Everyone who comes to this world has such a goal - live happily and reap their own blessings.
Happiness and blessings are particularly difficult to have. At least, from the perspective of the "28 Rule", 80% of people are destined to have miserable lives, and only 20% are relatively lucky.
The so-called "eight out of ten things in life are unsatisfactory" is this. No one can avoid the destined suffering, and everyone can only accept it calmly. If a person cannot change reality, he can only accept reality.
Since life is so hard, do ordinary people have no chance to live happily? There are opportunities, but it depends on the person's cultivation and realm.
bitterness should be divided into two categories, one is bitterness full of "fixed numbers". The other type is suffering full of "variables". Fixed numbers are born, while variables are created by themselves.
Nan Huaijin Master said that if a person always calls him poor, he will become poorer and poorer.
In fact, whether ordinary people have a hard life is written on their faces when they are fifty. Those who have these three points on their faces will only become more and more miserable and have no happiness.
1. People who are always frowning will not be happy.
The so-called "appearance is born from the heart, and words are expressed by the heart."
All appearances are produced by the heart. And all words and deeds are related to people's psychology. A person always feels frowning, just like someone else owes him money, then his heart is also bitter.
A rich man met a fisherman fishing. The rich man said to the fisherman, "It's so good weather, if you don't make money, just fish here? I've made money for the rest of my life, and you're not happy, you're definitely not happy either." After hearing the rich man's words, the fisherman said with emotion: "I always smile every day, and I'm sunbathing here, how can I be unhappy? I'm satisfied with this day." The rich man was very puzzled, why am I much richer than him, and still live a frown and sad life?
The fisherman only said one sentence: "Whether you can be happy depends on your heart, not your money."
The so-called "Smile, you will be young for ten years. If you are worried, you will turn your head white." If you smile constantly and be contented, then your life will not be much worse. And you always frown, and you will drive away the blessing.
2. People with dull eyes and pale faces are not lucky.
" Huangdi Neijing " has this sentence: "Transip and nothingness, follow the true qi, keep the spirit inward, and always be sick?"
You keep calm and inactive, use calmness to cultivate yourself, so that the body's qi and blood are smooth, and your energy is full of energy, so where does your illness come from? The core of
is Qi and Blood. The manifestation of qi and blood is "element, energy and spirit". You are very energetic and in good health. Even if you reach fifty years old, you are almost the same as a young man, so your blessings will definitely not become shallow.
Of course, you have insufficient qi and blood, have problems with your energy and spirit, and you are drowsy all day long, and your mind cannot turn around. I believe that your blessing will slowly slip away from you.
What are the characteristics of people without energy? The most direct feature of is that his eyes are dull, his face is particularly pale, and he has no blood. At this time, we need to pay attention.
The so-called "Three inches of energy are used in thousands of ways, and everything will stop once it is impermanent." is the reason. Without that three inches of energy, people will lose their luck and their bodies will suffer from illnesses and gradually go downhill.
Basically, middle-aged people who have been withstood for most of their lives and do not know how to combine work and rest have bad expressions and need to recuperate in time.
3. People with no flesh on their cheeks and sharp heads and narrow foreheads do not look like wealth.
We often say that a person must have a "blessing appearance". What exactly is a blessing?
Generally speaking, The heavenly court should be full, the ground pavilion should be square, and there should be flesh on both sides of the cheeks, so he will have a "blessing appearance". is like those with national faces, they are born to be the leader.
At work, we will find such an interesting phenomenon. bosses and leaders, the heavenly court are very full, with a very large forehead and a round head. Coupled with the momentum of "no anger, self-righteousness", the magnetic field and temperament they show are often far superior to ordinary people.
On the contrary, workers who have only worked hard all their lives, basically have no flesh on their cheeks, and the Heaven and Earth Pavilion are relatively narrow. Combined with his words and deeds, the temperament he showed seems to be not very good.
Thinking of a corporate boss's words, before promotes an employee, first of all, it depends on his loyalty and secondly, on his ability. Finally, it depends on his appearance. He is not good at appearance, but he is not suitable for this position.
Although we always say that we do not judge heroes by appearance, it is undeniable that some positions require that person with appearance. And people who don’t fit this look may not be able to do it well.
Written to the end
What is the facial features? We cannot change it. Whether it looks good or not, it is all born. We don’t need to be too concerned, but focus on the two points of mindset and spirit.
If you don’t have a good appearance, you should “cultivate your mind” in time to make up for your shortcomings. How good your mood is, then your future will be brighter. What's more, changes in the mind will affect changes in appearance in certain aspects.
Your mood is good, and your energy will slowly gather. The so-called "Silent to cultivate oneself, frugality to cultivate virtue ". has smooth qi and blood and a positive and optimistic attitude, then you may turn from hard work to wealth.
In general, whether a person is blessed is not only related to money and position, but also depends on his perception of the world.
text/Shushan Youlu
