has a bottom line that others cannot touch. This bottom line relates to their self-esteem and cannot be touched at will. In fact, children are the same, so you must pay attention to the methods when educating children. The following methods are best not to be used.
1. Comparing children with other people's children
Although children are young, they also have their own ideas. When they make mistakes, it’s best not to compare them with other children. This will not only prevent the children from recognizing their mistakes, but may also make the children reject this "child from another family" from the bottom of their hearts. The method is to make them aware of their mistakes and correct them by giving them reason.
2. Criticize the child regardless of occasion
After having a child, parents will take the child with friends or go shopping, but because the child is young, the thoughts and behaviors are not mature enough, it is inevitable to do When something is wrong, some parents will accuse their children in front of outsiders.
Children generally do not think too much when doing things. If parents find that they have done something wrong, they will criticize and accuse them regardless of the situation. When they do other things, they will become timid and afraid of themselves. If you do something wrong, you will become less and less confident in the long run.
3. Treat the child's embarrassment as a conversation with others
Every child will have some embarrassment more or less in the process of growing up, such as bedwetting, talking in sleep, walking and falling. We feel funny when these things happen, but the feelings in children's hearts may be embarrassing and overwhelming. If the parents take these things out to laugh with others, the children may feel that their parents are laughing at themselves after they know it. This is a blow to them, and the children will become more and more inferior and introverted over time.
4. Being stubborn and not listening to children's excuses
children generally have no idea about what is right or wrong, they don't know what can or cannot be done, so they will make mistakes inadvertently. At this time, parents should not blindly criticize and educate their children, let alone give them the opportunity to explain. This will cause the children to have a rebellious psychology, and even if they have any thoughts, they will not speak again.
Appropriately listen to the children's views, you can understand their right and wrong concepts through the children's explanation. Parents can use another way to slowly guide their thinking after understanding their children's thinking patterns, so that they know what is right and wrong.
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