You can study hard so that you can have a good job in the future. You study hard and get a good wife after graduation. I spent so much money on her to study, how could she marry you casually?
is unpleasant, but it is also the truth. In the early days of my country, education was the people-friendly system and it didn't cost much. However, the follow-up education, including intermediate tutoring, and the energy spent by parents, and the expense of cultivating a college student is huge for ordinary families.
Tsinghua University is the highest institution of learning in my country. can marry a wife of Tsinghua University, and the IQ of offspring is a blessing for . So how much do you need to marry a wife from Tsinghua University?
Tsinghua Campus interview, girls treat the dowry too generously. Netizens: I also want to marry a student who can get into Tsinghua University with
. Generally, the wealth of students who can get into Tsinghua University is good. Now, among the candidates admitted to Tsinghua every year, less than half of them are scored naked to Tsinghua University, and the rest are all taken through various channels.
Most of them are art, and competitive categories all require the accumulation of money. like milk tea sister relied on aerobics , jumped into Tsinghua University, or group aerobics.
nude scores can be admitted to Tsinghua University, How many children from poor families are there every year, , which is the news. Most of the students have good families.
This is not a matter of whether it is money or not. can be admitted to Tsinghua University by hard work. What is more important is talent and IQ . These are generally inherited parents, and their parents have high IQs, and usually have a good life. Under the probability of
, Tsinghua students generally have a good family background . On the basis of our emphasis on being a good match, ordinary families cannot afford to marry.
But the girls at Tsinghua University don’t think so. During the interview with , the girl interviewed either said that she had not thought of this aspect of . Or just say that you don’t need a bride price, and it’s useless to ask for it.
Students said that family is part of you, and I am part of it, and it is not just a blind effort to pay . I interviewed many students and said that I did not need a bride price.
This made many boys very excited to see it, which is too arrogant . If you have good grades and good future development, you won’t have a bride price. Can I marry someone home? They think beautifully, they don’t want bride gifts, but they can’t afford to give them what ordinary boys want.
Borrow gift is not a necessity, but people who are good at studying may not be able to afford to marry
In the comment section of the interview video, there is such a comment that most people like, He said: They don’t want bride gifts, but they will never marry older rural young men who have no education. Most people can’t give them what they want.
sounds a bit inconsistent, but if you think about it carefully, you will understand the truth. I would say that the students at Tsinghua University, who are normally studying in better universities, may have different needs for their future partner.
Borrow gift may be the least important part. When asked if you have any requirements, may only have one sentence: Just get it together and have a common topic.
But it's just this combination, it's really too difficult to have a common topic . This requires that the educational environment of two people from childhood match, living environment match, want to match hobbies, and match the levels of contact with them after adulthood.
How many people can these people be worthy of? In comparison with , it is better to have a bride gift, it is nothing more than just working hard to make money. Just like Gu Ailing , she said she didn’t have a bride price and wanted people who could get a chat, but how many people could match her?
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In fact, I think this is very good, and my three views are very correct . These are the confidence that reading and ability brings a girl. If you don’t rely on anyone, you can take good care of yourself.
The choice to treat your partner does not depend on money, but on your heart . If you are lucky enough to meet, cherish it. This is also sometimes when students at home read too much, they always say that they are stupid in their reading.
This is actually a cognitive gap. parents say that what they think is important is not important in the eyes of students. , such as bride price, such as family background.
Things that students value, parents think are too empty, such as three views, such as emotional . There is no right or wrong here, it is that they have different views on things.
Many rural parents have also said this: the more you read, the further you are from your parents. Even if I go home, I can’t say a few words to my parents, and I act impatiently.
On the contrary, those children who have not studied much since childhood and have been growing up with their parents have a common topic with their parents. These are the same truth.
So if you want to marry a student from Tsinghua University, you must have the same skills as . It doesn’t mean you have to be admitted to Tsinghua University, but there are important things that can be matched by the vision, knowledge level, contact level, interests and hobbies.
Some people know at a glance that it is not theirs, either too good or too bad . We instinctively look for the person who can resonate with ourselves, and the measure is the soul, not money.
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