The great thing about teacher is that a very ordinary sentence, action, or expression may affect a child's life.
As a teacher who has been working on the front line of education for many years, I want to share 6 short stories related to education here. Perhaps they can resonate with us at a certain point.
01 Story 1 - "No Burden"
What should I do if the child’s grades in the class are not good? Is it a beating and scolding the child? Or find a way to motivate your children? Obviously, the next one should be our choice.
In the story, the son's grades are not good and he is getting worse and worse, and he even got the last place in the exam. In this case, many parents usually lose confidence in their children's learning. But the father in the story adopted a clever motivation method. Judging from the guidance method he adopted, he mainly adopted the method of "relieving stress" for the child, so that the child could let go of his ideological burden and go into battle lightly.
and this father also There are two practices worth learning from for our parents:
first, as long as the child's grades improve, the father will give timely affirmation, satisfying the child's sense of accomplishment;
second, no matter whether the child's grades are good or bad, he never Reprimanding children always insist on positive motivation. The final result of
is that the child has undergone unexpected changes.
02 Story 2 - "The Post Office "Irresponsible""
Adolescent children are unique and often take unexpected actions, which will cause the most headache for teachers and parents. After receiving a letter from the female student's "love confession", the male teacher in the story, in order not to let the female student carry a burden of thought, his expression and behavior were the same as usual, and he did not make the girl notice it at all. In addition, the teacher also took advantage of the opportunity to chat with students and consciously accuses the post office of their letters for being often lost due to the "irresponsible" of the post office, which made the girl sure that her letters must have been lucky to be "lost" by the post office. ", the fear and anxiety in his heart was completely relieved. But she didn't know that it was the teacher who silently cared for her fragile self-esteem in adolescence behind her back.
Waiting many years later, after the female student had graduated from college, the teacher took advantage of the female student's visit to "return the letter that had been preserved for many years" to "return the jade to Zhao". Only then did the female student understand the whole story and feel grateful. Echoing in her heart.
This is an educational wisdom and warm teacher, which made her adolescence finally resolved silently.
I believe that after reading this story, whether we are teachers or parents, we will handle situations like this correctly.
03 Story 3 - "You taught me"
In this story, parents' "personal teaching is more important than words" is fully reflected. Although the mother in the story did not tell her child what to do, she was better than sound in silence. The mother used her good practical actions to achieve the goal of positively affecting the child.
Many parents often accuse their children of playing with their mobile phones, being impolite, and not learning, but few parents will associate their children's education issues with their own words and deeds.
In fact, in many cases, children's bad behavior habits are subtly negatively affected by parents. For example, children who like to play with their mobile phones usually also have parents who like to play with their mobile phones; children who don’t like to read usually have parents who don’t like to read.
So, some people say that to change children, it is better to change our parents themselves first. Parents use their own good examples of words and deeds to educate their children, which is far better than using empty principles to educate their children.
04 Story 4 - "Lying"
What should I do if a child lies? Should we punish children severely, or should we reflect on ourselves first?
If you want to blame others, you must first blame yourself. In this story, the father chose to reflect on himself. He believed that the child lies because of his failed education.
On a short journey, 18 kilometers, the father used more than three hours of walking to reflect on his special way and gave the child a silent education, which was definitely a heart of the child. A huge impact and shock naturally achieved good educational results.
05 Story 5 - ""Deception""
It is not difficult for us to see that the grandma in the story is much wiser than Xiaoshun's parents. It is precisely because of the grandma's successful education that the child's originally hopeless dark life has become full of hope colorful life.
I once heard another version of the story, a poor student in the eyes of the teacher, but my mother told the child with a kind lie: he is very outstanding in the teacher's mind. The child rekindled his confidence. Since then, the mother has been constantly using this method to motivate the child. In the end, the child was admitted to Tsinghua University with excellent grades. The two versions of the story have similarities: both children are poor students in the class; parents say that the teacher gave great affirmation, but in fact the teacher told the truth; in the end, both children achieved great success.
We get an inspiration from this story: what poor students lack the most is self-confidence, and children who lack self-confidence will inevitably fall into a dilemma of deteriorating circumstances. How to stimulate children's self-confidence is one of the keys to helping children get out of difficulties and move towards success. This grandma set a good example for us.
06 Story 6 - "This is a pity"
When we make mistakes in children, we often worry about how to accommodate children without principles or stick to principles. After reading Mrs. Stena's educational story, we understood a truth: as long as parents' requirements are correct, they must follow this requirement, otherwise the children will pay the due price for their mistakes.
As a mother, Mrs. Stena agreed to the child's request, but she also made a request to the child: she must come back before twelve o'clock.
This requirement is not high for the child, but perhaps it was because the child had played too much at a classmate's house, and the child arrived home 20 minutes later than the scheduled time.
It is obvious that the child did not fulfill the punctual requirement and made a big mistake. As a mother, Stena did not accuse the child, but pointed to the clock on the wall to make the child realize his mistake.
Immediately after dinner, the child wanted to go to a movie with his mother as usual. At this time, the mother did not accommodate the child, but asked the child to watch the clock again and told the child: Because the time is too late, the plays and movies can no longer be seen.
The child is naturally sad. Sterna said a very intriguing sentence in the face of the child's tears: "This is really a pity!"
What is the subtext of Sterna's sentence? If you know, please feel free to go to Share in the message area.
