There is a boy who was "scamd" by his mother to enter Peking University campus because he was unwilling to go to school.
Her method is also quite simple and crude, just let the child learn to fulfill his dream.
This is really a very simple way of education. Many parents have been influenced by this idea before they even thought of these ways when educating their children. Parents like
can be said to have a lot of ideas.
1. The child who "don't want to go to school" was deceived by his mother and was admitted to Peking University
. The boy is Zhao Mengfu. He likes studying since he was a child, but he is unwilling to go to school, so he wants to become a painter.
But the mother disagreed, so she threatened her son with one sentence "I won't let you learn".
But unexpectedly, his son was really threatened by his mother, so he packed his luggage within one day, said goodbye to his mother and went to Peking University.
Because Zhao Mengfu loved painting since he was a child, he felt that this was something he liked, so he decided to go to Peking University to learn painting.
But unexpectedly, after going to school, he really likes this school, major and teachers and classmates very much.
So when he started to learn painting with his mother every day, he also had a lot of ideas.
In the eyes of the mother, a child who is "unwilling to go to school" should not study hard to draw because of the persuasion of his parents.
So she made a plan for her son and drew a painting for Zhao Mengfu, asking Zhao Mengfu to stay at school every day and wait for her to come back after she came back. The plan for
was not very useful at the beginning, but it gradually made Zhao Mengfu feel that learning to draw is a very interesting thing, and it will also make him more motivated to face learning.
2. Let children maintain a "hungry"
In the eyes of children, good results can only be achieved through learning. In order to enable children to achieve learning results, parents can assign a "small goal" to their children at home, such as letting their children do housework, which is a proactive behavior.
But this is just an auxiliary means, the most important thing is to keep the child hungry.
When parents set a "small goal" for their children at home, parents should also guide their children to give themselves some small rewards, such as buying a toy for themselves to play with, etc.
If a child is immersed in his "small goal" for a long time, he will become less hungry.
Because he has become accustomed to this "small goal" lifestyle, once he loses it, he will feel very uncomfortable.
Of course, this feeling of hunger is not exchanged for parents to deprive their children of their normal life, but for parents to feel that having goals and dreams is not a bad thing through appropriate guidance.
This will allow children to feel the joy and sense of accomplishment of learning, which is the greatest help for parents!
3. Let children experience a sense of accomplishment
No child is a natural top student, and learning has never been an easy thing. If parents hope that their children can get into prestigious schools, then they must let their children experience a sense of accomplishment.
In this process, what parents need to do is give them enough encouragement and support so that their children can continue to maintain interest and motivation.
When doing these things, parents should pay attention to their insistence and should not give up easily because of one or two failures. If parents give up halfway, then this matter will be meaningless to the child.
Many parents will feel very moved after reading this story, and feel that their children have become so motivated.
In fact, this is inseparable from the way parents usually instill knowledge into their children. If parents just instill knowledge into their children, the children will never experience the joy of learning.
If parents encourage their children more often, they will gradually feel the sense of accomplishment that learning brings to themselves.
and these achievements are also a kind of motivation and support for them.
4. Let children gain the power to move forward independently
Parents should also pay attention to it and should not pay too much attention to their children's behavior. This will easily dampen their children's enthusiasm. While encouraging, you should also pay attention to the goodness
Parents can motivate their children through praise, encouragement, or material rewards, so that their children can learn more actively instead of playing.
But parents should not just satisfy their children, learn to put some pressure on their children appropriately.
When putting too much pressure on your child, you should communicate with your child in time and understand the situation, and you should not just criticize and blame.
Parents should take their children out to play more and let them feel how wonderful the outside world is.
Do not interfere excessively and interfere with children's choices and decisions in doing things.
5. What are the characteristics of children educated in this way?
He likes reading books and listens to music. He has been very interested in music since he was a child.
When you grow up, your child will share what he has learned in school, so that such a child will be easily accepted by others.
If a person studies well in school and has excellent grades, then more people in society will be willing to date him.
This boy is loved by his classmates because he is good at studying, and all his classmates want to be friends with him.
This boy not only likes to study but also likes music, so now he has started to form a band.
But because the boy's mother has strict requirements, they are not allowed to play guitar and play other instruments.
Children can only rely on their own efforts to fulfill their dreams.
Although the mother's education method is simple and crude, it gives the child a sense of accomplishment and happiness.
This kind of education method has also brought inspiration to many parents, that is, we must use the right method to educate our children!
6. Conclusion
Parents should also pay attention to methods and methods when educating their children, otherwise it will cause psychological shadows on the children and make them lose confidence, resulting in the children doing nothing in the future.
If you want to cultivate excellent children, parents must do these things:
First of all, you must know your positioning and give yourself a positioning.
Secondly, cultivate children's interests and hobbies; the third point is to cultivate good learning habits; the fourth point is to cultivate good learning methods.
and above are very important, parents must pay attention to these.
In addition to this, there is another important point, that is, parents should set a good role model.
Nowadays, many parents often say that they can’t accompany themselves when they are busy with their children, but if they don’t study, they can’t teach their children.
So parents must read more in order to keep up with the current social development.
