The experience of a parent: the child is 8 years old, and the road to school is far away. Every time I arrive at a new school, I will be persuaded to withdraw from within a week. From the city to the town, and from the town to the countryside, the child's admission problem has made the old mother worry, and the child gradually becomes numb.
For the situation where the pedigree children do not go to school and have difficulty in going to school, it is indeed a difficult and complicated disease for each pedigree family. Due to the irregular and irregular behavior of pedigree children, it may be the fundamental reason for being dismissed.
First, we analyze the reasons why children may be dismissed
First, inattention. Attention is an important skill for intervening training for children in the pedigree and a prerequisite for learning everything. Children from the genealogy cannot sit or concentrate,
Second, insufficient control ability. Sometimes children are too active and lose control of their bodies and behaviors, which are often manifested as running around, screaming, and even aggressive behaviors.
Third, lack of self-care ability. Self-care ability is one of the important conditions for entering society, and insufficient self-care ability is an important factor in the child being persuaded to withdraw. Hunan prodigy Wei Yongkang , was admitted to the Department of Physics, Hunan Xiangtan University with excellent grades, becoming the youngest college student in Xiangtan University . At the age of 17, he was admitted to the Institute of High Energy Physics, Chinese Academy of Sciences and studied for a master's and doctoral degree. Life is like a cheat, but who would have thought that such an excellent and powerful child prodigy would be persuaded to withdraw, and the reason behind it was also shocking. The reason why Wei Yongkang was persuaded to withdraw was that he could not take care of himself in his personal life. It can be seen how important it is to a person by taking care of himself.
Fourth, language communication barrier. cannot communicate normally with peers and teachers, which has hit children's self-confidence and cannot integrate into the collective. cannot understand the child's expression for a long time, and classmates will gradually alienate the child. The child is like being "isolated". What comes with is the emergence of problem behavior.
Fifth, insufficient execution ability. Due to the cognitive impairment of the spell baby and poor ability to listen to instructions, the child has poor execution ability, so the child feels frustrated and cannot get a sense of accomplishment from it. If he is in frustration for a long time, the child will become more and more anxious, thus losing control of .
Can children go to school when they reach age? Of course not. Many parents start to choose schools when their children are at the age of school, but the result is that their children cannot integrate into the collective, which eventually leads to more serious problem behaviors.
Then parents will ask, what abilities do children need to master when entering school?
1, imitation ability
has good imitation ability, which can help children learn and integrate faster and better, such as imitating classmates' raising their hands, reading textbooks, imitating classmates' own communication methods, imitating how games between classmates are played, and joining them in the game.
2, self-care ability
It can help children improve their self-confidence and integrate into the collective, such as organizing their desks and schoolbags by themselves, and being able to finish lunch independently without help.
3. Being able to deal with new things
For children of the genealogy, dealing with new things is not easy, such as food that has not been eaten, classrooms, classmates and teachers that have not been exposed to, and even school toilets. It is important to allow children to enter school and integrate well.
4, ability to listen to instructions
Listening to instructions is also a necessary skill before entering school. Lack of this skill will cause children to be unable to adapt and survive in school. For example, if the teacher says "start doing homework", "put away the books", if the classmates say "go to the toilet", "go to get food", etc., these all require the child to have the ability to obey instructions and perform corresponding behaviors.
5, Sit ability
In class, sitting ability is the most important point. Just imagine, if the teacher only starts for 5 minutes and the child runs around the classroom, it will not only interrupt the teacher's thinking, but also affect the students' attention. At the same time, you will not be able to acquire knowledge in class.
6. Establish a sense of order and rules
Before children enter school, we must train our children in this regard at home, such as tidying up their toys and picture books, tidying up their bedrooms, including clothes, beds and dolls in the room, etc.
7. Cultivating concentration
Concentration is the prerequisite for learning ability, and the golden period for cultivating children's concentration is 3 to 6 years old. If your child just loves freshness for everything, then we must cultivate children's concentration , such as drawing. In this process, the child feels the unknown caused by the color and the next stroke, which can easily attract the child's attention and improve the child's concentration.
8. Generalize the intervention training content you learned in life
. I learned a skill at home or institution, but when I went out, I would not use this skill. This is because I did not generalize the child in life, and the child could not use it normally if he changed the environment. For example, when you need help, say "help me get it" to your mother. When you are outside, you should guide your child to ask for help from others other than your mother, say "help me get it" and use the child in other environments.
Integration into society is the ultimate goal of our rehabilitation training and is also the expectation of parents. However, parents should also view integrated education correctly. They should not worry about the fact that their children are 3 years old and should go to kindergarten, but what skills should they have at this age. If you enter school without being prepared, your child will have more problematic behaviors.
What difficulties have you encountered in your child’s career? Welcome to leave comments and Daddy of the competition will answer you one by one.
