"Bear, you said, how can people become so cheap after falling in love?"
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Her story is a bit long, so Xiong should use her original words instead to retell it-
I have a irritable personality. If I am unhappy, I will tell it right away. I hope he will give me an explanation; but he likes to deal with it coldly, and thinks what I say is trivial. So every time you communicate and quarrel, you don’t stop it.
Afterwards, the two can’t love each other anymore. It’s really tormenting to fight each other every day. So I decided to break up and delete each other’s WeChat. . But after the division, I still can’t help but get to know his current situation, and I’m afraid he will find the next one.
Also called him for reconciliation. But he refused...
My friend said that after I was with him, I was not happy at all. People became irritable and decadent, and my body became fragile.
Is this so-called inappropriate in all aspects? But I can't persuade myself to let it go..."
What is the right feeling?
People who have similar personalities, have complementary personalities, have the same hobbies, have the same values, and are right in the right...
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and "not suitable", Xiong thinks it can be clearly stated in one sentence:
a strong 47strong relationshipIf you don't love yourself, it means that you and the other party are really inappropriate.
So, how do you judge that you are in a bad state?
Sometimes the body is the most honest.
"When we don’t understand, the "body" is our life mentor. To be frank with your body is to be frank with your mental state and emotional state."
This point of view comes from the book Xiong will share today: "The Poison of Emotions, the Body Knows".
The author of the book is self-contained. He is a physical psychologist and psychological counselor who has been in consultation with more than 30,000 patients and has been in consultation for more than 28 years.
He is good at interpreting people's mental state through their living habits and physical symptoms, in order to help people change their mental lifestyle.
In this book,He shared some of the "emotional state signals" sent by body parts, such as:
After being with each other, he often has acne on his face, and often sore waist and legs, etc. Both represent some kind of "emotional signal".
Which parts, symptoms, and emotional signals represent? The bear will share in detail below~
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The cause of skin acne, you must have seen a lot of popular science.
According to the content of the book, the bearBriefly introduce the causes of acne.
Our skin sebaceous glands secrete a substance called triglyceride, and it is the nutrient source of Propionibacterium acnes strong; When the sebaceous glands secrete excessively, Propionibacterium acnes will proliferate, the hair follicles will become inflamed and purulent, and acne will also occur.
The cause of excessive secretion of sebaceous glands is related to male hormones.
for women Simply put, "acne is the battle between male and female hormones."
_sp2p0 pbr5 In other words, the balance between male hormones and female sex hormones will be directly presented in the balance of their masculine and feminine characteristics.
In other words, girls are in a suitable relationship,It should be a state of leisure and relaxation, a girl's heart bursting; (hormonal balance at this time, not easy to develop acne)
If in a relationship, girls are always in a state of suffering and loss, unable to relax. At this time, male hormones will be secreted more, and acne will also come to your door.
I often hear people say: "A good love, especially nurturing people."
Breast diseases ,
Explain that being with each other is not very happy.
The emotional signal of breast disease is also explained in the book.
"If you suppress self-expression or inner thoughts,This energy can easily accumulate in the right breast.
If you accept the pressure blindly, once you exceed your limit, this energy will accumulate in your left breast. "
Speaking of breast disease, Xiong remembered a set of data that he had seen before:
strong breast hyperplasia 20% and 8span strong breast hyperplasia in China is now 20%. Women between the ages of 30 and 30 have also become a high-risk group of breast hyperplasia, even among teenage girls.
It is precisely because women are a high-risk group, we often consider the reason. It comes down to “women”, thinking that girls like to be angry, and things are not open enough, etc..
_ strong 47strong symptoms. Illness is actually a problem shared with your partner. Men should never turn a blind eye.
So yeah,If the other half of the male compatriots has breast disease, the first reaction is not to persuade the girl not to sulking and to look open; Does the girl bring happiness?
We all know that "don't say" and "endurance" are great taboos in relationships;
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People who are prone to anger, get angry easily, and have common waist pain, , the author found:
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In a relationship, they tend to be serious.
"Because I am serious, I will work hard for someone's good, but I don't realize that I actually want to be praised by this person and be praised by this person." _p _p2
When the other party doesn’t give back to praise, or don’t give the corresponding contribution, they will complain and anger in their hearts:
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"He never said thank you."
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It was the painful waist that was shouting to himself.
hardened legs,
shows that your financial planning is inconsistent.
The author believes that from the physiological structure, the calf shows sex-related problems.
Because there is the tibialis anterior muscle in the calf muscle, which is connected to the ankle, the "qi" will flow up from here to the bladder, urethra, and genitals.
From the author’s consulting experience, the calf shows that the problem is related to important life plans (usually financial planning).
Combining the two, the author said that people who have hard calves or who are prone to bruises may expose intimate relationship problems as follows: There will be discrepancies in financial planning between the two .
friends who have this body signal,Maybe you can discuss money matters carefully with your partner.
often knee pain, _p2span strong may not be strong enough to communicate.
"Knee pain and incongruity come from resentment towards a partner."
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In the counseling experience, it reflects the communication problems of intimacy.
He concluded that the knee on the right usually represents the mentality of "I am not wrong", and it is easy to accumulate stubborn emotions towards your partner; The mentality of not knowing me makes it easy to accumulate resentment towards your partner.
Of course,In addition to reflecting on the way of communicating with the other party, the author also proposed some immediate ways to relieve knee pain:
Use your left hand to wrap your right knee, and your right hand to wrap your left knee. Warm knees with palms, stand still for 10 seconds, or massage slowly in circles.
is written at the end of the body So the bears share these today, not hope that everyone blames their little troubles on a certain person or a certain relationship. But I hope everyone can understand that the prerequisite for the continuous operation of any relationship is to love yourself. If you meet someone who turns you into a bad self that you don’t like, then you have to re-examine this relationship. The bear always believes,Good love is going both ways and growing together. It is "We have become better ourselves because of each other." everyone, good night~ _pimg2 _pimg2 _pimg2
