The parents of junior high school students were tidying up their son's room and unexpectedly found a "little picture album"
The junior high school students are not very old, but they have entered adolescence and have begun to have their own little secrets. Many junior high school students like to write and draw in their notes . The content may be about one's own youthful insights, or it may be about someone who cannot express it openly. In short, the content of these notes is not something that parents want to discover.
However, the self-care ability of junior high school students is average, and they still need parents to take care of them in daily life. If they are not careful, their parents will find some little secrets. A parent of a junior high school student accidentally discovered a small book while cleaning up his son's room. picture album.
This parent also knows that his son usually likes to write and draw, but now he is a junior high school student and is about to face the high school entrance examination. It is not okay to be so playful. This parent is a little angry. is still posting this online. Thing, who knew that after reading this student’s “picture album”, many netizens advised him to mind his own business.
There is no other reason. The paintings of this junior high school student are so amazing . It can be seen that he is a military fan. The content of the paintings is all about some national defense weapons. It is also full of pictures and texts, and the details are also very good. , this It shows that students’ knowledge accumulation in this area is extraordinary.
How much passion can a junior high school student have to draw so many things in professional fields? This shows that he really likes it, so he works hard because he likes it. Many netizens think that this child is very talented and will definitely achieve success in this field in the future . This is why he advises parents not to over-restrict and restrict the development of students. .
Not only did netizens say so, the picture album of this junior high school student also attracted official comments. China Academy of Aerospace Science and Industry Defense Technology commented, "China Aerospace is waiting for him to grow up." It seems that the official also approves The potential of this junior high school student.
When parents discover their students' "little hobbies", don't rush to stop them.
As a student, learning is of course the most important thing, but who said that only learning cultural knowledge is called learning? ? Many students have their own little hobbies. Some like painting and may become artists in the future. Some students have loved bugs since childhood and may become experts in insect research when they grow up.
Students are allowed to have many possibilities for their development. It is not only by studying well that they can have a good future. Therefore, parents should protect students' positive hobbies and guide them. can provide certain learning support when necessary, such as They say enrolling students in classes, finding specialized teachers to teach, etc.
Moreover, parents can also use students' hobbies as guidance and urge them to study. Students like this have a dream for what they like. Parents can tell students that if they want to be exposed to higher knowledge, they must first go to college , let students work hard for what they like, so that hobbies and studies can be balanced.
Of course, if parents find that students’ hobbies are not so positive, and may even cause damage to physical and mental development, then parents should stop them in time. It is recommended that parents calmly talk to students first. Junior high school Children who are not very young can understand many things. It is more effective to let them correct themselves than to impose strict control by their parents.
How can parents help students balance interests and studies?
When they were students, many people had this idea. As long as they don’t study, anything they do is interesting. They may even become obsessed with something while avoiding studying, causing conflicts between studies and interests.
If parents find this situation, they must first consider whether the student's academic performance has declined. If not, there is no need to destroy the student's interest in . If there is , they must also consider whether the student's academic performance has been delayed due to interest. On this basis, parents It starts with helping students balance their interests and studies.
Many Chinese parents feel that students’ tasks are only to study, and they should not do anything else. But in fact, this is not conducive to the all-round development of students. Students are not learning machines. They have their own joys, sorrows, and joys, so Between interests and studies, parents should help students allocate time , put studies before interests, and agree to do what they want to do after studying. This can increase the speed of students doing homework and will not cause students to do homework. Reverse psychology.
Parents can also help students find their own balance point from the perspective of support and encouragement. For things that students are interested in , parents should participate appropriately and provide a learning environment so that students can maintain a positive learning attitude and slowly balance their interests and studies. distribution.
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