The night before yesterday, I finally tutored my eight-year-old son to do my homework. He asked him to wash up again. It was already 9:30 at night, and his son could fall asleep normally at around 10 o'clock in the evening. But that night, he couldn't sleep and lay in bed and tal

The night before yesterday, I finally tutored my eight-year-old son to do my homework. He asked him to wash up again. It was already 9:30 at night, and his son could fall asleep normally at around 10 o'clock in the evening.

But that night, he couldn't sleep and lay in bed and talked with me. My son is good at telling stories and can tell a small thing vividly. I think he still has some talent for storytelling.

He told me about the matter between school and classmates. Before I knew it was ten o'clock in the night.

I reminded him that he should go to bed, but he opened his big eyes, looked at me with some concern, and said carefully: "Dad, we are going to take math exam tomorrow. I am afraid that I will not do well in the exam, and the teacher will hit me."

My son's Chinese scores are better, and mathematics is his weakness. I don’t understand. He usually reacts very smartly, but sometimes he can’t react to mathematics. I wonder if he doesn’t listen carefully in class. I still can't make any mistakes for a moment. I'm a little sad about it, too.

But I had no better way, so I had to try my best to tutor him.

At this time, I felt a little sad when I heard him say this, because I didn’t know any better way to improve his math grades.

But I don’t want to put too much pressure on him. I think that as long as the child’s mind develops to a certain extent, he will naturally understand the little things in elementary school. As long as you maintain a good study habit, have an interest in learning, and do not hate learning, there should be no big problem.

Think about my son who went out early and came back late. It was a third-grade elementary school student who studied so hard. I really feel sorry for him.

However, he had to bear all this. After all, people are paying attention to education now. Whether it is good living conditions or bad, I try my best to strive for a better future through learning this path.

We are ordinary people, and we can only learn this way. Sometimes thinking about it, if there is no such path as the college entrance examination, it will only be more difficult for children at the bottom to change their destiny and will not see the hope of life.

Therefore, every family in the whole society is desperately competing for education.

Every day after school, I took his heavy schoolbag and felt heavy in my heart. Have our children been suffering too much weight of life that they shouldn’t have been borne?

Although many people are calling for children to relieve stress. Some policies have also been introduced. But is the effect really good? Also, are our educational forms and systems so perfect? Is it necessary to let all children with different natures and different specialties learn the same things and carry out comprehensive training? Can the so-called general education be shortened a little so that children can use their respective love and expertise earlier?

Thousands of years ago Confucius said that we should teach students according to our aptitude. But now thousands of years later, have we really done this?

Perhaps it is the obsession in human genes that pursue perfection. People always hope that their children can be literary and martial and achieve perfection, but this is obviously unrealistic. This society has become prosperous and beautiful because of the existence of people with different specialties.

With the anxiety of the whole society about children's education, the whole society seems to be in anxiety and silence competition. In order to help children learn better, some parents also adopt extreme accompanying reading management.

In our small county town, the rental houses near the high school are filled with many parents of students who accompany their children to high school.

Everything about them revolves around the children, and they bet on everything about the family for their children's learning.

Our anxiety is transmitted to children again, which invisibly makes them feel greater pressure.

For example, my son is a happy and carefree age, but he is anxious about the score that cannot determine everything every day.

It was not until after eleven o'clock that my son finally fell asleep.

But the next day, he woke up very early, opened his eyes and looked at me, "Dad! Am I going to be late? I'm going to take the exam today."

The exam he mentioned was actually a unit test. I don't think it's a big deal, but he is facing a big enemy.

I had to comfort him, "It's okay, just try your best. Don't worry too much!"

But my son said, "I don't want to always have poor grades. The teachers and classmates look down on me and don't like me."

I looked at him, "Don't worry too much, just be yourself. In this world, everyone is unique , As long as you live as yourself, you have to learn knowledge well, because in this way you can live a better life! "

The son nodded, "Okay, dad, I understand. I will work hard."

After breakfast, I watched my son walk towards the school with his heavy schoolbag on his back, and I looked at his thin body gradually disappearing from my sight, and there seemed to be tears of bitterness in my eyes.

In this era of anxiety in people’s hearts, how should we truly care for our children?

Cute kids, how can you get real happiness? Growing and learning happily and happily, what can we do?