Lin Zexu has a couplet saying: If my descendants are like me, what should I do if I leave money? If you are virtuous and rich, you will lose your ambition. What are the children and grandchildren who are worse than me? If you are foolish and rich, you will be more profitable.
Li Ka-shing also said: "If the son is like me, what will he keep money for; if the son is not as good as me, what will he keep money for." It means that if the descendants are excellent, they must have the ambition and will have the strength to go to the world alone and create wealth. On the other hand, if the descendants have no future, enjoy themselves, are lazy and hate labor, and have a mentality of dependence, they cannot keep much wealth left.
The author believes that giving children a successful education is better than giving children a mountain of gold and silver.
The excellence of children cannot be born out of nowhere. The miracle of excellent is the result of parents' careful cultivation.
Parents should take educating their children well and do their jobs as careers.
The children will be more outstanding if parents attach great importance to them. School education is also important, but no matter how important school education is, it is just an important supplement to family education .
How children are living and dealing with things depends mostly on their parents’ subtle influence. It is not the school, but the family, and the parents that widen the gap between children.
Li Shuangjiang Meng Ge couple, they have successful careers and gain both fame and fortune, but their education for their children is a mess.
It is precisely because of his irresponsibility, excessive spoiling, and neglecting management that his son went to jail for crimes.
Yan Ning The parents attach great importance to cultivating children and have made a famous scientist.
Mengmu was born because of three migrations.
Nobel Prize in Literature winner Mo Yan said: "The excellence of children is soaked in the sweat of their parents."
Educating your children well is the most important cause for parents in their lives!
It takes hard work to educate children well.
Every child is a seed of a flower, but everyone has a different flowering period. Some flowers bloom brilliantly from the beginning, while others need a long wait. But it is inseparable from strict management and education! Instead of letting children go, let them go.
Parents should "wait for the flowers to bloom" and should not ignore "work silently". If you are not strict, how can you develop good moral character?
Li Shuangjiang is reluctant to beat the child, which will ruin the child's life. Not being strict will only make children do their own things and destroy their future.
Educator Tyman Johnson once said: "Successful tutoring creates successful children, and failure tutoring creates failed children."
What will a child look like? Whether he will follow the right path or go wrong path, whether he will be a family or a prodigal son depends on his parents' discipline.
Parents are the first teachers of their children. Only by setting an example can children learn well. As the saying goes, first nurturing people, first nurturing themselves.
All parents’ words and deeds will silently pervert their children.
Everyone knows: teaching by example is better than teaching by words.
Some parents do not create pressure on their children, but use their own actions to guide their children. Practicing it yourself is to set the best example for your children. It’s better to act than to shout. For parents, family education is first and foremost self-education, because education is a process of self-reflection. If you want to manage your children well, you must first take care of yourself well.
Shaping children first shape themselves. Smart parents will focus on education from educating their children to educating themselves. If you educate yourself well, your "shadow" will accompany your children, and your children will be subtly influenced and will naturally get better and better.
Experience tells us: Excellent children are "accompanied", and parents' company is an effective education. Education starts with companionship, and only effective warm companionship and appropriate efforts will bear true "fruits".
There was a story about a parent who rented a house for 20 years and trained three academic masters and masters. His daughter was sent to Harbin Institute of Technology and masters and doctoral students. His eldest son studied in a well-known military academy and his younger son was admitted to Tsinghua University . His parents felt that investment in education is the best investment.
The so-called "other people's" children were "accompanied" by their parents. It is better to accompany them than to raise them well. Accompanying is not to be with them at will, but to guide and correct.
Parents are motivated, and children pursue their dreams! Some parents said, "I work hard to make my children persevere in pursuing their dreams and not be dragged down by reality."
Although "a tiger father has no dog son", there are no parents who are born to be an expert in education, and there are no parents who do not need to learn. The kingly way to educate children is that parents are persistent and hard-working and grow up with their children.
Finally, I would like to remind all parents all over the world!
Children are your future. Educating children well will always be the most important cause for you as a parent in your life!
