People with wealth are noble, even if they wear thick linen clothes, they cannot change their wealth; people without wealth are full of poverty, and even if they are in brocade clothes, they cannot change their poverty.
There is a very big difference between people who have wealth and people who have no wealth.
For example, when it comes to wearing clothes, the former has an extremely good temperament and is extremely noble. Even if wears 30 yuan clothes, he can still look 3,000 yuan. This is the influence of temperament on ordinary people’s dressing.
The latter has a bad temperament and does not look like a noble person no matter how he looks. Then even if he wears 3,000 yuan clothes, he can only wear them as 30 yuan. temperament may become a plus or a deducting point.
Many people think that wealth cannot be seen. But in fact, people with "wealth" are particularly outstanding in some aspects.
Even when walking, they are different. Why? The blessing of wealth on people is not only reflected in people's temperament, but also in people's daily words and deeds.
Whether a person is destined to be rich or not, we will know clearly if he sees these four details.
1. A wealthy person is low-key and confident enough.
Real rich people and rich people disguised have different views on the word "low-key".
In the former's opinion, even if you have money, you can't show off to others, so as not to attract a lot of enemies , so they choose to be low-key and have no intention of showing off at all.
However, they are very confident in dealing with people and have their own confidence and insights.
In the eyes of the latter, if you have money, you should show it to others before you know it, otherwise how could you have face? So, they will choose to be a high-profile person and make enemies everywhere.
Of course, the latter does not have much confidence in dealing with people. Instead, there is more "strong outside and do it in the middle" , which is obviously lack of confidence. The difference between
is the question of whether it is really rich or "fake rich". A true rich man does not show off, but is rich but cannot be said; a false rich man likes to show off, but he is obviously poor.
2. People with wealth do not show their emotions.
The ancients said: "Happiness and anger are not reflected in their colors, and likes and dislikes are not expressed in their expressions."
The joys and sorrows of people who are truly capable will not be expressed through their expressions, and there are not many emotional changes on their faces. They will be introverted to the heart of things they like or hate in daily life and will not let people know.
People like this are generally more cunning and cannot be guessed thoroughly by ordinary people. Just imagine, without a certain degree of scheming, without certain means and skills, can he still make a lot of money?
Anyone who has come into contact with rich people knows that the ability of these rich people to "control emotions" is not something that ordinary people can imagine. They can instantly become nothing, and they can instantly burst into tears, which is far better than ordinary people.
Why do these rich people have to control their emotions? The realistic saying is that making money is a process of dealing with others and allowing wealth to flow. If you can’t even do the first step, how can you talk about the result of the second step?
No matter when, control your emotions and be a strong man who will not let others guess thoroughly.
3. A wealthy person is as quiet as a virgin and moving as a rabbit.
"Sun Tzu·Military Battle" says: "It is as fast as the wind, its sprint is as slow as the forest, its invasion is as fire, it is as motionless as mountains, it is difficult to know as the yin, and its movement is as thunder as shaking."
Whether it is an army or a person who does big things, they act like the wind, and when they stop, they are in an orderly and uniform pace.It is like a fire rushing on the offense, and it is as stable as Mount Tai when defending. No one knows what they will do next, anyway, they will be thunderous when they move.
Why does a person have wealth and why can he make money? is because they have self-planning, decisive and tenacious temperament. Although they face countless difficulties, they are still indomitable.
Just imagine, he can "attack when he advances, defend when he retreats" , then isn't he invincible?
Ordinary people, if they want to change their wealth, they must start from the word "movement and stillness". When it is time to move, you cannot be quiet. When it is time to be quiet, you cannot move around.
Move properly and calmly respond. Only when the two are applied endlessly is the kingly way.
4. People with wealth are not anxious or impatient.
I have heard the views of many bigwigs in the world. They all believe that the best learning object is "river, lake and sea", that is, "water".
didn’t understand at that time. There were so many people and things that didn’t learn from, so why should we learn from “water”?
A boss who started from scratch once said: "Water has a broad mind and can accommodate everything in the world. It is neither rejected nor hypocritical, and has the courage to achieve great things."
In fact, few people can do the four words "not anxious or impatient", so how can they make big money or achieve careers?
The so-called "wealth does not enter the urgent door." No matter how eager you are to have money, as long as you are too impatient, you basically won't make much money, and you will continue to lose money, your mentality will become more and more irritable and your anger will appear frequently. This is not a good thing.
Before learning to make money, you must know how to learn to be a human being. Before you have wealth, you must learn to be quiet and cultivate yourself. Only when we are as calm as a big river and not anxious about the present, then we can always laugh to the end.
text/Shushan Youlu
