The earliest victim can be traced back to 2007, and Du privately showed off to her, saying that he had slept with hundreds of students and was the "godfather" in the film industry. Over the past 15 years, countless victims have been, most of them are minors. Among them, there is a little girl from 2003 who was seduced to pregnancy at the age of 17, dropped out of school, and gave birth to Du's child at the age of 18.
Nothing new under the sunlight. In recent years, there have been many similar events. There is one thing behind these incidents, that is, the perpetrators are mostly authoritative to them, or people they respect and trust, such as elders, teachers, leaders and other roles.
Whenever I see these news, I feel heartbroken and heartache. The experiences of these girls, especially seeing many kind girls who lack social experience and courage, do not know how to refuse and resist. Some of them have lacked love and simplicity since childhood. When they meet wolves in sheep's clothing, they will not distinguish between true and false, and will not protect themselves. It is really heartbreaking!
If you are such a girl, I have a few tips:
1. Develop the habit of thinking more often. There are many packaging techniques in this world and many "glorious" people. They like to create character designs. Don't take what you see as the truth. More importantly, you need to look at it with your heart. May your eyes be brighter!
2. Don’t blindly worship authority or idols. Have a deep understanding of human nature. No matter who the other party is, a person is just a human being. There will be darkness of human nature. Some people will be led by the darkness, even if there are many authoritative identities, you must dare to question and Say No when you are offended!
3. It’s not that you don’t forgive, but that you don’t forgive too quickly! Fang Siqi once said something, and I agree with it, "I forgive him because I can survive in this way. You cannot forgive him because other girls can survive in this way!" True forgiveness requires inner struggle and final willingness. Those who are forgiven must see their own evil and their heart that will not be violated again. Only true forgiveness and reform will bring meaning!
