Who is the responsibility of educating children?
In terms of behavioral morality, parents' words and deeds have a crucial impact on their children, but in terms of knowledge dissemination, teachers are definitely the main body.
But with the development of the times and the changes in the educational environment, many parents were helpless to find that now, teachers are no longer the only ones who teach and solve their children's problems with , and many education has been passed on to parents. and even some teachers also believe that "educating children is the responsibility of parents."
The co-education of the family and school is misinterpreted, which naturally leads to conflicts between the family and the school.
Not long ago, I saw a video online. A Chinese teacher in a primary school in Ji'an, Jiangxi Province posted a video of students punishing them in the class group.
What mistake did the children make to make the teacher so angry?
It turns out that it was neither a safety accident because of naughty things, nor an irreconcilable contradiction between children. Instead, most of these first-grade children did not learn pinyin in advance, which led to the teacher being dissatisfied with the results of the class.
"How do parents tutor? I can't continue this lesson!" In the video, the teacher's complaints aroused dissatisfaction among many parents. After the incident of
was exposed, netizens also questioned the teacher: Who is the responsibility of educating children? If parents can understand the tutoring of their children, do they still need to go to school?
Netizens hotly discussed:
"My daughter is also the first grade this year. The child who did not learn Pinyin in advance in the class was asked by the teacher every day. I am very glad that my daughter taught her Pinyin when she was in the senior class."
"Teaching children to study was a teacher's task, but now it is natural for parents. Parents of dual-employed workers are busy at work every day, so how can they have time to make special care of children?"
" I have to say that some teachers are really too irresponsible. Is it guilty for children to not learn Pinyin when they enter school? Many public kindergartens do not teach knowledge. Do you force every child to go to the primary school transition? "
In addition, many netizens joked: In the past, parents only needed to send their children to school to work with peace of mind. Children's learning is the responsibility of teachers. Now, different, schools are no longer places for children to learn knowledge, but have become places to test their children's learning results at home. Whenever there is a problem in their studies, teachers will chase parents.
Although not all schools are like this, such ridicule does reflect some responsibilities in education, transfer of . Why does "responsibility transfer" occur in
?
As the phenomenon of education " involume " intensifies, more and more parents are beginning to help their children learn ahead of time.
Take first-grade children to learn pinyin as an example. Since many public kindergartens do not teach any knowledge during their children's schooling, parents will let their children participate in the transition classes in kindergarten and primary school in advance, or teach pinyin and literacy at home.
There is no problem in learning in advance, but if there are many children who study in advance, then a small number of children who have not been exposed to primary school knowledge will become an alien in the eyes of some teachers.
Especially when the course progresses faster, teachers will put the responsibility of educating children on parents. As people's teachers, the practice of such teachers is obviously an irresponsible manifestation.
Educate children, and parents and schools should have clear responsibilities
After the concept of "home-school co-education" was proposed, it was recognized by many parents and teachers. After all, educating children is not a matter of one party, and parents and schools should actively communicate and cooperate with each other.
However, when it comes to specific matters, schools and families should also have clear responsibilities. Parents should provide their children with a harmonious and warm family environment, actively care about and pay attention to their children's study and life. As teachers, they should also teach their children knowledge conscientiously. When children encounter learning difficulties, they should help them answer their questions in a timely manner.
As a teacher, you should clarify your responsibilities and not over-focus on your children's learning just because the current environment has broken down, so that all the responsibility of educating your children is put on parents.
This is a misunderstanding of "home-school co-education" and a manifestation of shirking responsibility.
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Students will not recognize pinyin, and the teacher shoots videos to send to parents group. What do you think about this? Welcome to leave a message in the comment area!
