Bi hexagram , the upper hexagram Kan water, the lower hexagram Kun earth, is called water and earth. The image is the hexagram where water is attached to the earth, which is the hexagram where we get along.
What is "big"?
From the perspective of the font, "bi" means that two people are close together, one in front and the other behind, and have a close relationship.
From the perspective of the text, "bi" means closeness, closeness, alliance, etc.
Water is attached to the ground, and it is not easy to compare with water and ground. If there is too much water, it will overflow, and if the ground is too loose, it will sink. Find the balance, and the ratio between water and earth will last longer. How to find balance in
is the problem of getting along with each other. Getting along happily is balance and can last for a long time.
Therefore, in my opinion, the "bi" in the Bi hexagram means getting along.
The key to getting along with each other is long-term. It includes two aspects: one is to get along with yourself and the other is to get along with the outside world. How to get along with
for a long time? The answer has been given by the Bi Gua. I am giving a brick and quoting jade. My opinion is for reference only.
Comparison of self-comparison means getting along with yourself, including three ways.
First, self-reflection.
Let me get along with myself today and sit down and talk about the past.
sorted and summarized one by one according to the order of cultivating and managing the family governing the country and pacifying the world.
First look at self-cultivation, whether yesterday was humble, cautious, moderate, peaceful, patient, and generous...
Then look at family training, whether you have accompanied your children yesterday, whether you have shared housework, and whether you have respected your parents...
Then govern the country, whether you have done something in place yesterday, whether you are listening to your words, and whether you think about the problem thoroughly...
Finally, you have to pacify the world, whether you care about the environment yesterday, whether you are kind to others, whether you are abiding by the law ...
Yesterday, I said to today: If there is, correct it, and if there is no, please encourage it. As long as you are better than me.
said to yesterday today: I will insist on reflecting, the better and better, and I can't always make you responsible.
Tomorrow says to today: Thank you for your efforts, which makes me full of hope.
After getting along like this, I will definitely become a good friend forever yesterday, today and tomorrow.
Second, self-encouragement.
In life, things that are unhappy often occur, and there will inevitably be times of depression. Then let tomorrow's self encourage today's self and spend today and welcome tomorrow together.
Tomorrow: There is easy to have yin and yang. The way of yin and yang tells us that there must be yang, there must be bad, there must be good, there must be failure, there must be success, and there must be dissatisfaction. Don’t be depressed, wait patiently, the bad will eventually pass, and the smooth will surely come. The need to tell us that everything you want is achieved by waiting.
Today: I feel that I can’t wait for the day of success. I don’t have strong abilities, have poor connections, and have little background.
Tomorrow: What is success? Is success only if you have money, power, power and fame? Not so. Success should be about self-cultivation and success, while money, power, fame and status are just accessories. Therefore, Zhuangzi said: Name is the guest of reality. Cultivating one's body includes cultivating the mind and cultivating one's body. Exercise one's body and increase one's wisdom. You are already on the road to success.
Today: It seems to make sense, but I still think randomly.
Tomorrow: Self-cultivation is not a matter of one day or one night, so there is no need to worry. You must believe that this is the way of heaven and earth. If we are in heaven and earth, if we follow the way of heaven and earth, we will be protected by heaven and earth. Otherwise, it will be difficult to have a good end.
Today: Isn’t this what people often say, good will be rewarded, and evil will be rewarded.
Tomorrow: Not all, goodness includes four aspects: self-cultivation, family management, country and peace in the world, and is not simply charity. That is why there is a phenomenon of doing good deeds but not rewarding them. The key to goodness lies in self-cultivation, but self-cultivation is not about seeking rewards, but about adapting to nature.
Today: I understand.
Tomorrow will encourage today, today will give tomorrow hope, a virtuous cycle, and a happy time to get along. As for the way of encouragement, it varies from person to person, just as it suits you.
Third, self-suggestion.
Self-suggestion is to get along with today's self and constantly "brainwashing" yourself.
people have potential, our DNA only unlocks less than 10% of the features. How to develop potential? Self-suggestion can help.
For example, if you want to obtain the skill of "self-discipline", you can silently recite it in your mind for ten minutes every day: I want self-discipline, I want self-discipline, I want self-discipline... If you persist for a year or two, it will be effective.
Therefore, the way to compare oneself is a good way to improve oneself. Therefore, there is a saying in the sixth and two of Bi hexagrams: If you compare yourself from the inside, you will be auspicious.
Bi Gua June 4 says: Comparing externally, it is auspicious.
external comparison means getting along with the outside world. In addition, the world includes people and the universe, and there are three principles in general.
First, compare
compare 1. There is a saying in the word "The man is in bad luck in the future." Since there is a bad situation, then it will be auspicious first.
What is "compare first"? There are three meanings when it comes to getting along.
First, when you see good things, be courtesy first, and you will get along happily. For example, , , , , 3, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1 For example, Cao Cao sting Dong Zhuo , Goujian First, be a slave and then lie on firewood and taste gall...
Third, when you see the virtuous, learn first, and get along harmoniously. For example, Confucius has words, and three people will have to be my teacher. When you see the virtuous, you will reflect on yourself when you see the virtuous.
The second is Fubi.
The first sixth part of the bi hexagram is said: If you have good fortune, there is no blame. If there is a fortune and a treasure, it will eventually come, it will be auspicious.
"Fu" means integrity, and the most important thing to get along with is integrity. Sincerity is reassuring, but especially sincerity will bring unexpected joy, so there will be auspiciousness.
Red-topped businessman Hu Xueyan He has been honest since childhood. He picked up a bag of gold when he was herding cattle at the age of 13, but he was able to return it to the owner. Therefore, the gains and losses are appreciated by the Lord, and they are accepted as disciples, and they are taught to do grain business. Since then, Hu Xueyan has entered the business world and taken the most important step in his life, which is an unexpected joy.
"The Doctrine of the Mean" says: Sincerity is like God. If the meaning is sincere, if God helps you, why worry about being unlucky?
Third, obvious comparison
Bi Gua Jiuwu says: obvious comparison, king uses the three driving force, loses the previous bird, and the people in the city will not warn, which is auspicious.
"The king uses three driving forces and loses the previous bird", which means that when the king hunts, he only surrounds three sides, and opens one side of the net, and those who wish to take the bait, this is the virtue of the great man.
So, "apparent comparison" means getting along openly. Have a clear conscience and be selfless in your heart and have a broad world.
Tang Taizong Li Shimin and Wei Zheng are a comparison, so they can create a good story for the monarch and ministers.
Guo Ziyi has served four generations of Tang emperors, coming when they call him, leaving when they linger, not greedy for power; life is luxurious, free and easy, not afraid of criticism, and it will eventually become a beautiful story for all ages.
Finally, Bi Gua gave advice, and the six words in the previous six are: Bi has no head, which is bad.
means that on the one hand, you should choose people to get along with each other, and you should not choose food without hunger; on the other hand, you should have a bottom line when getting along with each other, and you should not just please or give in. Otherwise, there will be bad luck.
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