Internal scrolling era: Mom, what if I can't get into college?

Shakespeare famously said: All the past is a prologue.

What you need to remember is: 90% of people who have received higher education are living a "low-profile life" .

A diploma, this is just a stepping stone.

01

Outside the college entrance examination room, most parents are anxiously waiting. A father is particularly conspicuous.

This middle-aged man with a big belly may not be rich or powerful.

But his happiness seemed about to overflow, with an infectious smile.

He carries his daughter's pink schoolbag on his shoulders.

He held up a red plaque carefully designed and printed in the small shop with graphic advertisements:

"No matter what you do in the test, your parents love you very much"

No matter how life bends him, he is still the one A man with a straight back in front of his daughter.

Even if the college entrance examination has passed for many years.

But the father's slogan still made my eyes warm.

Because, my mother actually said the same thing, that was the last month of the college entrance examination and I went home:

"Mom, what if I can't get into university ?" :

"What are you afraid of, we won't repeat the test if you don't pass the test"

"I'm already optimistic, XX majors only need XX points" It's not a big deal."

"Don't worry, my mother is here."

There is a passage in "Wu Wen Xi Dong" that made me cry.

"Don't be afraid, I am the one who supports you. I will fall down with you, no matter how deep you fall. I am not afraid of anything, I am afraid that you will push me away when you fall."

Parents are always the ones supporting their children. After so many years, I still remember the words my mother said in my senior year of high school. Unconditional love is probably like this!

Thank you, Mom, for staying with me for so long and taking care of my little universe.

02

Some people say that the best love, the best encouragement is to tell another person "I believe in you unconditionally, I love you unconditionally." Still a "loser".

No matter whether you can earn a lot of money in the future, whether you can live a good life or not, whether you will have a very good partner.

The college entrance examination is over at this moment, but your life has just begun. Whether you are starting a colorful university life, or stepping into a cruel society. I sincerely wish you, if you believe me, I hope you can remember the following 8 social realities:

1, Most of the time you take the initiative to call your parents, but you are wronged or have no money. , and when you eat well, sleep well, and have a good time with your friends, don’t even think of calling your parents, even if your parents call you on their own initiative, you will be annoyed.

2, No one will really pay attention to you unless you are very beautiful or you are about to die. People's attention is always drawn to good looking and poor people.

3, 20% of people don't care about the suffering you complain about, and the remaining 80% will secretly be happy after listening to it. The comfort you hear is just a perfunctory way to maintain the relationship. You told your friend that you were broken up, and he comforted you that he could find a better one. In fact, all he was thinking about was his tomorrow's job and this month's salary.

4, Nowadays, people rarely do what they think is right, because those are difficult, they will only do simple things and regret it later.Many people want to take the postgraduate entrance examination and find it troublesome, and finally find a job as a mess. After a few years, they start to say: "If I had taken the postgraduate entrance examination, I would not be like this..."

5, society is like a crawler A tree full of monkey , looking up is all buttocks, looking down are smiling faces, looking left and right are eyes and ears, you will see what kind of faces you see at any position.

6, contempt chains exist in every corner of society, no matter what occupation or circle you are. If is listed on the market, they despise those in general schools; those who go to 211 despise third-rate universities; those in the world's top 500 despise entrepreneurs...

7, Going to work means signing a contract of sale, and what you sell is your time , no matter what. Where are you, what time are you, the task is coming, you have to do it, you have to do it if you don't.

8, Everyone who goes to a big city is a dreamer, but in the end, all that is left is homesickness.

Regardless of whether these things will happen to you in the future, I tell you in advance not to hit you, but I hope you will be prepared and deal with it better!

03

An writer said:

"No matter how good your destiny is, you have to go through storms and darkness; no matter how bad your situation is, God will reserve a piece of sunshine for you. "

The times are very different now, and a good graduate school and a diploma are far from guaranteeing a smooth career.

Some people even said: 90% of people with higher education are living a "low-quality life", a diploma is just a stepping stone.

And in the same way, if we lose at the starting line of the college entrance examination, then we need to run harder in the future.

If you don't work hard now, then don't complain that society is too cruel to you in the future.

In life and work, we ultimately need to examine the ability to solve problems, the ability to adapt and grow quickly, the ability to withstand pressure, and the ability to exert one's strengths, etc. These are difficult to be directly reflected from the academic qualifications.

Osamu Dazai wrote this sentence in " Disqualification in the Human World ": "In the so-called human world, the only thing I am willing to regard as truth is this sentence: everything will pass."

There is never the word "easy" in the life of an adult. While working hard to be yourself, correct your mentality and everything will be fine.

If possible, I hope we can all become such people: has thought about giving up more than once, complained about the injustice of life more than once, but also prepared a pair of hard armor for himself, even if the 1000th Even if you get knocked down for the second time, you will still stand up and try your best for the 1001st time.

This is also the end of this article. Congratulations again on the completion of the college entrance examination and a new chapter in your life.

Shakespeare has a famous saying: All the past is a prologue.

The past is untraceable, no matter what your college entrance examination is or what your past is, it is in the past tense.

Life is like a roller coaster, there will be highs and lows, I hope you can learn to bravely climb up and rise to a new height when you are in the lows.

Click [ little red heart ] , in the days to come, let's work together!

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