When talking about love, Suhomlinsky said: "True love requires not only love, but also mutual insight into each other’s inner world." Love is not just about loving each other, it’s far from enough. And we must really understand each other, both sides understand their inner world, this kind of spiritual satisfaction will make love more beautiful and long-lasting.
But in the face of society, the love of many people often lies only on the "surface", and it is difficult to achieve a spiritual fit. Perhaps this is not the best appearance of love.
Many young people in the contemporary era know that the most beautiful aspect of love is to go both ways, and they like each other. However, in many cases, the chance of a two-way going is not great, and many people are not obsessed with the appearance of a two-way going and often choose a blind date. To find a suitable partner to spend one's life is a normal state of society, and it is also a current state of contemporary love. After all, social reality is like this.
But even so, there are some people who have not been married in pursuit of love. They have obsessions and are looking for love.
The famous Chinese painter Yang Yan is such a character. In order to find his favorite half, waited for more than 50 years. At the age of 53, he married a 21-year-old African student in Africa. The two also ushered in the birth of two mixed-race sons one after another, but what everyone did not expect was that only a few years later, Yang Yan gave up everything and escaped into the empty door. What is the reason for all this?
Qianlixun "wife"
"Some people are destined to wait for others, some are destined to be waited for." Fate is a wonderful thing, it can connect two unrelated people together , Achieve a marriage.
Yang Yan is a famous Chinese painter. He was born in 1958 in a scholarly family in Xining, Qinghai.Yang Yan, who was born in this kind of family, was influenced by various cultures in his family since he was a child, and gradually became interested in painting. Yang Yan's uncle Ma Fuwei began to teach him painting.
In 1978, 20-year-old Yang Yan studied under Mr. Hua Tuo, and then successively learned painting from Qi Baishi , Li Keran and other famous Chinese painting masters. After decades of study, Yang Yan has made great achievements in painting and gained a certain reputation in the painting industry.
However, what worries his family is Yang Yan’s personal problems. He is in his fifties and has not yet been married. Family and friends have introduced many people to Yang Yan, but Yang Yan does not have a favorite. Maybe Because of the influence of his career as a painter, Yang Yan's treatment of love is much more sacred. He wants to find a partner who fits in with his soul.
Once Yang Yan saw a sculpture of an African girl in the house of his friend Zhang Ermiao. After seeing the girl, Yang Yan was very excited. This is the woman he wants to marry, so In order to find the same girl as in the sculpture, Yang Yan began to run around, looking for his "wife".
Grand Wedding
"I have no time to participate in your past, and I will accompany you to the end of your future." This is the most beautiful participatory process of love. In everyone's heart, love is beautiful and extremely romantic.
Yang Yan, who is in his fifties, was able to have a perfect encounter with her in order to find the goddess in his mind. Yang Yan traveled to many places, including the United States, Africa and many other countries, but he has not seen and A woman with the same face on the sculpture. Even so, Yang Yan did not give up. He waited stubbornly. Finally one day, Yang Yan was participating in the celebration of the 50th anniversary of the independence of a country called in Sierra Leone in Africa. It was because of this arrival that he and a The girl named Ada met.
When Yang Yan saw Ada,He was shocked. Isn't this the "wife" he has been looking for? In the process of getting along with Ada, Yang Yan felt the unique temperament of this female college student who was only 21 years old. Ada was proficient in Chinese, and the two communicated in harmony.
Aida likes Chinese culture, and also wants to learn calligraphy by following Yang Yan as a teacher. Time passed quickly, seeing that he was about to return home, Yang Yan seized this opportunity and decisively confessed to Ada.
Although Aida feels that things are developing too fast, she has always admired Yang Yan's talent, and almost without any consideration, agreed to Yang Yan's marriage proposal. The difference between the two is a full thirty-two years old, But Yang Yan and Ada don't care about each other's age, they care about the spiritual fit between the two.
After confirming the relationship, Aida and Yang Yan received a marriage certificate in Sierra Leone. Soon, the two returned to their motherland.
At first, everyone was not optimistic about this marriage. Not only did they have a huge age difference, but the cultural differences were also very obvious. Many people believed that they could not last. All kinds of rumors and rumors were flying around the sky, and finally Yang Yan decided to hold a wedding so that everyone could witness his love with Ada.
So, in 2011, Yang Yan held a grand wedding at the Kangxi Palace in Wendu Shuicheng, Beijing, and had more than 50,000 guests. Yang Yan used his actions to prove his beautiful love with Ada to all the guests present.
Escape into the empty door
"The loyal love overflows in my heart, I can't estimate myself Wealth to enjoy." Having an unforgettable love is a precious experience in life.
After Yang Yan married Ada, they did not receive too much impact from the outside world.Although Ada is young, she understands Yang Yan's heart very well. The husband and wife often chat and talk together. Yang Yan also teaches Ada to learn Chinese. Whenever someone comes to the house as a guest, Ada is fluent In Chinese, tell friends who are guests about various interesting things that Yang Yan encountered in the creative process.
Many people have felt the emotions between Yang Yan and Ada in the exchanges like this. They also gradually understand that Yang Yan and Ada are in love with each other.
During the period when Yang Yan and Ada lived in China, Ada gave birth to two mixed sons to Yang Yan one after another. Yang Yan, who is a good old son, is very happy. When Yang Yan had a wife and children, I was also happy for him. After all, Yang Yan, who has been single for more than 50 years, finally has a stable home where he can enjoy the happiness between his wife and children.
The marriage of Yang Yan and Ida also made Yang Yan popular throughout the Internet. Gradually, many people got to know this celebrity couple. They were often invited to participate in some programs. With the increase of media exposure, Yang Yan's paintings Once the hundreds of thousands of yuan has grown to several million yuan, many people believe that Yang Yan has also gained career success while finding his love, the so-called fame and fortune.
However, what everyone can't believe is that Yang Yan, who has a family and a career, can live happily in the future, but chose to escape into the empty door.
Yang Yan's choice allowed him to maintain the marriage relationship with Ada only barely. The two of them lost their original enthusiasm, but even if they escaped into the empty door, Yang Yan still loves himself. For his painting career, his mixed-race son occasionally visits him at the temple.
Someone once asked Yang Yan why he chose to escape into the empty door. Yang Yan just said to pursue wisdom. Perhaps it was really for the pursuit of spiritual wisdom that made Yang Yan become famous. After having a family, he resolutely chose to go to the temple to become a monk.
Summary:
"When you are in love, you will engrave the mark of love on the big tree,Scrape off those faded vows when you break up. ” Maybe it’s not the most loved one after all, so that one can give up love and choose a different kind of life.
Although Yang Yan and Ida are still married, their love is already in reality. Perhaps Yang Yan was desperate to find his dream wife Ada when he was in his fifties. They both loved each other, but since ancient times, the workers engaged in art have their own emotional output. It will be somewhat different from ordinary people, just like Yang Yan will eventually give up love and family for his so-called "wisdom."
Many times, ordinary people will not give up their hard-won, and take pains to manage business. Family, they often choose to live in harmony.
Yang Yan, a famous painter, pursues his spiritual world and abandons everything in reality. However, at the age of 53, he asked to marry 21-year-old African student Ada The fact that the two also gave birth to two mixed children together is a good memory in his life.
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