Introduction: During the year, every student in has a festival that belongs to him, that is his own "Shell Day" . On this day, you can eat cakes, receive gifts, and even have a parent meeting to make yourself feel unrestrained, such as watching TV for a while, or playing with computer for a while, etc. After all, the world is the biggest birthday.
But not all students can enjoy such treatment. A parent on the Internet proudly shared the birthday cake he prepared for his children. Unexpectedly, it became a "self-exposed scene". caused many netizens to start the microphone and angrily criticized him. The comment area was full of scolding.
Do parents think they are very humorous? The boy received a "textbook cake" on his birthday, and netizens directly called him
Which parent is not looking for his son to become a dragon, especially the pressure of job hunting is there now. Any parents who are responsible for students dare not say that they can let the students free themselves and play if they want to play. Even if students don't like to listen to the word "learning", they have to talk about it.
is OK to urge students to study, but it is not necessary to pay attention to the time and scene . This is the reason why this parent is crazy about everyone, because this parent doesn’t even miss the student’s birthday. Even if it is the student’s birthday cake, it has to bear the parents’ “beautiful sustenance”.
That's the thing. A parent on the Internet shared a daily life. The main content of is a cake and some good wishes for students' academic performance. at first glance seems to be a kind mother and filial son. But when everyone clicked the cake and looked carefully, they found that this gorgeously decorated cake is really a bit "lower".
The decoration on the cake is actually all textbooks for each subject, and the cake also says, "As long as the earth is not destroyed for a day, you will have to do your homework." Although the parents' copy did not mention whether the students liked this cake, the comment section was furious.
Some netizens said that this parent would not think he is very humorous, . This is completely based on the pain of students, and he even chose the birthday that students care about the most. Such parents are really suffocating. Do they regard students as learning machines? Apart from studying, there is no other thing in their lives?
and some netizens who are students themselves said that if they receive such a cake, they will most likely choose to go back to the room directly. It’s okay if they don’t eat such a cake or a birthday like , so keep it for parents to eat it yourself. don’t they like it very much.
Perhaps when parents ordered this cake, they did not realize these s. They might just simply think that this is a "good wish" to students, and students may also be used to parents' like this and did not show any special emotions. Unexpectedly, the comment section was very merciless, and directly pulled open the "fig leaf" and told the truth.
students do not say it does not mean that the students are not thinking about it. Parents should not let their love become a burden for students
students do not say it does not mean that the students do not think about it. Perhaps it is just that the students are "numb" . After all, they can not forget to urge students to study on their birthdays, and they always talk about their studies. Perhaps it is because the students have given up "resistance".
Actually, from another perspective, if parents are surrounded by a group of people talking about work on their birthdays, is encouraged by everyone to work hard and work hard. Don’t be slackened or slackened for a moment. What will parents think? I believe that parents will have a birthday like a thorn in their throat.
What netizens mean is not to complain about parents urging their studies, but to hate parents regardless of occasion or time. Parents do this seem to be for the students' good, but in fact, it may make students feel rebellious, and parents will only feel that they are so hardworking and students are still so disobedient.
There are many parents in life who complain about why their students are obviously very obedient when they are in elementary school, and why they suddenly become rebellious when they are in junior high school and high school? If parents can reflect on their own educational methods, perhaps the ones who cause such results may be either others or parents themselves.
The behavior of this parent is definitely not an isolated case in life. However, through this parent's "testing for self-inflicted insurance", parents with similar ideas also reminded parents not to let their love become a burden for students. Students do not want such suffocating love.
Author's message:
Because a "textbook cake" ordered by parents for students has solved the contradictions between parents and students that have never been able to understand each other. I also hope that all parents can reflect on themselves through this matter. Consider whether there are some "beautiful" mistakes in the process of educating students. If there are any, they will be corrected if there are no, they will encourage them.
Topic Discussion: How do you view the fact that parents order "textbook cakes" for students? welcome to leave comments.
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