Aunt Zhao early. Father Zhao continued: "Two days ago, the old Li's house in the west of the city gave a gift of 280,000 yuan, but I just didn't agree. We are not selling girls, but the main thing is to satisfy the children."
Tian Yuan looked at Father Zhao in disbelief, this Is it so-called refreshing? He felt like a fool. If you want money, you want money, can you not make such a big turn? Is it so hypocritical to test people's IQ?
Tian Yuan looked at Zhao Fang, only to see that she lowered her head and said nothing, like a child who did something wrong.
Aunt and Tian Yuan exchanged glances, indicating that they would go back to discuss it before replying.
The banquet was so unhappy that Tian Yuan went away with his aunt on the excuse of something at home.
Zhao Fang's family returned home, and Zhao's father was furious at his daughter: "What kind of thing, let me take the initiative to ask for money, and I don't understand a bit of humanity. The hotel also allows me to pay the bill. How can there be any reason for the woman to pay the bill? I said 200,000. I didn’t say that I can’t make a counteroffer. I don’t want to repay the price. Do you want to marry a wife without spending money?"
Mother Zhao pulled her daughter aside: "Tian Yuan is really good.If you really like it, you can only let Tian Yuan take the money. Your dad listens to your aunt. I can persuade your dad, but I can’t persuade your aunt. Don’t others say that it’s his mother? "
There was another hysterical roar from Zhao's father: "No contact with the surname Tian in the future, or I will break his leg. "
06
Tian Yuan is also very hot all the way, 200,000, why don’t you grab it? 200,000 is not a loan, if you bring a girl, it’s better to say something, you bring a son, I How much money did you get to raise your son? I'll give you 200,000. The villagers will call me stupid. Do I still look up? Is there no woman in the world?
Zhao Fang still secretly found Tian Yuan and said that he could do it well. Doing my father’s job. Because my elder brother was going to get married in the city where he was working, the woman asked for a gift of more than 300,000 yuan, but the father couldn’t take it out, so he was forced to do so. It’s not his intention.
Tian Yuan looked at Zhao Fang The anger disappeared in half. Yeah, two brothers, they really can’t do anything if they don’t take the bridegroom's gift to their son to marry a daughter-in-law. Isn’t it all like this now? The question is what do you pretend to be? You want to marry a daughter-in-law in a big city, aren’t you a scam girl?
Tian Yuan made a concession: "I don’t have that much money, and I understand your dad, so I don’t want to bargain. I will give your dad 100,000 yuan now. We Two years can earn 200,000 yuan. When your brother gets married, he will give him 100,000 yuan, and then lend him 100,000 yuan. "
Zhao Fang was very satisfied. His own affairs were solved, and his brother's affairs were also solved. What can his father say?
Zhao Fang didn't expect his father to be so angry after hearing his words: "Your aunt again I told you about a marriage, but they are from the county seat, not as inked as the surname Tian. Do you think this is selling things and paying in installments? What can you do if he doesn't give money in the future? In the future, I will never have any dealings with the surname Tian. I do not agree with him to seduce my daughter. He is a hooligan. "
Zhao Fang is really miserable. His father is so old and his heart is not good, and his son has to rely on them to take care of him. I can't leave my son and Tian Yuan to run away. I'm really mad at him. What about being a daughter? Bear it?
Maybe two people really have nothing to do with each other.Well, I have already experienced too much suffering, why can't I accept it? Let time solve all this, maybe one day my father will figure it out?
Although He Tian Yuan has not known each other for a long time, he always enjoys the feeling of being loved, once owned, and worth it. Tomorrow he is leaving, buy two small gifts for him, even if it is a good memory.
07
One belt, one wallet.
Tian Yuan understands the meaning of the two gifts.
Holding the gift from Zhao Fang, Tian Yuan felt very uncomfortable. After all, there is too much drag, and the adult world is not willful, only too much resignation.
Zhao Fang shed tears, Tian Yuan squeezed out a smile, he wiped away the girl’s tears, pretending to be relaxed and said: “Don’t cry, there is something good waiting for you, let’s give it a hug at the end.”
Zhao Fang snuggled against Tian Yuan's chest, and Tian Yuan hugged her tightly in his arms.
"How did you warn you of the surname Tian? I still dare to be a gangster and want to abduct my daughter and see if I don't kill you!" Father Zhao rode his dining car and flew over like a gust of wind.
"Uncle, you have been thinking too much", Tian Yuan still wanted to explain, but he was caught off guard and slapped his face with a slap.
"You...", when was Tian Yuan beaten? Even if you are from the city, you should take care of a stalemate, whether you are talking about brothers or about connections, he has never been afraid of anyone, he really wants to come forward and beat him up. But seeing Zhao Fang's begging eyes, forget it, let's go, there will be nothing left afterwards.
Enduring full of anger, Tian Yuan walked towards the car.
gave a muffled snort, and the crowd screamed. When Tian Yuan turned around, Zhao's father stood there with trembling hands, a shovel was lying in front of him, and Zhao Fang was lying curled up on the ground.
Tian Yuan sent Zhao Fang to the hospital. That night, Aunt Zhao led a group of female relatives to scratch Tian Yuan's face with blood stains, and claimed that she would not pay 200,000 yuan.
Tian Yuan fled to his aunt’s house in embarrassment. According to what his aunt heard,Looking at Tian Yuan, Zhao's father didn't resist, and he even thought he was bullying. He wanted to make a nasty meal with a shovel, but he didn't take it lightly or seriously. Zhao Fang blocked Tian Yuan, and the shovel fell heavily on his head.
Tian Yuan went to Beijing overnight at the suggestion of his aunt. In the words of his aunt, people can never bite a mad dog.
Since then, Tian Yuan never dared to contact Zhao Fang again.
Zhao Fang was in a coma for a week. The doctor said that she had been injured in the brain and that she would only be paralyzed in bed.
Zhao Fang finally married a cripple and did not ask for a gift.
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