Before, I saw a news that a middle-aged man in his 30s actually began to study how to live his old age. Many netizens were very shocked at the beginning, but after a brief shock, everyone started to discuss how to live his old age?
I have to say that many people are very concerned about their old age and hope to have a good old age. However, eight or nine out of ten things in a person's life cannot be as they wish, and they cannot be controlled by themselves.
How are you living in your later years? It is not determined by your own personal will. In addition to yourself, it is also related to the people around you and the environment around you.
And some people will live in their later years, which has a lot to do with their choices when they were young. If these three signs appear in your life before retirement, your later years may be a bit hard.
1: Children are not filial
As the saying goes, three years old, seven years old, is a child filial or not? Actually, it can be seen very early.
If the child does not respect you very much in his daily relationship, he has no idea of filial piety, and even has a relatively irritable temper and loses his temper at any time.
When you get old, you have to rely on your children to live, and your life may be very difficult. Don’t say that you can live in a nursing home or a sanitation center. How can ordinary families have that condition?
Even for families with good conditions, many elderly people's money is taken away by their sons and daughters-in-law, and they have no money at all.
At this time, let alone going to a nursing home, you have to ask someone to buy something you like if you want to buy it. For example, there was an old lady who was very good when she was young. After retirement, she had a monthly pension of more than 10,000 yuan, but she was taken away by her son and daughter-in-law.
Because her husband passed away early, the old lady later found a wife, but her money was all in the hands of her son and daughter-in-law. She wanted to rent a house with her wife and had no place to live, so she had to break up.
I have paid so much for my children and family in my whole life, but it is really not worth it when I get old.
2: Unhealthy body
As the saying goes, a healthy body is the capital of revolution. Many people do not understand this sentence deeply enough when they were young, and even do not pay attention to their own health at all.
Some people joke about their own bodies and don’t take health seriously. They exchange their health for money in exchange for some meager income. Although some are forced to do so, sometimes there is no need to work so hard.
Own physical health is really important, because in this world, many people are unreliable except for themselves. Even if children are filial, they cannot be fully equipped.
Especially when you are not in such good health, you often have to rely on others to live. If you have stroke or have any other problems, you will be paralyzed or semi-paralyzed, and you will need someone to take care of yourself when you eat and go to the toilet.
The child may have taken good care of you at the beginning, but after a long time, no one has the patience or energy. There is no filial son in front of the bed for a long time. This sentence is not just for fun.
This is the personal experience of many people and the experience of our ancestors. Therefore, training more and having a good body is the guarantee of happiness for the elderly.
3: Family income is unstable
Children's income is unstable, or the children cannot make much money. No matter how powerful the parents are, they cannot be powerful for the rest of their lives. People will grow old for a day, and heroes will be old.
On the day when you can’t move, you often need to rely on your children to live. If the children become talented, their parents will be particularly noble and their lives will be particularly happy in their later years. If the children are unable to protect themselves and cannot eat enough, how can they be filial to their parents? Even if they have that intention, they do not have the ability.
Even if parents have some pension, it is often useless and a drop in the bucket. The pension for an elderly person to support the family is unrealistic and ugly.
Even if the pension is a lot, if the child is a giant baby, or the child is incompetent to ruin his property, even if the parents have a pension, they will use it to help the child wipe his fart and fill the holes.
Some parents have been tired all their lives. They wanted to have a good rest when they were old, but they still had to help their children pay off their debts. They are still working outside when they are old, which is really sad.
In fact, what will happen to a person's old age will be like? It has long been revealed from some details in life.
For example, for physical health, many people do not pay attention to taking care of their bodies when they are young, so when they get old, it is easy to affect their old age due to physical health issues.
So exercising is really a lifelong thing. Taking a few minutes to come out and move more, and playing with your phone less is actually a change.
The second is whether the child is filial and whether the child becomes talented. This is also a question about children's education. Many people do not pay attention to children's education when they are young.
usually doesn’t discipline your children very much, or spoils them too much, and in the end they can only eat bitter melon when they get old.
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