Some netizens said: The poor family is not the lowest class, the poor family is the declining aristocratic class. Both parents are uneducated. Whether it is capital or network resources, how can they support a noble son? At most, they go to an ordinary university and find an ordinary job. The nobles are the ones with the right roots. Although
has some truth, I do not fully agree with it. In fact, as long as the education method is correct, the children have good natural talents and work hard and are willing to endure hardships after birth, poor lower-class farmers can still become noble children.
China has always had the saying that "the green mountains raise beautiful girls, and the poor family produces noble sons; the fields hide unicorns, and the thatched huts produce kings and princes." There are countless real examples presented in all dynasties. In our small mountain village, in just in recent years, the college entrance examination scores above 650, there are nine farmers in the deep mountains where they were admitted to Wuhan University , Huazhong University of Science and Technology , National University of Defense Technology , China University of Science and Technology .
In fact, parents' company is extremely important for educating children to become successful. Companionship is a kind of power. In this world, if you lose companionship, you will lose the meaning of survival.
For children, what they need is never a good condition or a big house.
is a heartfelt sense of security and the belief that “I am very important, my family loves me very much.”
It is better to raise love than to raise wealth, and it is better to accompany you than to preach and yell.
The real starting point for a child is the time and quality of his parents' companionship.
In the small ecosystem of the family, parents are the major shareholders of holding 51%. They must be responsible for the general direction of their children and have a position and decision on issues of major issues. The remaining 49% are all attributed to the children themselves.
Because children also have independent thinking and personal dignity, they deserve to be seen, trusted and respected.
When a child cannot clearly know himself, completely control himself, and does not know what is more helpful to him, adults must help him make some choices.
Adolescent children step into the adult world with one foot, but the other foot is still in childhood.
This means that while they desire freedom and independence, they often do not have enough insight and judgment to deal with important choices in life.
. While visionary parents give their children a moderate space, they also clearly know that
parents are always the first responsible person for their children.
What we need to do is remind children, wait for them, and ultimately guide children to find the path that suits them the most.
The first task of parents is to be close to their children and protect their children's growth; the second task is to let go appropriately, let their children go to a bigger world and go for themselves.
Therefore, qualified parents will not always regard themselves as parents, and guide and control their children with a lofty attitude.
Instead, with trust in the child, respecting his decision, and wishing him to fly to a higher sky.
In fact, it is every effort that parents spend on their children that pave their future path.
As parents of ordinary families, since they cannot give their children better living conditions and more educational resources, it is better to give their children high-quality companionship, responsible guarantees and timely let go.
The strong vitality of wild boars in the deep mountains and old forests far exceeds the vitality of large fat pigs in high-end pig farms with superior conditions, comfortable environment, exquisite diet and rich nutrition. Appropriate stocking will bring many unexpected and exquisite benefits than meticulous cultivation.
